Did You Ever Regret Having Married Your Spouse?
By Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
Philippines
February 16, 2016 5:12am CST
A tearful friend told me that her biggest regret is having married her husband. She caught him again with another woman.
Another friend is in the same boat for she found out she married a slothful, and irresponsible man who demands and eats a lot.
I really feel so sad for them. On the other hand, I am so thankful that never have I regretted having married my man.
How about you?
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35 responses
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
16 Feb 16
I am no longer married, as I was married for 35 years, and have been divorced for 8 years. I did love him very much, but not sure he felt the same way, as he is the one who wanted the divorce. i was devastated afterwards, but he really did me a favor, and now that I am single, I am not going to get married again, unless God puts one in my path that he wants me to marry. Being single really isn't all tha tbad, as I have lots of freedom, and that is important to me.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
17 Feb 16
It's sad to hear or read that statement, but I am sure it's not from you even when I just read the title.
I always think I am blessed to have met my husband. Though he is not a perfect man, I am not either, we are happily being together and supporting each other, and most importantly, we are learning and growing together. I am also glad that I have always been trusting him, even when we had long distance relationship for about 4 years. He is a trusted man.
Hope your friends will find their way out of the sadness.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I keep praying for them.
You had a 4 year long distant relationship! I admire your relationship even more. Congrats for having a trustworthy husband. It is so hard for many couples to stay faithful to each other in such situation. I am happy to know you stood that test and still happy together.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
16 Feb 16
I had two wives and they bot cheated on me but I have no regrets. They were both great women, cheating aside, and I had about 30 wonderful years.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
17 Feb 16
@salonga Some people think that I made a bad choice. I say that I made good choices both times but people change. Jesus prayed all night and chose Judas as one of his apostles. Later, he changed and betrayed him. Satan also served God for a time but changed and rebelled. We will always have a choice as to what we do or don't do.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@1hopefulman Certainly, this life is a series of choices, God has given us the free will to choose which is which.
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@LeaPea2417 (37379)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Feb 16
I don't regret marrying my husband. I know he was the right one for me to marry.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
17 Feb 16
you are right i am single but always fear that should i get good girl because its look very hard to fine right one in this crowd of people and 90 % people are not loyal for partner so i am worried now for it...........
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
17 Feb 16
@salonga yes you are right and therefor i not choose girl from face but inside beauty need as she clean from heart....
@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
That's one of my fears in having a partner. I might end up not marrying at all. Hihihi
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
No, not all men are bad. If you will only read the comments below, majority are happy and thankful with their husbands. Just learn to not rush in marrying. You have to use your head and not just your heart and make sure you know him fully well before marrying.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
@salonga oh, okay. Yes, I also agree that not all men are bad. My father and brother are good men and good husbands to my mother and sister in law.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Feb 16
My husband and I have had some really hard times and some times I didn't know if our marriage could overcome those times, but it did. I don't regret marrying my husband, he is the perfect one for me. We have been together 12 years and I am so grateful God brought us together. I think some people rush into marriage before truly getting to know someone and that's why later on they have regrets. Also some people think with time the other person will change and it never happens-then they start to regret their decision to marry them.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
Rushing into marriage will most likely lead to failed marriage. I'm glad you don't regret having married your man. Marriage does have bad times not just good and that is the reality but for as long as you keep loving, faithful and patient with each others weaknesses and you keep praying for God's help. God will always keep you together.
@iamshane487 (1139)
• Manila, Philippines
17 Feb 16
My mother was experiencing the way your friend's husband did long ago but he changed after that.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
It's nice to know he changed. No woman deserves such misery.
@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
13 Apr 16
No regrets here. We loved each other when we were young and we're old now ans still in love..
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
I'm really glad to know you also belong to my list of blessed wives.
@Ladypeace (2028)
• Singapore
17 Feb 16
That's nasty, unfortunately many people marry without thinking it through enough. It's abit like Russian roulette since people tend to present better sides of themselves in the initial stages.
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