My Roomie Very Selfish Inconsiderate

@Hatley (163776)
Garden Grove, California
December 26, 2015 3:37pm CST
yh caregiver came to help me shower O ur room is still very cold but it wa eaven o g et nder te hot water.But my care giver was arguing with Lyn my room and told her to go downstairs to use the bathroom but Lyn would not do so.So Sitting under the hot water waiting to be helped to bathe and Lynn forces her way in to sit on he throne and sits there and sits here for almost 45 minutes. I'm shaking with cold and need to dry off in the warmer bathroom warmed by the hot steam from the shower. She finally leaves and I get dried off. Im now aching from being wet and cold. She nonchalantly says:"Sorry." Well that doesn't really cut it as she is much younger and healthier than I am. I have never seen anyone who takes 45 minutes to do heir duty on the throne and i felt she was way out of line. I have had to go downstairs and use the residents bathroom as she monopolizes our restroom. I know she must have some emotional hang ups but surely being thoughtful of one's roommate should come naturally. I always try to be thoughtful towards her Your take my friends here vwas she not pretty thoughtless to take so long as I begged her to hurry up. I told her that I really needed dry off as I was getting chilled t
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Dec 15
wow!forty five minutes that is a long time there.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Dec 15
yes andI was all wet and shivering as our room has no heat in it and is mnly 50 outside no insulation in these Southern California buildings
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Dec 15
I can always tell when you are upset by the way you type. 45 minutes is rediiculous. I take a while but about 1/4 of that amount of time. I wish you could either talk to her in a tactful manner or write her a note. If you were both on the same page and had some agreement as to mutual treatment you might be happier.
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Dec 15
That is not right that she does that. Is their a shower somewhere else in the building that you could use.
@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
27 Dec 15
I have never seen someone taking so much to do their duties. She sit there simply to annoy you. She was selfish and unkind, so tonight do not listen to her and stay up as much as you want. Tell her, if she wants respect, she needs to do the same.
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
31 Dec 15
I would have been tempted to climb out anyways, she wanted privacy she could have gone elsewhere.
@NeldaHoxie (1381)
• United States
28 Dec 15
Was she reading or doing a crossword puzzle? She sounds like a terrible roomate.