Would you adopt a kid?

@dazzledlady thats right. the milk, the diapers, medicines/vitamins. those are needs..

Yes, it could be hard for us who are not financially stable because nowadays the prices keeps going up .

@MGjhaud and let's not forget the tuition fees :)

@dazzledlady what do you mean you see no reason? No reason to what? Why people want a child that is biologically theirs? It's simple a child biologically yours, looks like you, has traits like you or even your parent. You get to choice them, a person doesn't sit across from you gets information and base everything about your life and tells you yes or no. That biloical child happens, weather you wanted them or not ans you choice to be their parent. No waiting list you get to go through the whole thing of creating a human, see the, grow from the inside out. Pick their name, women are more senitibe to thing. How can you feel connected to a little person that you got to miss all those moments. It's differ cult because as an adopted parent you get choice the name, you don't get to see the, from the moment they are born or get to carry the, for 9 months. You pretty much learn to love them and the, to you. It's not instant love. I have three kids I gave birth to them all I carried them. I loved the, for the moment I saw them in an ultrasound I wanted them before I even knew we would have them. I can not say that if I adopted a child that I would love them like I do my children. I would hope I could or would. Yes all children need a family a mom, a dad or both. But I would know in the back of my head every day that that one child isn't mine will never be 100% mine. Someone else is theirs some one else went through all that trouble and heartache to give them life. Many parents want to go through that pain to have a childr.

Well, that could be a problem But I still see no reason if they are willing then they could wait.

@ShyBear88 Then you should never adopt a child because they would be harmed by you not loving them as much as your biological children. Thank goodness there are people who would.

Cool! Was it a hard decision or did it came on naturally?

@dazzledlady It comes naturally.

Well, that is one of the possibilities I have thought but I think these kids needs more than food on their mouth and shelter. I think they also long to be part of a normal family. To have that sense of belongingness

I would agree with you. Because I would love the feeling of being able to help nurture a kid to become successful person someday. If only I am financially capable.

I see, yes there could be that issue. But its just so sad to think about those who can but opted to have pets rather than give a child a decent home . but of course they should be responsible parents because if they cannot then I think these kids would be better on their own

@dazzledlady Thing with pets is that animals can take care of themselves after specific time period. Which is usually 7-8 months from their birth. In case of human child, it takes upto like 18 years to even get sense of life around them and learn how to survive. some people grow old yet don't get the clue how to react in this world or survive.

@skysnap haha ok you have a point there but well its not up to me to decide if he she can handle taking care of another human being. But I personally think there is satisfaction knowing you help raise a person to be a good citizen of this world .

It is always great to have a kid with the sams genetic make up as yours but for those people who are paying a lot for in virtro, artificial insemination then they should consider adoption.

Hahaha! Ok now, why you dont like them? Im curious.

@teamfreak16 oh I see, but they will out grow that stage . And its good that you have someone who will take care of you when you grow old.

@dazzledlady - Trying to be as nice as possible, but they are little sociopathic brats, uncontrollable hellions , if you will (and yes, I realize that I was like that as well.)

That would be a good idea, because I think raisih a child is not easy.