CAN'T WE LOVE TWO OR MORE AT THE SAME TIME?

India
November 24, 2006 7:01am CST
usualy, we are taught to share love with all, then why, when it comes to the question of boyfriend/girlfriend we are bound to have only one?
7 responses
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 06
It's the commitment. It's the different kind of love. (should be taught about that, rite?) love of parents, love of family, love of friendship, love of lovers are DIFFERENT.
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• India
25 Nov 06
love is not a compromise, then how does commitment comes into this matter?
• India
25 Nov 06
to love many is not a "play"! it is only possible for those, who has the power to love all! why are u synchronising, love with flirt! and what is commitment! love, can't be differentiated. those who love anyone are all lovers, is'nt it? and what is commitment, sorry i should'nt have use the word comprosise, one can commit, that he/she will not leave each other's partners away, but tell me truelu, can they commit, that they will not love another person. love is not switch, to put it at on or off position, how one can just sp his feelings!
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
25 Nov 06
Love need some sacrifice sometimes, let alone compromise. Loves comes first then only you commit. some people totally have not idea of responsibility, mutual respect & true love. I didn't say one cant love many, u can have a bundle of lovers, it's your choice, nobody could stop you to 'play' around, but you should commit to one of them. I am trying to make u understand the teaching you received is meant such way.
• India
24 Nov 06
s ofcource u can love more thsn two also prvided u can manage them from time to time ans u have a lot of money
• India
25 Nov 06
it's the best answer i got!
• India
25 Nov 06
it's the best answer i got!
• Singapore
24 Nov 06
true..we are taught to love everyone..but we are also taught to be faithful to the one we love, as we expect loyalty from them too.. ;0)
• India
25 Nov 06
hey! what do u mean by faithfulness? a faithful man can always be faithful to all! but if u are telling that faithful means, that to give all my love to her, it's not a question of faithfulness, it's somewhat selfishness!
• Singapore
25 Nov 06
oh! so you are saying that it's selfish to only love one person...well! then happy sharing!
• India
25 Nov 06
thanx! u ar telling the truth!
@binitkedia (1172)
• India
25 Nov 06
why not?
• India
25 Nov 06
ok!
@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
25 Nov 06
Yeah we should love everybody but you must be faithful to your partner for you dont also want partner to be unfaithful to youv isnt?
• India
25 Nov 06
hey! why are u synchronising, that loving two or more is just being unfaithful to them?
24 Nov 06
Why not? The monogamy is a history.
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• India
25 Nov 06
i can understand, but u must justify it!
@yatin110 (25)
• United States
24 Nov 06
I think thats not correct ,,, Its trust what u share in a relaionship like LOve....
• India
25 Nov 06
who says that i am not trusty to all my lovers?