Met Another Internet Friend

@BelleStarr (61102)
United States
February 13, 2016 8:56am CST
Yesterday Al and I drove 48 miles to Brooksville to meet up with someone I have known on the Internet for many years. She used to write on Associated Content and then Bubblews. We have had many discussions over the years and I suggested that we meet.We both have blogs on Blogger as well. She picked the place, a tea room and it was adorable. We had a great time getting to know each other in person and I think we may have started what will be a yearly tradition. I have been suggesting she join up here and she has. I am sure many of you may know her, @jeanniemaries.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
13 Feb 16
Despite being online for a very long while, I cannot recollect ever meeting an online friend in person. In reality I may have spoken to some of them or even know then well, but I am not aware of the connection.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
13 Feb 16
I have done it many times over the years and I have always had a good experience. I do however make sure it is someone I feel I know quite well. I have met two Internet friends in England, one at a pub in London and another at a pub down in Wiltshire I think. Lots of fun both times. Both guys are travel writers.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
13 Feb 16
@BelleStarr It does not surprise me that on both occasions that you met an English person it was in a pub. This is always the most likely place to find us.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
13 Feb 16
@Asylum lol yes and the atmosphere is conducive to meeting , laughing and exchanging ideas.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
Yes, I've already welcomed her here - I know her from Bubblews. I'm glad that you persuaded her to join us.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Feb 16
Yes so am I, I tell everyone I know to join us here, we want to share the fun!!
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
@jaboUK You are one of the members who I told her had come here, I am sure it tipped the scale lol
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 16
@BelleStarr The more people that join us the merrier.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
13 Feb 16
Tried to search for the name, can't find it.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
13 Feb 16
No I couldn't find her either I will have to send her an email and ask her to follow me so I can see her.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
@BelleStarr She did a post yesterday Isabelle. I can't remember, but she may be under the name of Jeanne Baney.
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• United States
14 Feb 16
@BelleStarr I did finally find you. I'm not all that internet savvy as I mentioned!
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
13 Feb 16
Yes, of course I remember JeanneMaries, you are so lucky to be able to meet people from the sites we write for.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Feb 16
Yes it does make it even better.
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@akalinus (43196)
• United States
14 Feb 16
I have only met one person that I talked to online. She is a fellow writer and she comes here for a couple of months in the winter. She and I both wrote for Helium. We usually walk most days when she is here. We sometimes do other things together, too. Her name is Kathy. I don't think she is on myLot, though. It is strange how we met. I mentioned to the manager here that I worked on Helium. She said there was another Helium writer living here. We met and have been friends since then.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Feb 16
I was the Travel Channel Manager at Helium for 7 years. I loved that site. I am still friends with two of the senior managers and get together regualrly with on of them.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
@akalinus No I am not on that FB page.
@akalinus (43196)
• United States
14 Feb 16
@BelleStarr Glad to see you. I wrote under a variety of pen names on Helium, don't remember the one I used when they closed. I am glad you still have connections. I am on a closed FB page for ex Helium writers. Are you there? We are a crazy bunch.
@Shiva49 (26681)
• Singapore
14 Feb 16
Quite uplifting to read this. Whatever the association and bonding we develop on the net the real person is always an enigma. I liked to meet people but over the years that enthusiasm has waned.- siva
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Feb 16
Mine never seems to wan I love meeting people.
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@Shiva49 (26681)
• Singapore
14 Feb 16
@BelleStarr Great attitude indeed! siva
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• United States
13 Feb 16
I have only met one person that I had met online many years ago. Remember ICQ? We connected on there and remained friends over the years. She lives in Canada and traveled to join me and my husband on our wedding day. It was a joy to meet her.
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• United States
13 Feb 16
@BelleStarr never heard of IgoUgo. I guess that many of these sites are no longer in existence. Oh well, Facebook is going quite well. Have met quite a few people on there, including my husband.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
13 Feb 16
I don't know ICQ. I met many friend on IgoUgo where we were all travelers and they organized get togethers.
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• United States
14 Feb 16
I remember ICQ, it was one of the first interactive sites.
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• United States
14 Feb 16
The name is familiar but after so many years and so many sites I think all names are starting to run together. I have met 3 from AC, 2 of them are about an hour from me and 1 I write for her blog now.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
Excellent, it is so nice to talk face to face isn't it after just typing messages.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
@AbbyGreenhill I did the first time but I always bring hubs with me. The first few were men writers in Europe but I had known them online for years.
• United States
15 Feb 16
@BelleStarr Yes it is, I did put a lot of though into before I did it.
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• United States
13 Feb 16
I remember JeanneMaries from Bubblews...how is she? It's nice that you've been able to meet some online friends
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Feb 16
It is wonderful to meet people in person. I only meet those who I know quite well and this was a wonderful experience.
• United States
14 Feb 16
I'm fine! Very busy and I missed Bubblews, but I'm glad to be here!
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 16
That sounds nice for you both as you are quite close to each other. Shame it is only annually!
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
13 Feb 16
Yes when we originally met she lived in Ohio and me in Connecticut. Now we are about 70 miles apart so much closer. at least in the winter.
• United States
14 Feb 16
@BelleStarr Isn't that funny? Who knew?
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15 Feb 16
that is so nice that you can do that! i wonder if i will ever meet an internet friend
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 Feb 16
I guess it depends where you live. Not everyone puts in their location but if they do it is easy too see if getting together is a possibility.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 Feb 16
@jillybean1222 I think at least putting in the state helps to identify those that live fairly close. I figure who want to come to Portland Connecticut?
20 Feb 16
@BelleStarr yeah, i don't usually put my actual location for fear of TMI leading to some weirdo finding me :-) ((Or worse, my kids))
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
13 Feb 16
If she has joined Mylot, the my guess is well see her around.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
13 Feb 16
I am not sure? We all need to share our blogger sites. I am there too but I am just a baby and learning.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
13 Feb 16
That would be great message me with your blogger site.
• Philippines
13 Feb 16
If there is something good in writing sites, aside from giving a venue for us to write and opportunity to ear a bit, it is the connection. We get to meet people all over and if we are lucky, we make friends.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
13 Feb 16
I feel as if I have friends all over the world and it is a great wayy to learn about other counties and cultures/
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• Philippines
13 Feb 16
@BelleStarr true. It is not just a writing exproence we get here. Really so much more.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50250)
• United States
14 Feb 16
I think it would be nice to meet some of my fellow mylotters.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Feb 16
It is really fun and so much easier to get to know the person, it is hard to type enough to hold long conversations.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Feb 16
@Jeanniemaries Not in person at all lol I think we could have talked for hours!!
• United States
14 Feb 16
@BelleStarr We sure didn't have any trouble with conversation!
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@TheHorse (218841)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Feb 16
Think I've read some of her stuff. But I don't know her well. I met a few Epinions people. Most were nice. One was a psycho hose beast. Now I'm wary.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
I make sure I know the person pretty well before we meet and so far it has always been positive. One didn't look like her picture but other than that it has been wonderful and I have made some lifelong friends.
• Eugene, Oregon
15 Feb 16
I recall her too. It is great to meet fellow internet writers. I have been able to meet two so far.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
I love being able to talk face to face but I have talked on the phone with some as well.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Feb 16
I remember her! How nice that you met. I thought of you when we saw the Ocala exit on the FL Turnpike on our way home last night.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
I was thinking of you this weekend too. We will have to try to arrange something one of these days. Maybe a tearoom in Connecticut.
@anh101 (1379)
14 Feb 16
I did meet with many internet friends and it turns out to be great meetings and opportunity to talk more about work and life
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
Yes it is nice to talk to people who understand what it is like to write on the Internet.
• Bangalore, India
14 Feb 16
According to me, not online chats are meant to be remembered. But luckily, i had an online friend who later turned up to be my girlfriend and we are in relationship for 3 years. Sounds good right.?
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
15 Feb 16
It does and in the world today we meet many interesting friends online.