Would you hurt somebody who... / myLot

Thiruvananthapuram, India

February 13, 2016 9:40am CST

... really ruined your life?, given that you will be allowed to get away with it without any problems. He/she has done such a really bad thing which was enough to destroy your good life. You are given a chance to do revenge as you wish till your grudge ends. Would you hurt him/her back? I know we are taught to forgive the most. I will try my best to forgive him/her. Even if I couldnt fully with my heart I wont hurt the person. Would you? What do you think? Is it justified when you hurt somebody like that?

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****DANIELLE****

@VivaLaDani13 (60794)

• Perth, Australia

13 Mar 16

Probably. Not sure though. My ex boyfriend ruined a lot of my life and has left me with emotional scars and issues that are hard to shake off and sometimes I day dream about screwing something up for him in his life but at the end of the day, that most likely wouldn't fix my issues now and would only cause more problems if he knew I did something. I have wondered about trying to get revenge on other people who honestly deserve it but I haven't. I think I just day dream about it but doubting I will actually take action on it.

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Ajmal

@aju007 (1460)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

15 Mar 16

I feel sorry for you.

. Its shocking sometimes when someone who we believe will be with us against all odds are the ones against us. I hope they will be paid for their actions.

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****DANIELLE****

@VivaLaDani13 (60794)

• Perth, Australia

16 Mar 16

@aju007 I agree with you. And I hope so too.

jaishankar

@else34 (13515)

• New Delhi, India

14 Feb 16

@aju007,A difficult question.Of course,there are a couple of persons in my neighbourhood who have hurt me,caused me pain and sleepless nights,and I will definitely pay them in the same coin.They are much more resourceful than me,but that's the only such experience.

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Ajmal

@aju007 (1460)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

14 Feb 16

Thats really sad. Im sure they will pay for what they have done to you.

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jaishankar

@else34 (13515)

• New Delhi, India

15 Feb 16

@aju007 Then why should I not help them pay?

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Pose123

@Pose123 (21635)

• Canada

17 Feb 16

I sincerely hope that I would not hurt the person as revenge is never the answer, however, One has to be in the situation to be sure of what their response would be. Blessings.

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Ajmal

@aju007 (1460)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

17 Feb 16

Thats the truth. We cant be sure how will we react at these hard times.

Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (37355)

• Toccoa, Georgia

17 Feb 16

There is a relative who tried to ruin another one of my relative's lives. The way that relative got back at the other was through taking him to court and then after all the court mess was over, then they ignored the one who set out to hurt them.

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Ajmal

@aju007 (1460)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

17 Feb 16

Yes, Its best to deal with them legally.

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Alfredo Rossi

@amadeo (111938)

• United States

13 Feb 16

I have not ever go in this kind of predicament.I would not hurt anyone.Maybe dislike the person.Hurt not

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Ajmal

@aju007 (1460)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

13 Feb 16

Yeah I hope I wouldnt too hurt that person. Actually as you said we if we havent experienced the exact condition we cant really say how we will react.

harlen qualls

@quarternoes (236)

• Indianapolis, Indiana

14 Feb 16

I forgave all who ruined my life. Family as well. God picked a path for me, and with this, it's also his vengeance that will fix things, not mine.

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@aju007 (1460)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

14 Feb 16

I think forgiveness is the best way too.

Jabo

@jaboUK (64354)

• United Kingdom

13 Feb 16

This is one of those situations where you wouldn't know how you would react unless it happened to you. I hope I could forgive them, but if they had caused harm to someone I loved and showed no remorse, who knows?

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Ajmal

@aju007 (1460)

• Thiruvananthapuram, India

13 Feb 16

Yeah its really kind of an unpredictable matter that how you respond at that time.

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