How long would you read a discussion before you give up?

@Drosophila (16571)
Ireland
February 27, 2016 4:05pm CST
I've been wondering about this, how long would you read a discussion before you just give up? I've written some "long" discussions before, and folks seems to give up about 5 sentences in. And.. some of my most popular posts are about 5 lines long. So, I've endeavoured to write no more than 15 sentences. If I can't get to the point in 15 sentences, I'd have to re-write the post. What's your thoughts on this? How long is TOO long? Image from: www.fuelyourblogging.com
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
27 Feb 16
It depends entirely on how the discussion is written. If it's not properly broken up into paragraphs, it's a lot harder to read and usually I can tell from the first sentence or two whether I'm interested in reading the rest. The best long discussions lead you into the 'story' and make you want to read more. Sadly, however, the most readable long 'discussion', even though it is fascinating and memorable and makes one think ever so much, is not really a discussion so much as a monologue or a story and doesn't actually inspire anyone to make much of a response. A fascinating story or lecture may only inspire applause, however good it is but the best topics are 'conversation starters' - they give sufficient information but, on the other hand, inspire and incite people to think and give their own opinions and thoughts and respond to those of others. There is no hard and fast rule about 'how long is too long' or 'how short is too short', though it almost always depends on the comprehension and attendance span of your audience.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
27 Feb 16
Agree!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
1 Mar 16
I agree.
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
27 Feb 16
That is very true, if it's just a monologue, then it's difficult to receive a variety of responses.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
27 Feb 16
I prefer reading discussions that are to the point and not going on and on.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
27 Feb 16
ya, I have read posts not on here as much, where when I get to the end, I feel they still didn't get to the point.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
27 Feb 16
I think that this post is about the right length at least for me because when they are much longer I become very bored and move on to the next post without leaving a comment.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
28 Feb 16
@Drosophila Yes I think most people would stop reading and just go on to the next post if this one was to long.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
@Marcyaz That's a good observation. I've done this before myself too
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
27 Feb 16
That's what I've noticed, some of my previous posts have been told it's too long.
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@allknowing (136430)
• India
28 Feb 16
They could contain pearls of wisdom and much more but I normally skip long posts
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
xD Ah yes, I guess if it's just going on and on about the same thing for paragraphs then.. yes that would be long
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Feb 16
MyLot isn't the place for longer content. You have to leave something out of the post in order to encourage discussion. If I were writing an article though everything must be included, but people have to understand Mylot is not a writing site.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
1 Mar 16
@Drosophila this was fine. I tend to use the serious ones as a voyage of discovery, create a proposition and see where discussion goes.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
@pgiblett Right, I do try to get my posts more to the point, but we'll see :D
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
29 Feb 16
my "long discussions" are not exactly long.. it's longer than this one ofc.. but still some folks found it too long. :D
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
27 Feb 16
Just wondering how you know that people give up after 5 sentences? I never count my sentences, I just say what I want to say. I may prune it a bit if it turns out to be very long, but not if it affects the post as a whole.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
27 Feb 16
@Drosophila Oh I see - you surmise that they haven't read any further. I agree and it can be amusing when it becomes obvious that they haven't!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
27 Feb 16
@jaboUK I once had someone leaving me a comment "I just can't read beyond the first paragraph, but this is an interesting topic". That was a great comment
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
27 Feb 16
Some folks don't even get to 5 xD They often read about 3 sentence (1 being the title) And then they leave a comment addressing those 3 sentences.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
2 Mar 16
A lot would depend on why you are reading a post in the first place, which is usually for one of two reasons. Those members who are using Mylot purely as a source of extra cash will probably be in a hurry to read and comment, so short posts would be obvious choice for them. Personally I use Mylot for pleasure, so as long as the post offers some interest to me then I shall be happy to read a fairly lengthy one.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
2 Mar 16
@Drosophila That may be true, but hardly relevant to me.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
2 Mar 16
That's quite interesting, though am incline to think this has more to do with attention span. Twitter users won't reading long post for sure
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
29 Feb 16
I don't always read long discussions, unless the title grabs me, and then I will take the time to rad the discussion, evenh though it would be a long one. I try myself, not to do along posts either, as I like to keep the users attetnion, and not put them to sleep, which some discussions can do, not mine particularly, but others that I have seen. I do like them to get to the point and not make it to long, as a really long discussion can be boring not to mention, the users reaqding them lose their train of thought, and just move on.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
1 Mar 16
@Drosophila I try not to make mine to long, as I don't want to bore others, or put them to sleep.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
yep definitely less is more
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
@rosekiss I like your posts! they are a good length, but I know what you mean. I tried to do the same
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
29 Feb 16
For a site like this, I agree, people want short and sharp. Longer posts are best for other sites.
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@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
1 Mar 16
@Drosophila I think sites like this actually condition us for short sharp reading. I sometimes find I lose interest quickly when reading a magazine article. Sad.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
@valmnz Twitter is worse.. 140 characters go!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
29 Feb 16
Ya that's what I've noticed, also some folks don't seem to have the time to read long posts either.
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28 Feb 16
depends on so many things: how interesting i find it? how tired i am? how much time i have?
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
Oh that's true! Feeling and timing is critical
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
@jillybean1222 Ya, I'm the same, on a busy day, I can only hop on for like 30minutes to have a quick read and do my notifications.
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28 Feb 16
@Drosophila some times i hope online & really don't have a lot of time to spend as I rush here and there in the virtual world. Other times I'm camped on the couch for the duration and have plenty of time
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
28 Feb 16
Whatever the length, if it's interesting I will read it. If not, yawn. How do you know when people give up?
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
I have had folks that read about 3 lines of my post then make a comment addressing those 3 lines.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
@DianneN It's always odd when people do that, if they have to pick 3 sentences to respond to, they should pick the last 3.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
28 Feb 16
@Drosophila Believe me, the same thing happens to me! Sheesh!
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Feb 16
I really don't know how to answer that as some of my posts are long, but they are necessary for their depth. I think - I know I shouldn't say that - however, when a person says the same thing over several times, or even once the post is too long. If you feel the need to reiterate - it's too long. For instance this comment is much too long because I've become redundant. But that's to prove a point.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
I agree, I don't think you can do a Daily Bible study with just 5 lines, or discuss the impact of sin in 10.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Feb 16
@Drosophila Impossible.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
27 Feb 16
I can write long. Around 5 paragraphs--short ones. I can write short. For me...i don't mind how long or short the discussion is. As long as it needs to be there--words or sentences or a couple of paragraph. Cause there are discussions that are long but not boring...there are short and it goes nowhere.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
27 Feb 16
That is true, the content of the discussion is important..
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
27 Feb 16
@Drosophila and as long as it is not beating around the bush. Haha
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
27 Feb 16
@Lucky15 I have read discussions before where I got to the middle and give up
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
28 Feb 16
Well according to me,whatever interests us makes us read that and ya many a times it has happened that the post which are few lines long are the most popular ones and with the maximum responses as well.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
Yep, l guess most of the folks just don't want to read page after page of stuff
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
@shubhu3 That's great the ability to concentrate on a long piece of work. I must admit, if the post is too long, my mind just drift off
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
28 Feb 16
@Drosophila Ya may be.I go by interest since many a times I do read long pages sort of stuff if it interests me.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 16
since we Amercans have the attention span of a ten year old I seldom write very long discussions and I do break mine up into paragraphs too.as for myself if I ma interested I will read your post short medium or long but am not impressed by very short one sentence posts as they seldom can be discussed.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
2 Mar 16
Ya one sentence post is the other end of the spectrum right. Somewhere in the middle is good. Although in Twitter it's the shorter the better
@sofssu (23662)
1 Mar 16
If the subject interests me I am with it till the end no matter how long.. but if its purely personal stuff that I cannot relate to, then I might try another post of yours. It also depends on what I am doing at that time.. I am always multitasking so I may come back to your post later.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
That's true enough. Although I do have a terrible attention span and drop off often. :)
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
1 Mar 16
No post is ever too long as long as it sticks to one topic, does not have superfluous bits and pieces hanging off either/both ends, it has a clearly defined ending and is more than one word but less than three words long, it is perfect! Hope this helps, Wendy!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
hahahah.. well ya, I guess if it's just going on and on about the same thing I'd get fatigued
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@ganesh24 (46)
• Kolkata, India
28 Feb 16
How long or how short one will write in the discussion matter . I think that there is no mathematical formula to determine it. It depends on the criteria raised in the discussion, Any scientific, philosophical, high literal, political, legal or like such matters take broad space whereas personal feelings on day to day occurring matters are very unlikely to occupy broad space. Thus there should not be any mandatory limit in which one should be bound. However it should also be borne in mind that my lot is not after all a research forum where very high level matter be put into..
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Feb 16
That is a good point, I don't think I can write a 5 sentence post on the "meaning of life".
• Kolkata, India
1 Mar 16
@Drosophila Meaning of life you can write as many sentences as you like but within the framework prescribed herewith. Meaning of life according to me is to do good things to the society and also to the needy people.There are others who think that meaning of life is to enjoy as much as possible by means fair or foul. It depends on individual thinking.
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@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
1 Mar 16
Depends on the topic. I usually read thpusand plus words articles by social media influencers and successful bloggers online up to the bottom because I want to learn something from them. Same here :)
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
Tbh, some of these influencers do chat a lot of BS! someone clever once said, "chicken and lay eggs and poop faeces, we eat eggs and leave the faeces alone. Some successful businessmen operate the same way, if we like them, we should buy their stocks. but leave the faeces they spew well alone"
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
1 Mar 16
Yes I would personally give up on a long discussion typically more than 15-20 lines. However, if it is really very interesting and engaging, then even 25 lines can be read. But usually, it should be short and to the point.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
1 Mar 16
Actually, 15 sentences is already a very long bit of writing, especially if the sentences are long :D
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