A Terrifying Experience For A Little Girl

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By Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
United Kingdom
January 11, 2016 11:28am CST
PainsOnSlate and I were discussing hospitals and she stirred up this memory, - it turns out that both she and I had our tonsils removed when we were children. I remember lying on the operating table and being absolutely terrified as a large masked man came towards me. He proceeded to cover my nose and mouth with a cloth while a nurse held me down, and I recall struggling for all I was worth until I lost consciousness. The cloth was impregnated with chloroform, which was the recognised form of anaesthesia in those days. It seems such a barbaric way to do it, but this was some 70 years ago. Fast forward to last year when I had my hip replaced. The anaesthetist gently inserted a needle into the back of my hand and told me to count to 10. I think I got as far as number 3 before I was 'under'. How times have changed.
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@LadyDuck (470819)
• Switzerland
11 Jan 16
I had chloroform when I broke a elbow and I was 6 years old. It was barbaric and I remember I was scared, I was in pain and I wanted my Mom.
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@LadyDuck (470819)
• Switzerland
11 Jan 16
@jaboUK No the Italians hospitals are not very kind toward the children. My Mom was not there, I waited hours in a small cold room before they took care of me. I was so scared.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@LadyDuck It seems a terrible way to treat a small child, doesn't it?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@LadyDuck Nowadays I think parents are allowed to be present when a child is anaethetised, but I'm pretty sure that didn't used to be the case. I've no recollection of my mother being there, but I'm not 100% sure. Your mother obviously wasn't there either.
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@just4him (317004)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Jan 16
I had my tonsils removed when I was 5. All I remember is the doctor promising me ice cream when I woke up. It can be a terrifying experience, especially how you underwent it. I think I would have been terrified too. My doctor must have been compassionate.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@just4him You aren't as old as me, so perhaps things had improved by the time you had your operation.
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@just4him (317004)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Jan 16
@jaboUK True. Eight years can make a world of difference in medicine.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
11 Jan 16
Ice cream was common offering in those times
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@GardenGerty (160491)
• United States
13 Jan 16
I think they did not explain things to children either. Now there are even techniques where they use toys to act out what will happen. It is not like you were having and emergency procedure where they could not explain.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
25 Jan 16
@Daljinder Sometimes I wish they would not explain the step by step process, it can give nightmares.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 16
@GardenGerty It's so much better now isn't it? I was bewildered and terrified, and nothing was explained to me.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
25 Jan 16
@pgiblett Lol!! I wouldn't even manage to make up to that stage...You can always ask the doctor to just "rip it off like a band aid". It will be quick surely...
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@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
12 Jan 16
I don't even remember getting my tonsils taken out but I did--I remember the ice cream after!!! LOL Today 'old' people have a big problem with anesthesia--it can have affect hearing, seeing and/or speaking!! I know from personal experience and now I dread when I have to 'go under'!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@GreatMartin A lot of people have mentioned the ice cream - I have no memory of that at all. Regarding old people having a problem going 'under' - as I said in the post it was no problem to me, either the actual anaesthetic (English spelling!) or any time afterwards. Just lucky I suppose
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jan 16
I was promised ice-cream after but it never eventuated - another very sore point (no pun intended).
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
12 Jan 16
oh how frightening that must have been - I am so glad that I live in a new medical age. I am hoping that they find some easier way to do cataracts before I ever have to go because I would not be able to lie there and see them tear the cataract off my eye while watching. No No No
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@Inlemay My husband had his cataracts done and he said it wasn't too bad. Like you though, I'd hate to have anything done to my eyes.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
11 Jan 16
I had my tonsils out when I was eleven or twelve years old. I remember having it done in the Doctor's office as we lived in a small village and there was no hospital. They gave me ether and I will never forget the experience. I remember being very sick when I woke up. Like you say, they have much better methods today.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@AnneEJ They used to think taking tonsils out was a cure-all for everything in those days, didn't they? I don't know what the difference is between ether and chloroform, but they both did the same job.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
11 Jan 16
@jaboUK I was very sick the winter before I had mine out, so it was a necessary operation.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@AnneEJ I don't remember being ill, but I may have been. It's just that nearly all children had this operation, in the 1940s anyway.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50089)
• United States
12 Jan 16
Thank goodness for modern technology.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@Tampa_girl7 It really does make having an operation more comfortable.
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@amnabas (13742)
• Karachi, Pakistan
11 Jan 16
Absolutely right. You made me recalled my surgery for appendix. It was horrible and then to get bandaged the wound after two to three days.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@amnabas Did you have chloroform for your surgery?
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
11 Jan 16
That must have been awful, Janet. Thank goodness now it is just an injection @jaboUK .
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@bluesa Yes, it's a piece of cake nowadays, as compared with when I went through this.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Jan 16
@DaddyEvil You be careful or I'll get my pet dinosaur to gobble you up!
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
15 Jan 16
@jaboUK When I was young(er), Janet, and mom talked about things of yesteryear, I would ask her if dinosaurs still walked the Earth when whatever she was talking about happened.... I am curious if you can catch me to smack the back of my head if I ask you the same question, ma'am? OH! You might ask @bluesa who put me up to this, if you want another target!?
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Jan 16
LOL . . that reminds me when I was a kid, @Jabo ! In the Philippines rapists, when computers were still the abacus, used chloroform to get their victims unconscious.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 16
@sol_cee You can learn so much here . It's good to see you again, I've missed you
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@antonbunot Cripes - did they really use chloroform for that??
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
13 Jan 16
I remember seeing that on TV. Mustached goons with hankies and pretty girls going UNDER in no time. (Learned that new expression today.)
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
Thank God things have moved on a bit. It is definitely less traumatic these days.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
Too true Gary - I was only about 6 years old, but I really do remember struggling. It was a horrible experience.
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@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
11 Jan 16
I had mine removed when I was 5. They gave me a shot in the room to put me to sleep. I remember fighting with them over this and it was horrible.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@poehere I suppose we were too little to understand things properly, so it was natural for us to be scared. At least you didn't have that horrible cloth over your face.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@poehere Oh poor you - and a net over the top of the crib? That must have been horrible. I can't remember much about after my op.
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@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
12 Jan 16
@jaboUK I just remember they gave me some shot to put me to sleep. I woke up in some large size crib is what I called it with some net over the top of it. It was horrible and not a good place to be. I recall this one for sure. I also remember them asking me to talk and I couldn't. My tongue was swelled up in my mouth and I couldn't move it at all. It appears that it got cut somehow during the operation from what they said. It two a few days for the swelling to go down and they made me stay there in the hospital until it did.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
12 Jan 16
Holy crap @jaboUK , as a kid that would be terrifying. I still have all my body parts (except my appendix which ruptured 5 years ago). I've never been put 'under' except for that time.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@nanette64 You would have benefitted from the modern technology if you had that burst appendix only 5 years ago
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@nanette64 Three days! Did you not realise that you were seriously ill?
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
13 Jan 16
@jaboUK I thought I just had gastritis until the full bloated feeling relegated itself to the lower right quadrant and I was vomiting bile. I think what made it explode was me having to take one of the 65-pound dogs off the roof of his 6-ft tall enclosure back in the kennels.
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jan 16
I can still remember the smell of the chloroform. I had my tonsils and adenoids removed as a young child too.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@JudyEv Oh my goodness - a chloroform cloth would be better than being awake. (You are the only one of my commenters to spell anaesthetic the same as me!)
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@JudyEv I wonder why they were so keen to remove them? Nearly all of us had it done in those days, didn't we?
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jan 16
@jaboUK It seemed to be standard procedure back then. I read, in a novel, a terrible description of it being done before the days of anaesthetic. Horrifying stuff.
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@allknowing (135331)
• India
12 Jan 16
I did have my appendix removed when I was around 17. I was on local anesthesia. The doctors carried on a conversation with me when they were doing that operation. They also showed me my ruptured appendix.
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@allknowing (135331)
• India
12 Jan 16
@jaboUK But I did not feel anything as the doctors and nurses were very friendly and joking with me while at it
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@allknowing I wouldn't have liked local anaesthesia - eek!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@allknowing I'm glad about that, but I don't like the idea of it. They offered me an epidural when I had my hip done, but I didn't fancy hearing them sawing through my bone!
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
12 Jan 16
I really hate being put under, it never goes well for me but I still have my tonsils.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
12 Jan 16
@jaboUK I come out too soon and my lungs don't work, or I throw up, I felt the cut when they did my caesarians even though I was under and I remembered it when I woke up. I have never had a good experience which is why I will never have it again if I can avoid it.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@BelleStarr Oh, in those circumstances I don't blame you!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
12 Jan 16
@BelleStarr - They just seemed to whip out the tonsils at the drop of a hat in those days. (I've just realised that figure of speech looks a bit odd when written like that - drop of a hat!) When you say it never goes well, do you mean you feel bad when you come out of it?
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
14 Jan 16
i know and i am glad that i didn't have to grow up then. this post made me think of Electric shock therapy no thank you!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Jan 16
@lokisdad That shock therapy was awful, you are right. I never knew anybody that had it fortunately.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
14 Jan 16
@jaboUK i keep thinking of course it worked you fried their brain now that part doesn't work its off so they won't be doing whatever it was that annoyed you if you didn't kill them.
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
15 Jan 16
@lokisdad @jaboUK Oh, my! I do know a lady who was in an asylum after she was shot with a .22 caliber bullet straight into her brain. The bullet didn't kill her, but it did split her brain into two separate lobes with no ties between the two halves... The doctors gave her electro-therapy treatments trying to get her brain to bridge the gap between the two halves again. It didn't work... She slowly relearned how to feed herself and dress herself, but when you spoke with her, you were talking to a four year old child. She couldn't stand seeing socks when she was released from the asylum... She was my brother's mother-in-law. My brother and his wife finally decided that a sock with a bar of soap or an orange in it was the way the people at the asylum punished her if she made any mistakes while relearning things! How barbaric was THAT?!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
13 Jan 16
Good god! Smell my handkerchief... Does this smell like chloroform?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 16
@Dropsophila It had better not or I would suspect you of nefarious intent
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
15 Jan 16
@jaboUK Be careful there, Janet! @Drosophila probably DOES have chloroform on her handkerchief! She's trying to kidnap you and hold you for ransom! Do you know how much ransom she could demand and receive if she took you from myLot and people here didn't get their "fix" of your poetry? OMG! She could demand everything we all make here and probably would get it, too!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
13 Jan 16
@jaboUK lol..yep, but what a horrible experience at the hospital
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Jan 16
With kids (and probably adults), knowing what will happen reduces anxiety. I actually "play" dentist with 4s and 5s when they're going to go to the dentist. I let them know what's going to happen, so it will be familiar and predictable when they're actually there among the scary strangers.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 16
@TheHorse That's a brilliant thing to do with those children, it must make it so much easier for them.
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
20 Jan 16
That is a really great thing to do for them, @TheHorse ! I am glad I am not the only one who has done that! (Sometimes my nieces and nephews ask me questions they are scared to ask their parents or their parents are too busy to answer for them. Now, my great nieces and nephews come to me to ask questions, too.)
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 16
@jaboUK I do think it helps.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
11 Jan 16
Well I just learned something new today. I never really put much thought into what chloroform was used for so I never thought that it was a method to be put to sleep before surgery. And especially the way you just explained it. I mean I know what chloroform is but...just never thought about what it was used for exactly. I just always assumed it was the mask or a needle. I've never had surgery before but the whole idea of being forced to sleep scares me a bit to be honest.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 16
@VivaLaDani13 It's so good that we can learn from this site, isn't it? I'm fortunate in that I've hardly had any surgery apart from what I describe here, and for my hip last year. But believe me, if you need surgery you are far better to be asleep!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 16
@Daljinder I didn't know that until reading about it in the comments here.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
13 Jan 16
Chloroform is very popular among kidnappers LOL!
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