Eight things I Will Share About Me.

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@Hatley (163776)
Garden Grove, California
February 26, 2016 2:31pm CST
No 1. I may seem out going and not shy but in real life i am really shy. I hate going to large parties where I do not know anyone. I can do small parties if I know some people there and I'm with my son or best friend. No.2. I love flowers, and gardening and miss that so m uch ensconced here in this tiresome retirement center. No.3.I love to write fiction, short stories , poems and love doing graphics so much. No.4 I was up to lately very trusting of everyone, a bit naive but no more.Since someone made my billfold their damned bank and stole one hundred dollars I am no longer naive or trusting. i will protect me from now on. No.4.I believe in the Golden rule, and the ten commandments and try to live my life remembering the lessons my parents taught me. No.5. I am really short just 5 ft 2 nches and have to get my son to reach high shelves for me No.6.I am an introvert and make friends slowly but once I do I'm your friend for life, No. 7. I feel we are all put on this earth to help others and have tried to do that all my long life. In my working years I worked as a nurses aide and I loved every moment of it.Working with ill people makes you aware of the realities of life and opens your eyes to life. No. 8. I also love to read and I worked for the last 23 years of my work life as a page in the Tustin branch of the Orange County Library system .I shelved all sorts of media,answered questions and ran errands for the manager. I loved the job and all the members of our crew.Still my good friends too.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
26 Feb 16
Here is some you have missed - No 9. - You are one of the most loving persons. (maybe this stems from your No. 6 - once I do, I am your friend for life). No 10 - At your age, in my country, there are not too many who have the same love for life, energy or the zest. You bring about some serene happiness for me and many others around you. May you live long with the same great heart with a great health. Luv yah
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
hi@ the sids thats so nice of yo u and Im just happy for ea\ch new day and whem I c an help or in spire someo ne else that makes me feel good to love ya back thesides hugs.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
@kiran8 I am sure that there are but some are shy sad when people do not live each day to the fullest and not see the g ood things in life
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
28 Feb 16
I second those thoughts, wish there were many more like you
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@Tampa_girl7 (50179)
• United States
26 Feb 16
It is nice to learn more about you.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
thanks its just that I wanted to share lol hugs@Tampa_girl7
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
26 Feb 16
You sound like a person I would enjoy being a friend with. I love everything you have in your 1 to 8 list.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
27 Feb 16
@Hatley Everyone had to have liked your list as it was great. Thanks for sharing.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
@Marcyaz wow Im overwhelmed at the responses wow
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
thanks @Marcyaz glad you think so glad you liked my list lol.
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@much2say (55512)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Feb 16
I didn't know you were short - but I am shorter than you (I say "almost" 5 feet)!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
my mom was shorter like you too all m y famlily are shorter my dad was just five ft 4 inches grandpa the same lol
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 16
@much2say even o n my moms side they are all short
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@much2say (55512)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Feb 16
@Hatley My dad is short too - maybe not even 5 foot 3!
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
26 Feb 16
It was interesting learning these things about you. Did you include two item No. 4s to see if anyone noticed there were actually nine items instead of 8.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
no you have a keen eye or I d id not edit close enough lol nope it is a goof of mine lol goes to show how y ou can edit and still miss something lol
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
27 Feb 16
@Hatley I know how that can happen. When publishing my first book, I double and tripled checked it, my wife checked it, my editor checked it, and when I got the printed draft back from the printer and went through it I still found a list of things that had been missed. They were all minor, but it's amazing what gets missed when you think you've done a thorough proofing.
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• Dallas, Texas
27 Feb 16
@DWDavis , That is so true. If I were to wait until I had a good first draft of even 500 pages I would be reluctant to submit mine for publication. The more I look, the more mistakes I find.
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@GrannyGee (3517)
• Louisburg, North Carolina
26 Feb 16
You sound like the type of person I would like. I hope you will watch out for yourself there ... I am so sorry someone would steal your money. Shame, shame on them. Take care
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
@GrannyGee yes a nd they still tried to convince me I had misplaced it why on eahwould I ut a onehundred dollar bill b y itself in an oddplace. I never moved my mney it was stolen.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
you knowi do blame myself for eng so naive and just trusting every one as ther are at least 157 people here and in group of people I imagine there are some who will steal and not feel bad do oing it, cannot yet figu re out how they go ino my billfold wlthout my knowing it it was a shock to have so m uch mneymssng.
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@GrannyGee (3517)
• Louisburg, North Carolina
27 Feb 16
@Hatley I'm so sorry you had such an awful experience, Patsie @Hatley ... I can imagine how you must have been in such disbelief.
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• United States
26 Feb 16
I too do not enjoy large parties. Even if they are all family members, I get a little shy and try to back out of going to it. We are about the same height, I have a half inch over you though. My children were also handy at getting things out of high places. They towered over me. Now my husband gets things for me or I use my trusty reacher that I got when my shoulder was operated on.
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• United States
27 Feb 16
@Hatley and we get shorter and shorter at some point!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
too had a shoulder operated on but mine was crushed so bad from a fall that tjhey did a shoulder joint replacemen on my left shoulder. I never got full useage again from my left arm. lo.. I get a laugh in the elev ator from these two tallmen both about 7 feet tall. they tease me for b eing so short.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
@ElusiveButterfly yes I noticed that with my o wn mom come to think of it all my family were short e ven m y dad and Im sure I ha ve too
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@ElicBxn (63593)
• United States
27 Feb 16
I've known you for several years, and I've known just about all of these things about you. However... you TOWER over me I'm 5 foot and about a half to three quarters of an inch. Not to say that my shoes don't add an inch or two and I always try to stand tall. However, I am not above asking tall people in the grocery store to reach things down for me... By the way, the roomie and I went shopping tonight and I ended up with yet ANOTHER box of books!
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@ElicBxn (63593)
• United States
2 Mar 16
@Hatley I finished another book yesterday (the 29th.)
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 16
@ElicBxn adI finished mine last nigh woke a one so read for awhile and finished my novel
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
thats l ke me I love books and i have always got four or fiv e paperbacks p her from he downstairs library.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Feb 16
Thank you for sharing this part of yourself with us, They don't have a spot at the home where you could garden.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
they do but they refused to let us use it odd about that really
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@Butchcass4 (5895)
• United States
2 Mar 16
Thanks for being so open and honest. Maybe I'll do the same if you don't mind. but first I got to take the time to come up with at least 8 things about myself. It would be pretty cool if all our friends on myLot did the same thing we would get to know each other better. I think thats a good thing.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 16
yes I think it would really be neat
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 16
@Butchcass4 mylot will be here whem yu are ready so we none of us have to hurry about our posts.
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• United States
4 Mar 16
@Hatley I haven't worked on my list yet. It may take me awhile to do it LOL.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
27 Feb 16
I love your list. My mother was 5 foot 2 too, I'm sorry someone got your money, it seems to happen more and more. I love the way you think and agree with all your thought. Thanks for sharing.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 16
@lookatdesktop yes they are so fast one year back awa ys I was shoppng at the mall I was going on the up escalator whena pickpocket tried to cut the strap to my shoulder bag and cut my sleeve so i turned and saw the nife and screamed Secu r it y he was stuck people behing him me in front and he did not get my m one y bu t he did get arrested. i did not get c ut and the strap did not break. it was not his lu cky day,
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
thanks sure hope that thief here is finally caught as Im sure Im not the onl y one who has lost money
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• Dallas, Texas
3 Mar 16
@Hatley , I am sorry to hear you lost money. That is just terrible. My wife got robbed by a pick pocket peddler 2 winters ago around Christmas and I slowly tried my best to compensate her the loss. It was around 600 dollars in a white envelope that went missing after a man was asking for money and had a Bible in the other hand while taking out her money with the other, while others were standing around, including myself not even noticing his slight of hand.
@KristenH (33381)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
27 Feb 16
Thanks for sharing a little bit about yourself. I once had a job at my library, 3 years ago. It lasted six months before I was let go.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
I was so lucky at the library as we had the best crew we all got along so well we ere all good friends.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 16
@KristenH hanks and oddlyoce I retred I neverheard from anyf them again so weird b ut then they all were still with mates I was widowed lol
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@KristenH (33381)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
28 Feb 16
@Hatley I'm happy for you.
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@anh101 (1379)
27 Feb 16
I love all the 8 things about you. The writing really makes a tune. Do you feel it too?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
odd you know I thought about that too a tune yes feel it.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 16
@anh101 thats wonderful and it helps in writing
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@anh101 (1379)
29 Feb 16
@Hatley yeah, i may not be good at words but i learn it much from tones, voice, tunes things like that and i understand people that way
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
26 Feb 16
I'm also shy going at large parties
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
@trivia79 I do the same thing Im also not a party goer and i do not drink Im a dabetc lol
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
is it not the pits to feel shy and I still do it too you think a person could out grow it b ut I have not.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
27 Feb 16
@Hatley well me, i'm not that type of person who's party-goer that's why whenever there's an invitation, i consider not to come even though i'm not busy haha
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
26 Feb 16
It is always happy to learn about others in hree, and I like all of them. I think you have startted somtthing though, as others might want to do the same thing. A very good discussion, and I am glad that I got to know you.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
@rosekiss es almost all are grea t here and that plus a great honest admins make myloto the b est/
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Feb 16
yes ohters have done this before and could well d o it agaijlol I really l ike the people here not snobs like we had n b ubb;lews ll
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
28 Feb 16
@Hatley For the most part, people are friendly in here, and willing to help others when needed, and that is a good thing.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
28 Feb 16
That's great . I have been seeing you since last 5 years and have noticed that at this age too you have lots of energy. Like you I am also a shy person and don't like to go to parties and always follow what my parents taught me.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
hi yes I remember you too we both are shy and we grewup and remembered what our parents taught us
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
27 Feb 16
I am also shy in real life. But I am trying my best to deal with it cause it can usually get out of my way.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
yes we do have to deal with it as most people are fri endly andIhave to try to be t
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Feb 16
I share number one with you
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
good for us its warm here today is it warm in Kenya too I bet it is.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
28 Feb 16
@Hatley It is so nice to read your post and your life.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
thanks I felt like sharing more of me lol lol
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 16
@ramapo17 yes I s ure do appreciate it too
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
3 Mar 16
@Hatley At least you have a good audience here that enjoys what you are saying.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
27 Feb 16
All your qualities are good. I didn't find any drawbacks.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 16
thanks guess Im okay and I do kee p trying too lol
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