people keep telling me he's not the one for me
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
March 4, 2016 2:23am CST
there are moments when I'm having doubts too but for most of the times we're happy together. he's not perfect and I ain't either. people keep on telling me that I deserve more. but why should I seek for more when I''m happy with what I have now. I don't understand why people keep making opinions when I don't ask for them?
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
I think that too. plus I get advised to leave him by the people who are a total mess when it comes to their personal life
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
@jstory07 he respects me and makes me feel important for him. what could I ask for more?
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@Shayani (250)
• Pune, India
4 Mar 16
I believe that not only you, but I too have faced this kind of issue before. When people know that you are happy , they usually have a tendency to poke you and interfere in your personal stuff. May be this is a way to through which they actually want to know how happy you are, and if you are, whether you both are truly fond of each other.
Best way , give a deaf ear to all these. As long as you are happy and you both are in love with each other, nothing else matter. Best Wishes !!!
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
thanks. I'm happy. it's not always milk and honey but somehow we seem to find a way to cope with each other's flaws and it comes natural
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
6 Mar 16
@Shayani thanks. there are moments when I get afraid and I wonder if I'm not wasting my time
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@Shayani (250)
• Pune, India
6 Mar 16
@swissheart same goes for me Alina. Trust me no relationship is perfect in true sense , but when you both love each other and have the correct understanding to cope with all situation of life. All the best... !!
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
4 Mar 16
you know they say, you can always ask their opinion but in the end, its still up to you anyway.
if you're getting bad vibes from others, avoid sharing your love story with them. try to respond positively so they'll see his good side. then believe that your relationship is strong enough inspite of what theyre doing..
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
4 Mar 16
@swissheart just always remember that in your relationship, theres just you and him whose going to work it out.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
16 Mar 16
@MGjhaud yes we're the ones who need to find a way to solve our issues
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
when we got togehter no one gave us a chance. and I realize that it has been more than a year since we started our relationship and things seem to be going good
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
we were capable of accommodating with each other and finding a way to compromise so that we could make our relationship work
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
4 Mar 16
@swissheart That is the way to go... you know your lover more than anyone else. This makes you superior in choices you make. Give deaf ear to ridicule and live a happy life knowing that you made the right decision.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
we have our arguments but most of the times things are good between the two of us
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@fidato09 (37)
• New Delhi, India
4 Mar 16
yes..i agree with you.... i too find people.. making opinions on your behalf...as they would like to see it from their point of view...
what i think is ...we all have...different perspective...so we do have...different opinion.....so if we want our opinion to be respected....we should respect other's opinion too.... 
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
most opinions are subjective. we can't see things from a neutral perspective. we think different...we see things differently.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 16
I think others are jealous of your guy, therefore, they keep poking you and telling you that you deserve more. If you are happy and satisfied with the present guy, you need not pay any attention to others' comments.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
7 Mar 16
@swissheart - They are jealous. They think in their mind -"Oh! they could not find a guy like you have?"
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
thanks dear. I tougth about my friend being jealous about our relationship but I refused to accept the idea
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@mademoiselle_Ayla (42)
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4 Mar 16
Hey.. everyone told me the same thing.. he is not the guy for you. you deserve much better and so on.... well,, we are married now, and we have a daughter :D and I couldn't be happier :D
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
it's admirable that you were capable to stand for your love and protect your relationship from other people's comments
@azrapa (63)
• Ireland
4 Mar 16
You really won't know if he's the one for you or not until a long time passes by, or until you just wake up one day and realise it. Enjoy and cherish your relationship no matter what other people say, determining if he's the one for you can only be done by you both and not others.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Mar 16
people will never know what's best for me simply because they don't know me like I know myself
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
16 Mar 16
@azrapa I get bothered over the fact that they express opinions even if I didn't ask them
@azrapa (63)
• Ireland
4 Mar 16
@swissheart Exactly! No matter how close to us some people are, there are still limits on how much they can know us as a person.
