Negative People Are Exhausting!
By Violet
@Violetx (38)
January 4, 2016 3:38pm CST
I went to dinner with a friend of mine and her work colleague, she had just split up from her partner and needed cheering up, hence the dinner.
We were chatting about this and that and everything my friend's colleague said was negative, even about some really small things like my friend was raving about a new conditioner (she struggles with her hair) and her colleague put her down saying how awful it was and it was full of chemicals. I mentioned my current studies and she said it was sad that I was working so hard to try and become another fat cat, then she turned the conversation to her work and the new things that have just been introduced.
Everything she mentioned sounded amazing and I was a little bit jealous, she slammed everything saying how the company was out to trap everyone and that there was a catch with everything - although she couldn't tell me any of the so called catches!
She had to leave early to collect her daughter, when she left I was relived and exhausted by her negativity. My friend said she was trying to do something nice for her and she was worse that this at work, my friend had hoped her colleague would be better outside of work.
She is not the only overly negative person I have met, it must be so exhausting for them to be like this all the time. I'm not exactly miss sunshine but wow
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Jan 16
Being around someone who's negative all the time is exhausting! I hope she gets out of her funk and that it doesn't last too long.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
4 Jan 16
@LovingMyBabies It is exhausting being around negative people, hoping it is not how she is all the time.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
5 Jan 16
Negative thinker are boring people. They will always find ways to find the negativities to stuffs.
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
4 Jan 16
I am not into that at all. It is entirely draining and I for the most part try to avoid the negativity.
It is exhausting alright.
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
5 Jan 16
Negative thinker are boring people. They will always find ways to find the negativities to stuffs.