I like to stay at home

@scheng1 My husband is always doing the housework as well, so I think I should be fine with it. Moreover, my elder son is already 7, so he can help out quite a few things at home too. My parents will be here for at least a month, for the confinement period. Glad that my son enjoys learning on his own too, even now when we are not schooling, he still always writes "assignments" for himself to do. So, I do not worry about his schooling too much. But yes, definitely I will be busier with the baby, and my little girl is still "sticking" to me a lot. Anyway, I always believe there will certainly be ways if we want to or need to do something.

I think once your third child is born, you are going to get really busy. I wonder if you have anyone to help you with housework or to take care of the schooling of the older children while you take care of the baby. I cannot imagine how you can manage your time.

If I stay at home, I may not save a lot. For one thing, the electricity bill will be higher, since I have to use the computer when I am at home.

@scheng1 My monthly rent is inclusive of the electric bill and unlimited internet. I maximize it by working and staying at home.

@scheng1 moms are superwomen.

I think those who are staying home and taking care of kids have to set alarm clock! They have to bring their children to school or nursery. Sometimes I think they are working harder than us who have full time job.

Unless you have those Lego for them to build, It is extremely expensive, but the time the children can spend on these make the investment worthwhile. Not all children like to build up the Lego structure, since it takes a lot of patience to do that.

You can get out of the house to take pictures of nature, and then you can print from those pictures. It will be a good exercise for you too.

If you can make money from home, that is not laziness. Laziness happens when you do not want to work, and still want to get money from your family and friends.

@scheng1 yeah many people still cannot believe we can make real money online.

That is true. We always cannot find a good balance. If we are out so often, we like to stay home. If we are at home too often, then we like to go out.

For us who seldom have a full day at home, staying home is a luxury. We get to stay home only when we are sick, or when we have a free day. That happens less than ten days a year.

That is good. Your time with your daughters will not be wasted. Just wait a few more years, and they will work, and give you money. I think that my career women just do not dare to quit, because they love money as much as their family, and they think they can have both.