Is "Political Correctness" just good manners by another name?
@JamesHxstatic (29413)
Eugene, Oregon
January 23, 2016 10:35am CST
Mr. Muddle says that he read here and on FB too, many complaints about what we call "political correctness." “But, he asked me, “What is really wrong with it?”
He went on to explain his question, “It is simply bad manners, to say the least, to use racial slurs, to belittle someone for the way they look, to make fun of another person's religion (or lack thereof). It is not at all nice to condemn another human being because they are gay. Because someone is mentally or physically challenged in some way does not excuse any of us from calling them names.
A lot of us learned good manners from our mothers. Religious people of the Christian faith, probably all faiths, find rules in their teachings about how to treat people.
So, where has PC gone too far, gone mad or off the deep end? How is PC different from the Golden Rule? (Look it up if you don't remember it.)
I just don't get it, Mr. Muddle continued, “What is wrong with not being verbally offensive? Is there a difference in political correctness and simple courtesy toward others?”
Mr. Muddle has a point, I think, and I must help him muddle through this confusion. What do you think?
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@FourWalls (68121)
• United States
23 Jan 16
I think "political correctness language" is stupid. It's impolite to call a disabled person a "gimp" but it's downright stupid to call a disabled person "differently abled" or "challenged." I have respiratory disabilities, so just how is a "different ability" to freaking BREATHE??? And calling American Indians "native Americans," sheesh. What do you call someone who was born in Minnesota, Arizona, Tennessee, or Ohio? They are "native Americans." (For the record, I'm part Eastern Band Cherokee.)
I would also say that it is perfectly acceptable in modern society to make fun of religious beliefs, Christianity in particular. "Fundamentalist kooks," "Baptist weirdos," "religious nuts," etc. are uttered all the time...and nobody calls the people saying it on it. We accept that type of insult as "normal."
The bottom line: America has lost its sense of humor. We can't see Speedy Gonzalas cartoons because someone who is not Spanish is offended (and hasn't ever asked anyone of Spanish descent if they're offended). Speedy Gonzalas cartoons are loved in Latin America (which is another term I don't get -- "Latin" is a language from Italy, not Central America!), but we can't see them in the U.S. because someone who isn't part of the "minority group" depicted in the cartoons has their panties in a bunch.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
23 Jan 16
Interesting point of view and one that I expected to elicit, really. I think that people who openly ridicule any religion (though I am sometimes guilty of it) are rude. Most Native Americans do object to being called "Indians," I think.
The movement objecting to the word "handicapped" did not originate with government, but with people subject to various 'challenges.
Thanks for your response. It is a good contrast of points of view.
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@HarishSubramanian (93)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
2 Mar 16
I only disagree with the American Indians part. They got that name because Columbus thought he reached a different place (India). They should be called Native Americans because that makes more sense.
Also, Redskins and Red Indians are stupid names. I've never seen a guy with red skin complexion.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
23 Jan 16
@JamesHxstatic There were some people objecting to us calling Christmas by it's name.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
23 Jan 16
Hmmm, I can't think of examples of that, @jabo.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Jan 16
@jaboUK Ohh, well that is silly. I like to say "happy holidays" though, just to be inclusive.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
23 Jan 16
Not to me it isn't. I edited his name out of my original piece, just to avoid the appearance of partisan politics, but he is the poster boy for rude political speech.
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@sallypup (61172)
• Centralia, Washington
23 Jan 16
@JamesHxstatic He must have been a demanding little banker boy when he was a kid.
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@DeborahDiane (40295)
• Laguna Woods, California
24 Jan 16
I agree that there is a lot he could learn from a little political correctness ... and Sarah Palin, too. Today, Donald Trump said he could shoot someone in the middle of 5th Avenue in New York, and he wouldn't lose any votes. All I can say is, "Wow."
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@jillybean1222 (6407)
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23 Jan 16
There are times that I feel people are being overly politically correct, though at this tired, sleepy moment, I cannot think of examples.
I think kindness should be the norm. I think rudeness is always incorrect.
However, I do agree with the response about sometimes people taking things too seriously and lacking a sense of humor.
As a mother, I always tell my kids that it is no longer "funny" if the other person doesn't like it or if it hurts their feelings. (in response to "I was JUST joking mom!" about whatever meanness wash happening between siblings)... So I think that's sort of wherein the problem may lie.... Some people maybe aren't trying to belittle someone, but others may take it that way. And therefore, if it is viewed wrong, then they should stop. It used to be ok to sexually harass women in the workplace (to an extent) and that obviously had to change.
As in the response about Indians versus Native Americans, I should ask my extended family. We have Cherokee blood in us, my cousin is more than half, my mom is something like 1/8 or so... But I do wonder how my cousin would view it.
I sometimes think it goes a bit too far when people think we shouldn't have something as a mascot, for example The Indians or The Chiefs.... Usually, a mascot is a character of which the town is proud.... so I don't always understand why folks get upset on that particular point.
But being unkind, being rude, being prejudice, being hurtful... those are all wrong, all of the time.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Jan 16
Thanks, @jillybean, for the response. I can see where traditional Native American people would be upset with a lot of sports though. I know that women in the workplace were in a tough spot when I entered it, seems like a hundred years ago.
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@DeborahDiane (40295)
• Laguna Woods, California
24 Jan 16
@jillybean and @JamesHxstatic - I have always told my children that there is no humor in making fun of other people. If we want to joke about something, joke about our own foibles or silly things that almost everyone does.
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@DeborahDiane (40295)
• Laguna Woods, California
24 Jan 16
I agree with Mr. Muddle whole-heartedly. When certain political leaders criticize others for being "politically correct," I find myself agreeing with the ones they are criticizing, NOT the ones who are complaining about political correctness. I see nothing wrong with being politically correct. It was the way I was raised ... to be kind and considerate in the things I say. I always thought most other Christians and members of other religions were raised the same way ... but apparently not.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Jan 16
That seems logical to me. Some who complain the most seem to want to be free to say whatever insulting remark that comes into their head.
@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Jun 16
Thanks for commenting. There was some dissension, lol.
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