New Glasses - Good idea or not?

@patgalca (18370)
Orangeville, Ontario
February 18, 2016 3:22pm CST
I knew he was going to get on my case. A couple of days ago I asked my husband to look at my glasses, that there were spots I couldn't clean off. He said he thought it was wax or maybe grease. The more he scratched at it the worse it got until I could no longer see out of the right lens. Fortunately I still had my previous glasses which is only slightly lower in prescription level so I am using them. I went to the optometrist's today only to learn that the glasses were more than 2 1/2 years old. That means they weren't under warranty and I would have to pay for new lenses. I decided if I was going to have to pay for new lenses (though it would be partially covered by the insurance company), I might as well get new glasses frames. Glasses frames don't cost too much if you get the right ones. Of course when you are shopping for frames you're looking for the right ones for you, not the price. When I came home I told my husband what I did and of course he wasn't happy. The insurance company wouldn't pay for all of it, he said. The last time I went to the optometrist my prescription had only changed slightly so I didn't bother getting new glasses. So I've actually gone to the higher prescription now. Thank you to the Government of Ontario for stopping eye care for everyone except children and seniors. Yeah, I don't like having to spend more money when we are trying to cut down expenses, but golf season will start soon enough and he won't have any problem paying for that a couple of times a week. And then there's a trip to his home town this summer for a wedding. We'll get free flights from my daughter but it's still going to cost money. I really would like a new life.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Feb 16
I would think that new glassesfpor you should be as importan to both as his golf season is to him after all you only hav ome pair of eyes surel y he has to realize that.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
And he had the nerve to tell me he was going golfing, indoor golfing, on Saturday. There is still snow on the ground and it's freezing outside, though I hear we're getting warmer temps and rain this weekend.
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• Midland, Michigan
19 Feb 16
@patgalca We're getting that type of weather this weekend too. Originally it was supposed to hit the fifties today, but that's changed once again.
@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
19 Feb 16
Glasses are important. They are not a luxury. I will not put up with scratched glasses or blurry vision.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
He didn't say but I expect that he wanted me to rely on my old glasses... the ones I am wearing now while waiting for my new ones. They're an older prescription so I'm having difficulty seeing my cell phone.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
19 Feb 16
We dont have vision coverage at all, so I have to pay for all of my eye care out of pocket. I wear contacts because I hate glasses, so they're even more pricey and need to be replaced frequently. My daughter is now wearing glasses too... and as she's young and only just got her first pair I know her prescription will be changing each year so she'll need a new pair of glasses yearly until her prescription stops changing.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
20 Feb 16
@katsmeow1213 I have tri-focals. I need them for reading and for distance.
@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
My prescription has changed every year, but by such a miniscule amount that the last time the doctor said it wasn't worth it to get new ones, so I didn't. Now I have that 2+ years buffer I need to get new ones.
• United States
20 Feb 16
@patgalca I have not gotten new glasses in probably 5 years or more. I only wear them for a little while in the morning before I put my contacts in.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
19 Feb 16
It is wise to buy a pair of glasses for you. I think it is one of the basic utility.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
Which is why we think the government should still be covering eye care for the 20-65 year olds.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
20 Feb 16
@patgalca That's super facility. Here there are no security.
• Otis Orchards, Washington
19 Feb 16
It sounds like your husband is complaining about the wrong things. He should be more concerned about your eye health than playing golf. It sounds like he has his priorities mixed up.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
He has always had his priorities mixed up. I'm about number 5 on his list.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
20 Feb 16
@RichardMeister Third time's the charm? LOL!
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
20 Feb 16
@patgalca Maybe you need a new husband?
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@JudyEv (340286)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb 16
I've no idea how old my glasses are but for the moment I'll stick with them. What we really need are hearing aids and they will cost a packet too.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
My ENT doctor told me to get tested for hearing aids because they reduce the ringing in the ears but hubby said no, they cost too much. So we didn't even look into them. Ah, old age.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
@JudyEv Yes, they're supposed to.
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@JudyEv (340286)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Feb 16
@patgalca We both have ringing in the ears too. I didn't know hearing aids would help with that.
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@GardenGerty (160717)
• United States
19 Feb 16
Medicare does not pay for glasses, except for the medical part. It is two and a half years until I am old enough for that. My appointment and new glasses run in the neighborhood of six hundred dollars. Get your new glasses and appreciate and enjoy them.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
They're already ordered. He hasn't said another thing about them... probably because he's going golfing.
@tammys85 (30087)
• Baltimore, Maryland
19 Feb 16
He needs to remember that your health is important, and this includes your vision.
@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
Yeah, I'm guessing he's pretty fed up with my health issues. Haven't heard me complaining about his.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Feb 16
I really feel that you should just get those glasses come what may, our eyes and vision is very important and if you base it on priorities obviously it would top over golf and cutting expenses and all that stuff...
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
Oh, I know. We're trying to cut expenses but then something else (like this) comes up. We just can't seem to get ahead.
@LadyDuck (471498)
• Switzerland
19 Feb 16
Our eyes doctors is covered by the medical insurance, but not the glasses, they pay part of the lenses, not the frames.
@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
The whole amount won't be covered. I'm not sure if it's a percentage or a maximum amount.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
20 Feb 16
@LadyDuck I think we probably do too.
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@LadyDuck (471498)
• Switzerland
20 Feb 16
@patgalca We have a maximum amount, not a percentage, because some lenses cost very much.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Feb 16
that is a short life span there on the glasses?
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
More like a short life span on my vision. LOL! It's deteriorating little by little every two years. The glasses should have lasted longer. We're not sure what happened to the lens but the warranty expired so I would have had to pay for new lenses anyway. But being over two years the insurance company will cover a good part of it.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Feb 16
@patgalca At least that you have some type of insurance many do not.
• Midland, Michigan
19 Feb 16
A new life as in not having to worry about how much new glasses might cost? We only get eye care here if we have private insurance. My insurance pays a portion for both frames and lenses, and the eye doctor we work with lets us barter the rest by washing the windows on their homes a few times per year.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
You know the "running away from home" type of life? Our insurance is actually through hubby's work and I'm guessing he pays into that. It's been so long since I worked I don't remember how employer extended health insurance works.
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@KristenH (33385)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
19 Feb 16
Sorry to hear that. They should have insurance pay for eye care, especially for eyeglasses prescriptions. I'll be needing a pair of reading glasses myself later this spring.
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
19 Feb 16
I think they pay about 80% but no less than every two years.
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@KristenH (33385)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
19 Feb 16
@patgalca Hmm. That's interesting to know.
@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
18 Feb 16
hope the eye care in your place won't be just for kids and senior citizens. and hope we had it here too
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@patgalca (18370)
• Orangeville, Ontario
18 Feb 16
We used to have it but around the time hubby and I started needing glasses the government stopped free coverage. Lucky us. At least his work insurance company covers some of it.
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
19 Feb 16
Glasses aren't much costly here. These are necessary expenses that you can't avoid.
@apoose (30)
• Chennai, India
19 Feb 16
If I were u I would bye a new one