Have you ever been attracted to something you can't do?

@Scindhia (1906)
India
March 2, 2016 1:37am CST
We had gone to Kerala last year to celebrate my parents 30th wedding anniversary. For those who don't know, Kerala is the adjoining state to my state Tamil Nadu and is known as 'God's Own Place' locally. It is very beautiful with scenic backwaters,lush greenery and houseboats. Dishes cooked with fish are very popular there. The picture above is the view from my room at the resort where we were staying. I do not know swimming, but I always liked water and swimming pools. My dad is the only swimmer in my family and my son was just two when we went on that trip. I always get into swimming pools when I have a chance and just play in the water with my sister and my son though all three of us don't know swimming. I really enjoy being in the water and I always prefer resorts with swimming pools. I find that a bit puzzling. I'm thinking of joining swimming classes along with my son couple of years later. Or maybe its too late to learn swimming, I don't know... Have you ever wanted to try something but you have not gotten a chance till now? Have you ever been attracted to something you can't do?
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@JudyEv (341824)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Mar 16
I would take swimming lessons if I were you. I'm sure you would enjoy it very much. I am too old to do some of the things I would have liked to do. I would like to have been able to roller-skate for one.
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@JudyEv (341824)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Mar 16
@Scindhia I guess that is true but perhaps there is still a chance if you had one-on-one tuition perhaps rather than joining in a larger group. But some things aren't worth the effort are they? I'll never learn to roller skate now.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
@JudyEv One-on-One lessons sounds like a great idea. . I will try it.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
Roller skating is an interesting sport. I have a friend who is one of the national champions in that field. Its tough to shed the inhibitions and learn to swim now.
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@LadyDuck (472024)
• Switzerland
2 Mar 16
I am unable to swim and I fear the deep water. I think it's surely something that happened when I was a kid. I tried many times to learn to swim, but I cannot.
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@LadyDuck (472024)
• Switzerland
7 Mar 16
@Scindhia My mother used to tell me that, when I was born, she looked at the nurse who was giving me my first bath, my head went for a moment under water and she had the feeling that I was scared... this may be the reason.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
Did you have an accident in water as a kid?
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
@LadyDuck Wow! Even an incident that young can have an impact on us! Its best to stay away from deep waters as you say.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Mar 16
No, you can always learn to swim at whatever age for as long as you have the willpower. Why not try?
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Mar 16
@Scindhia That's good, i wish you the best in this endeavor.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
30 Mar 16
I'm planning to take up summer classes for swimming. Lets see how it turns out!
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
8 Mar 16
Oh , you can still learn how to swim . I don't know how to swim the formal way . But i can float and swim a bit though , in my own way . You can just go to the shallow part of the swimming pool to swim , by th e way .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
9 Mar 16
@Scindhia At least , we can float . We will not drown .
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
8 Mar 16
Floating would be enough for me at the moment
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
14 Mar 16
@Scindhia It is swimming that I would have liked to learn.But I never learned it. Where in Kerala did you stay?
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
14 Mar 16
@Scindhia Are you a vegetarian?If not did you taste the Prawn dishes there?
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
14 Mar 16
@silvermist I'm not a vegetarian. But I'm not fond of prawns. I like only fish in sea food though I have tasted crab,prawn and lobster.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
14 Mar 16
We stayed at the Green Fields Resort, Kumarakom. It was an amazing experience.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
2 Mar 16
Not yet too late. You can stil learn ;)
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
I will definitely try!
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
2 Mar 16
It is never too late to learn swimming. Swimming allows you to exercise your whole body, and it is good to ward off many ailments related to old age. Your son will learn much faster than you, so it is better to learn with adults, and not with your son.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
I'm sure they will have separate classes for adults. I will check them out. Swimming is indeed a great exercise.
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 Mar 16
I also cannot swim but I've always been attracted to driving and am hoping to join my driving lessons before the end of the year.Then I think there is nothing as being late to learning so long as you feel you are ready to do it.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
Thats true. I too did not want to drive for a long time. I finally took my license last year. Hope you get yours too
• Philippines
2 Mar 16
The reason why I didn't join any kind of swimming lessons was because of my ears
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
Was there any other sport you were interested to try?
@gudheart (12659)
3 Mar 16
I have never been to Dubai so that is somewhere I would like to go one day. I have a fear of flying though!
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
But yet you have travelled in planes?
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
4 Mar 16
You should try to learn to swim you will have so much fun. It would be good for your son to learn too!
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
We are planing on taking swimming classes together. I hope I learn it before my son knows enough to tease me!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 Mar 16
Your view is so tropical and beautiful. You can do anything you set your mind to. Make sure your son learns to swim. It is so important.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
Swimming is a life skill. I don't know why it is so undermined here.
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@paigea (36316)
• Canada
8 Mar 16
If you like getting into the water it is not too late to learn swimming. I can't think of something I wanted to do and couldn't.
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@paigea (36316)
• Canada
8 Mar 16
@Scindhia I guess there aren't that many things I wanted to try
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
8 Mar 16
You tried out everything you wanted to try? Thats awesome!
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@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
2 Mar 16
Swimming is easy :) I attracted to join military but I can't :-D
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
Don't we all have that childhood dream. Growing up and doing all the courageous deeds of the world!
@vandana7 (100552)
• India
2 Mar 16
Ample...and many have ceased to be important after a while..lol
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
7 Mar 16
Can you mention one or two? Things that you really wanted to try?
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@Tampa_girl7 (50614)
• United States
9 Mar 16
It is never to late to learn how to swim. Go for it.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
11 Mar 16
Not as such, I've always done what I wanted to do. :) My motto in life is "minimize regrets, maximize experiences" Swimming is fun, you'll enjoy it. :D