Why are all the good ones taken?!

Hi There, In my opinion, it sounds like you are attracted to the ones that are already taken because when you get to know them, they tell you right up front they are taken since it is a normal flow of conversation. (What do you like to do? Whose your favorite band? Do you like to drink?) When you subconsciously get this information, your mind tells you this guy is great because he committed himself and that is what you wanted all along for yourself. This is very normal and for most women around the world this fills a very basic need - stability. However, you then come to the conclusion that all the good ones are taken because you don't realize that you are gravitating to the men that you found out are taken since you feel very connected with that committed emotion, My advice (if you aren't rolling your eyes at me ;P) is that you stop wondering when you will find love and let love find you. Do what you want to do and commit yourself to an ideal, a job, a animal or whatever your passionate about and before you know it, Mr Right was always there because he enjoyed your passion right along with you. P.s - if you really want to know where to find all the uncommitted men that are worth it, start talking to those guys that are taken because we generally hang out in packs! They are bound to have a brother or friend that feels the same way they do!

i feel you girl! i got stuck too having crush to someone who are taken.

It is maybe your destiny or you haven't or he haven't found you "the one'.I also felt that sometimes.

I know how you feel! My stupidity and rant I spent the last year with this guy going back and forth, yet he can't make up his mind. Not that he is with anyone else but I felt we really hit it off, and then suddenly he got scared and ran off.