Love,Fear,Pain,Hate, and women

Rotterdam, Netherlands
February 10, 2016 12:02pm CST
Hell knows no fury like the wrath of a scorned woman. A statement I've heard so many times but never really understood till just a few months ago. My best friend Lee was going out with this girl, lets call her "Jil". See Jil and Lee seemed like the perfect couple. But then again doesn't every couple in the honeymoon stages. I like to call this the LOVE stage. They did everything together and honestly, i started to feel a little uncomfortable because i though i wasn't putting in enough in my own relationship. Basically I wanted what they had. Like every relationship we have the little fights that come creeping in.1year 6 months down the line Lee and jil's relationship didn't seem as beautiful anymore. Of course they had their reasons but the beautiful display of affection started to look more like FEAR. I couldn't put my finger on it but they look they gave each other changed. While at a party i pulled Lee to the side and asked him how everything is going and he failed to give a straight response, so i asked him "lee, am like your brother. Whats going on? " so he ironed out his story with me and well that seemingly perfect relationship was full of flaws. They were fighting everyday and hurting each other constantly.PAIN was all they caused each other but Jil masked it well. Underneath all those smiles and fake Hellos , laid a broken woman. With all that was going on in their relationship, Lee cheated and got caught. All that fear and pain quickly turned to HATE. Her mask broke and with it a flood of emotions and anger flowed. She burned down the kitchen in their apartment, nearly stabbed him to death and almost committed suicide in the same week.WOMEN are beautiful, intelligent,powerful and independent but they are also human and only so much they can take, after all they only human . Don't push them to the point of breaking because as powerful as they maybe they are also fragile, so handle with caution. whats your story, i'd love to hear it
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
10 Feb 16
When my ex spouse cheated, I just cried a lot and couldn't eat anything. Burning stuff down and stabbing people is much too extreme. I hope she got help with that.
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• Rotterdam, Netherlands
11 Feb 16
@cupkitties She was rehabilitated, its just really sad that someone could be pushed to that point. I never understood why she just didn't walk away when things got difficult.
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• United States
11 Feb 16
That equates to failure for some and it can be very hard for them to handle. Our society doesn't exactly help with that either. We need to stop rebuking people who do have the courage to leave.I think most of us don't realize when we do things like complain about divorce/divorcees we're just making life more difficult for people who don't have any other choice such as abuse victims or abandoned spouses.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 Feb 16
Sorry,I guess this is for straight people.Interesting there.Good luck with the response
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• Rotterdam, Netherlands
10 Feb 16
i would love to hear your story, weather bisexual or homosexual we all feel pain and respond differently.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
11 Feb 16
Family fighting should solve in the beginning. If not it will grow in to a wide gap. No one is perfect and adjustments is the remedy.