Do you follow blindly or think things through first?

@JudyEv (342100)
Rockingham, Australia
February 15, 2016 7:53pm CST
If this sounds like a heavy question don't worry. It's just an easy way to lead into a little story. A young lady I know liked roast lamb. Before placing it in the baking dish, she would cut through the meat a few inches from the end of the leg and bend it back alongside the bigger piece before placing it in the pan. A visitor asked why she did this. She said because her mother did it. This got her thinking and she asked her mother why the leg was prepared in this way. Mother did it because HER mother did it. She didn't know why. When they checked with grandmother, the reply was because it wouldn't fit in her baking dish otherwise. So back to my question: Do you follow blindly or think things through first? The photo is of Buster, another of my pet sheep. He isn't here any more - but, I hasten to add, wasn't eaten!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Feb 16
Funny story. It depends on what I am doing whether I follow blindly or think things through. Buster was a beauty, poor boy.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
I might do something like this without bothering to wonder why but mostly I give a bit more thought to things.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Feb 16
@JudyEv I don't bother to think things through when dealing with mundane tasks like brushing my teeth or doing most household chores. Otherwise, I tend to think most things through.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
16 Feb 16
I think things through I think, I do use my mother's recipes but put my own slant on them.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
16 Feb 16
@JudyEv I figure chances are I would use a different size pan so I wouldn't worry about the fit.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
I can see myself doing the same thing in this situation. Too lazy to wonder why.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
@BelleStarr At least the daughter thought to question why the leg was being cut.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
16 Feb 16
I fall into the category of thinking things through. I have to say that I have heard this story before and it is a classic case of not thinking things through.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
16 Feb 16
@JudyEv I know some people traverse the world, I have a very wide network though, reaching nearly 15,000.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
We must know the same lady - six degrees of separation and all that.
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• United States
16 Feb 16
I have heard this story too, except they use a beef roast instead of lamb. That is pretty funny regardless of what kind of meat you use. Actually, I am a recipe follower, so if my mom did it, I might do it, but then out of curiosity I would research why this is done, or like the woman did, ask the grandmother.
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• United States
16 Feb 16
@JudyEv Same here, I follow directions while my husband wings it. I would love that talent, that way I can get creative.
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• Midland, Michigan
18 Feb 16
@mylotbugs this comment is actually showing the coding within the comment. I replied on the next group down but it showed up, up here. To see it look down for the last indented one by carmela, within this group, meaning of the duplicate ones. 4th down at present.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
I follow recipes too but my husband is much more creative when it comes to cooking.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Feb 16
It just shows what creatures of habit some people are. Buster looks very nicely shorn.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Feb 16
@JudyEv I hadn't realised that there were sheep that didn't need shearing. Is their wool still useable?
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
@jaboUK They are mostly meat breeds - probably all meat breeds unless in some Asian countries they gather the wool. There is a British breed, the Wiltshire, that sheds. Some don't shed fully. There were sheep in the Wicklow Mountains in Ireland that were shedding and one of the sheep's favourite trees had lots of bits of wool hanging from it.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
He is a Dorper and only has his baby coat here. Later his fleece would come away of its own accord. There is an increasing number of such breeds in Australia now as it does away with the need for shearing and fly-strike is not such a danger.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
16 Feb 16
Thank you for clarifying my doubt about Buster. Normally I think things through. But there are certain things that I'm forced to do in the name of tradition.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
Traditions can become strongly entrenched in a family or society and it is then hard to change.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb 16
@Scindhia There must be many ancient customs and traditions for which there is little reason to retain them but these things are sometimes what helps hold a society together and gives it its identity.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
17 Feb 16
@JudyEv And we end up continuing to do it and pass it on to our kids without actually knowing why we do it.
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• United States
18 Feb 16
Oh no I dont. And if I want to do something, I try to find out as much as possible first. Yes, my teenage years a long gone lolz A lovely photo of the dear pet ..
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• United States
19 Feb 16
@JudyEv A thing I should have done much earlier in life Judy in many areas.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 16
It always pays to do your own research I think.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 16
@TiarasOceanView I think we're all a bit gullible when we're young.
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@LadyDuck (472114)
• Switzerland
16 Feb 16
Poor Buster, he was cute. I do not follow blindly, as I suspect that my mother did something in the kitchen for similar problems, I always ask the reason of things that seem weird.
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@LadyDuck (472114)
• Switzerland
17 Feb 16
@JudyEv I agree, I have seen my mother following weird cooking procedures that took plenty of time, but with the new kitchen appliances many things can be done so much easier.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
That's a good way to be. The old ways aren't always the best. There are many different ideas about what's healthy etc too.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
16 Feb 16
When it comes to something like you mentioned, I would probably do it like my mother or grandmother did. But in normal, everyday life, I think things through first.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
17 Feb 16
@JudyEv That's true. Because we trust our Mom's or loved ones, we don't even question why.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
Some habits get picked up early in life and we go with it without thinking about questionning it.
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@mom210 (9115)
• United States
19 Feb 16
it really depends on what it is, sometimes I am a blind follower if I am rushed or to busy to think
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@mom210 (9115)
• United States
19 Feb 16
@JudyEv I think some of it is habit, we got used to seeing mom do it this way and so that is how it is done.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Feb 16
@mom210 You're quite right and we perhaps just don't think to query it.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 16
Mostly I'm a blind follower when I'm too lazy to think!
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• Midland, Michigan
18 Feb 16
i wondered whether it was to fit it in the pan. I wonder if the younger generations ever had pans big enough so it didn't need to be done? I try not to follow blindly, I did that before in the church I grew up in. Now i know to research what is taught.
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• Midland, Michigan
19 Feb 16
@JudyEv I don't think the order of responses is the same for everyone here. Usually either my response or the one Carmela wrote is first in the lineup, and everything showing on my end between either of those two and the one by Peter Giblett seem to be looping over and over again. A few times when I've hit 'see more comment's' it pulls up even more of the same posts. Another member or two have seen the duplicate names with the likes, but on other discussions not here.
• Midland, Michigan
18 Feb 16
Judy, are you not seeing any duplication of responses and comments? I'm still seeing the bug, which I've reported and shown screen shots for on my lot bugs post. I've checked it out with two devices and two browsers. They couldn't see it yesterday, and this could be minimal if I'm the only one seeing it. Also, this is the only post I've seen this on so far, but then I've been in and out today.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 16
@MarshaMusselman I didn't say anything yesterday as I wasn't sure if you meant the exact same comment or I was saying the same thing in different words. But I haven't seen any duplication either here or elsewhere. Seems very strange.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
10 Mar 16
Isn't that funny. I've never heard of doing that to lamb. I believe there is a reason for the things I do, I guess blindly following isn't in the cards for me. My husband, the chef, sticks a knife in the leg and places garlic in the holes, it is so delicious....I'm glad you didn't eat Buster.
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• Canada
10 Mar 16
@JudyEv thanks for the laugh and do try the garlic, He puts a lot of the cloves into the meat (sliced) and it is delicious
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Mar 16
@PainsOnSlate I put cloves and other stuff in the water when I boil corned beef or pickled pork. That's nice too.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar 16
I will Vince about putting garlic in the leg of lamb. That sounds delicious. And Buster was much too pretty to eat.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
16 Feb 16
Because mom did it. Good excuse as any lol. I have never been a follower
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
The world needs people who think rather than follow. That's my take on it
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
17 Feb 16
@JudyEv I very much agree
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
16 Feb 16
I'm a thinker and it stems from my need to be organized. It's okay to follow your intuition or sixth sense but following blindly may lead to danger - to say the extreme, radical religious thinking and behavior. Buster is cute! I'm sure he's been to heaven.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
A leg off Buster would have made a yummy roast.
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@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
16 Feb 16
@JudyEv LOL!!! Oh dear...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Feb 16
no do not follow anyone blindly and especially if its on th net it does not have to be true as many 'who post false crap are not experts at all. so I check out things for my self before following anyone.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
That's the best way to be. You can find just about anything on the net and as you say it's not always true.
@rebelann (112969)
• El Paso, Texas
16 Feb 16
I'm not a good followerer, which infuriated mom because she thought I was supposed to do as she did. As for thinking things through, well, not at first, I had to make all those stupid mistakes first so I'd know what's what. OH, just thought I'd mention I'm glad Buster wasn't a meal for anyone.
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@rebelann (112969)
• El Paso, Texas
17 Feb 16
I think you're right @JudyEv
@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
I think many or most of us have to make our own mistakes in life.
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
Thats a nice story. Sometimes we just follow tradition cause its easier.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb 16
I think that is true too and sometimes it really doesn't matter or make any difference.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50528)
• United States
16 Feb 16
I usually do things my own way.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
That's always the best way. :)
• Brookville, Pennsylvania
17 Feb 16
Years ago I read a book about Catherine the Great, and there was a story about how someone noticed a palace guard standing in the middle of a courtyard. They dug through the records and found that a hundred years or so earlier, Catherine had saw the first flower of spring and had posted a guard to make sure nobody trampled it. And they just kept guarding that spot.
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb 16
Isn't that interesting? How funny.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
She just follow what she has been seeing...thinking it through would be much better for me. Hello buster!
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@JudyEv (342100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 16
With something like this I can imagine myself just doing the same thing too.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
16 Feb 16
@JudyEv i have been seeing how few people do things..especially with cooking..but in the long run... i come up with different idea.
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