Passwords

@AnneEJ (4917)
Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
January 18, 2016 1:51pm CST
I just read an interesting article on the web about a woman who tried to obtain her husband's password after he passed away and had a lot of problems getting it. This is something new that we have to consider in our day, that was not a problem in the past. When I think of all the different sites I go into and the different passwords I have, I wonder how will my children get the information they need when I am gone. I keep a list of my passwords, and have told my daughter where to find them, along with all my other important information. So, I have to remember, when I change a password, I need to change it on my list as well. Have you done anything to ensure that your family will have access to your computer files in the event of your death?
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@jaboUK (64350)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 16
My daughter has my passwords.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
18 Jan 16
The need to change our passwords often, means keeping the list up to date.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
@ataboy I try to change my Banking one and other important ones periodically. Just had to change one last week, because of a problem.
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@ataboy (737)
• United States
19 Jan 16
Not speaking to Jabo, specifically, of course, but how many people do you think EVER change their passwords, @AnneEJ ? I have no numbers but not many at all. And they usually just go back and forth between one or two anyway! But we all know better, everyone can weigh their own options as they like against the perceivable threats!
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
18 Jan 16
It is good to keep a list and let next of kin know where it is and keep it up to date
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
18 Jan 16
It could probably save a lot of confusion.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
@ataboy That sounds interesting. I know I have a note to give to a person if anything happens to his parents, telling him where to find the key to access information.
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@ataboy (737)
• United States
19 Jan 16
A great place for the most important numbers and so forth is sometimes in a magnetic pocket on your refrigerator. It may also reference where any other materials can be located in another room or something like that, for instance!
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• United States
18 Jan 16
I have so many passwords, I myself cannot even remember.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
18 Jan 16
That is why I keep a list, as I have a lot of different passwords
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@ataboy (737)
• United States
19 Jan 16
Right on, @infatuatedbby! And if you do change then relatively often and include upper/lowers/numbers/symbols and TRY not to repeat them....impossible! Then I have to reset my passwords constantly, since I can't remember them. By the way, that's why it's best to use several main emails that are unassociated. If all of your accounts can simply be reset to one email address for many accounts, then there becomes but a single password that one needs to breach. And believe me, the second they are in the password has been changed and they are hitting all the key sites looking for material related to email names/addys! But it's hard to do! Oh and: password computer 12345 1234 123456 1234567890 qwert are ALL terrible passwords, and almost all still on the top ten list, even with many sites forcing strongly written codes! Can you believe that!
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• United States
19 Jan 16
@ataboy Oh yes, I try to make my passwords harder than "password, computer, or numbers in sequence"
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@Juliaacv (52924)
• Canada
19 Jan 16
The experts advise that we should leave a listing of our logins and passwords for various sites that we may have accounts for. I have such a list, just to be on the safe side.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
It could save our family a lot of headaches
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
19 Jan 16
This really could cause some complications-Most of us have probably not given much thought to letting a family member know about our passwords.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
It's something to think about, isn't it?
• United States
18 Jan 16
I have my passwords written down where my daughter knows where they are. Even if I"m just sick and not able to access my banking she can still do it for me
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• United States
18 Jan 16
@AnneEJ definitely has to be in a safe place. I don't leave my passwords out in the open
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
18 Jan 16
That is a good idea as long as our list is kept in a safe place
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@youless (112916)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Jan 16
In fact I tell my passwords to my husband. I just wonder whether he can keep it in mind. But you are right, it is better to write it down as a list so that it will be less troublesome for my family.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
If we are changing them frequently, we need to change our list
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@zebra2222 (5268)
• United States
19 Jan 16
That is an issue that needs to be faced. Keeping passwords available for family is important.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
Glad you agree with me.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jan 16
That is a wise idea. We never know what will happen so we have to really give our children and even our husband those vital information.
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@ataboy (737)
• United States
19 Jan 16
Better today than tomorrow, too! It's easier to put off...well for some of us at least (I don't mean to speak for you!)
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@jstory07 (143068)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19 Jan 16
My husband knows all of my passwords and i know all of his. Our oldest son knows them to.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
As long as someone knows them, it should eliminate any problems
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@LeaPea2417 (37724)
• Toccoa, Georgia
19 Jan 16
I have thought about it but I need to think about it more seriously.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
Worth looking into
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@LadyDuck (472710)
• Switzerland
19 Jan 16
I have a crypted file on my computer with all my passwords, my husband know how to decrypt it.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
@ataboy Something to think about, thanks for the warning
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@ataboy (737)
• United States
19 Jan 16
You're quite welcome, @AnneEJ.
@ataboy (737)
• United States
22 Jan 16
@LadyDuck I hate to say it, but that would only prevent some of the tactics that are used by such people. It's often pretty easy to slip some freshly-coded trojan past most antivirus/antimalware applications and onto the computer. It then deploys a payload that searches for encryption technology signatures that can be accessed from that computer, not from the internet anymore at that stage. If you're ext drive is always connected it will find it pretty quickly usually and toss it back to a covert IP address for storage until the individual retrieves it, anonymously from that OL location. If you do go through the hassle of connecting and disconnecting the drive each time you use it, the hidden scanner will often be designed to wait for new drives to be added, or else just constantly scan in a "dumb" manner, but in either case it can grab a copy of the file at that time, and pretty fast too, since it's not very much data. Then it transmits it back across the net when and as it's designed to do. This is just one of many methods that such a password encrypted archive does still remain vulnerable to under the scenario you are describing. And this type of data are often considered the holy-grail of "scores", since they are often like skeleton keys to a lot of things a hacker desires. Furthermore, the encryption app often offers a sense of more security than they truly provide (as I said before there are some hardware based exceptions to this, but they are usually pretty expensive and generally used only in business. I do apologize if I come across as argumentative or anything like that, I assure you I don't mean to. I just feel it wouldn't be right to not tell you that it's still less safe than you (and most intelligent people) might believe it to be.
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@JudyEv (350351)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Jan 16
Vince was executor for his SIL. Her husband didn't know the passwords for her bank accounts, etc and it was a nightmare for a few weeks. It all got sorted in the end.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
19 Jan 16
It is easy to see how it could be a problem
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@OKennedy (1130)
• United States
22 Feb 16
I think we all try to do our best to maintain a balance of privacy and access to the pertinent information. I keep important documentation copied and in a safe place within the home. In the even that something happened like a house fire we wouldn't lose it there are copies. There are people that can give us any copies they have saved for us. As for online stuff the passwords have hints the hints are something that only they would know. This way nobody has the passwords and they know what it is.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
19 Jan 16
Yes, I have a Word document containing all relevant data. Naturally the document is password protected and never stored on my computer for security reasons. I always create very extreme passwords that cannot be guessed or found by trial and error.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
22 Jan 16
I have also more passwords to different sites. I used to forget some password in time.
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@DianneN (247166)
• United States
19 Jan 16
Yes, I have made a list for each son. Unfortunately, I have to keep updating it! They have access to all our accounts, if necessary. One of my sisters-in-law provided all her pertinent info to us.
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@JESSY3236 (20369)
• United States
2 Feb 16
My great-aunt has a book that keeps her passwords. I have written some of mine down, but I mostly have them in my head. I know it's important to have that information for family too.