She is not thinking overall
@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
January 24, 2016 10:33am CST
My friend who was dating this girl, but they broke up. This girlfriend of hers (which I have never met, and she makes excuses to not meet me), is very controlling and manipulating. I know there are two sides of the story but this girl sounds like a nut job ready to blow.
My friend and I got together a couple weekends ago, and she sounded very upset. I told her noone is worth taking your happiness away, and this is what this girl is doing.
I think most of the issue is she lives int he city, and just moved there. This is the only person she really knows, I said then go out and meet other people. This girl even told her she has dreams of hurting her in her sleep. I for one wouldn't be sleeping at her place,this girl blames her for everything down to her job.
Well she called in sick Monday as this girl kept her up 'talking', well again Friday she called in sick. I told her your going to get fired, they already demotted you because of this, and next step is out the door.
I told her what I thought and she did listen but then this girl shows back up, and she's starts the cycle again.
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
24 Jan 16
Sometimes you have to let your friend make their own mistakes and just hope for the best. But voice your opinion in this situation as much as possible because that does sounds semi dangerous if you ask me
But of course that's just my opinion. That situation sounds really bad
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 Jan 16
I completely agree especially when this girl refuses to meet me. I have said nothing about her, nor can I because I haven't met her. But the way she treats her, and downgrades her. I've seen the texts from her and that alone. Plus, the fact she is saying she is having dreams she is hurting her and they keep getting worse.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 Jan 16
@T_gray I hope so I think it has to get worse before it will get any better.
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
24 Jan 16
@ricki_911 Well I sure hope no one gets hurt either physically or emotionally
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 Jan 16
That is what I told her. She broke up with her long term boyfriend of 7 years, and got with this girl. I told her I think she needs to just be single, and enjoy herself. But she needs someone.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Jan 16
wow she should not let this girl control her l ike that as no bodyhas the right to dictate to you what you should or should not do. She needs to find a better fri nd and ditch that one.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 Jan 16
I completely agree. She was ignoring the girl, and doing her own thing. But lately she's gone back to listening to her and pitty her. I said the fact your life is affected by it, and your allow it to happen. This girl is really negative, and downgrading her so she goes to her level, or needs her.
@kashifshah100 (7)
• Islamabad, Pakistan
24 Jan 16
life teach us lessons and hurting some one is not good job especially those who are near your heart
