Negative/Positive
By Tiff Gray
@T_gray (7774)
Salina, Kansas
January 7, 2016 5:02pm CST
No, I am not talking about a battery. I am talking about energy. Specifically energy that people give off.
Over the past few months I have noticed the different effects that the energy people give can have on me.
If some of you can remember, I had an unwanted guest in my house for a few weeks, about a month or so ago. In a nutshell, she was really bad news. She was stealing, and lying. I was pretty sure she was into drugs too. Well, the negative energy she was putting off was effecting me in such a bad way. I was sad, angry and on edge all the time. It was also making my dog very sick. You know how they say that animals can sense negative energy from people, well I truly believe that after that event.
On the other hand, my friend Beckey gives off such positive energy. When she walks into the room if feels like sunshine fills the room. My mood instantly lifts and I can't help but to feel happy.
I am not an overly angry or an overly happy person. But in each of these situations it was one extreme to the other.
From then on, I really try to surround myself with people who give off positive energy.
Can you sense the energy people give off? How does it make you feel? What are your thoughts on this?
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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7 Jan 16
Yes I sure many people can sense that kind of energy from people. I agree surround yourself with positive energy, it make you feel so much better.
Sorry to hear about your unwanted guest and doing what she was doing, that's not good.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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8 Jan 16
@T_gray Glad you have the right people in your life right now. Like you have said I'm getting to old for all the crap and wanted better.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jan 16
I do agree with you. When my cousin lived with us for a little bit she was also stealing from us and lying-just very sneaky all the time-about everything, even things that did not matter at all. I began to realize that I was getting jumpy and annoyed more easily with her there. It was not a good experience at all.
Absolutely people can give off positive or negative energy.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
8 Jan 16
I sense it so much that there are not many people I can be around for sure.
It is really affecting a person when people are so negative.
I sense it a lot. I am sorry you had that in your house.
You could burn some sage to get the negativity out of the house now.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
8 Jan 16
@T_gray Good that is a blessing.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
8 Jan 16
folks'll suck ya into their misery if'n they're allowed. saddened ya had to go through that ('n that poor pup) 'n hopefully yer gonna finds lots'f positive folks to keep ya feelin' fine.
sounds like i need to borrow ms. becky fer a bit 'n see if'n she could work her magic here.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
8 Jan 16
@T_gray the world jest needs more folks like her. so glad yer place's settled down :)
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
8 Jan 16
Yes, I can feel negative/positive energy from people also. Sometimes even not knowing the person I can sense a bad feeling although I try not to judge but it's just their actions.
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@just4him (317014)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Jan 16
Yes I can. When I'm around negative people for any length of time I'm negative and not a person anyone wants to be around. So yes, I do my best to be around positive people, it makes me positive too and I even feel good about myself.
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@righttotheheart (226)
• Delhi, India
8 Jan 16
My brother in laws wife always gives negative energy. Whenever she shows up i get ill or something bad happens to me!
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@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
8 Jan 16
yes,i do beleive in this and as smile begets smile,everybody effects everybody,same like if u r surrounded by good thinking people u will have ggod effect of them on u else the bad one .
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@Aleday (13)
• United States
8 Jan 16
Hi, I've been in stiutations like that, and honeslty ive learned as long as we close are self in letting that vibe come in we are set!
Tell yourself why am I going to get in the same level as them? why should I be unhappy cause of them? why do I care if they don't like me? I shall smile and send out nothing but love.
just stay positive and happy, take it for a run, sing out loud, laugh, invite becky over, or call her whatever it is annoy them with happiness.
hope everything goes well, and remember you are the only person who chooses to be happy!despite all the bad vibes, put that crown on and smile it off like a boss (;
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
8 Jan 16
I think that had to be the best thing I have read all day. Thank you for the advice. That is all very true. I do need to not let them take over my mind. and you are very right that I am the only one who chooses weather I am happy. Thanks for all that
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@monalica (113)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jan 16
The positive and negative energy always affect our life and mind .The positivity fulfill ourselves in our work, in attitude , in our beauty ,in our relations but the negativity pushes to us in a mud of thoughts ,laziness,so many otherbad activities.
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