My childhood's worst nightmare
By Wendy789
@Drosophila (16571)
Ireland
March 8, 2016 5:15am CST
My childhood's worst nightmare is...
MILK! Yes, Milk! What's your worst childhood nightmare?
I am lactose sensitive. I was born in an era when folks didn't understand "allergy".
During the "bleakest period" of Ireland, milk was regarded the most valuable nutrition.
Regardless of my protests, I was force-fed milk.
I remember gulped down the stinky horrible liquid only to throw it all up again later.
Every day I dreaded the mornings when we all lined up and were given milk in the nursery.
This was when I promised myself, "when I grow up I will never touch this again..."
Unfortunately, that did not happen for many years...
So what's your worst childhood nightmare?
Image: Amazon.com
21 people like this
25 responses
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
Lol! blue peter! god you remember that? I've blanked it out!
2 people like this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
@WorDazza yes! I never got the point of the show either
2 people like this
@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Mar 16
@Drosophila I have an excellent memory! Not always a good thing!!
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
Thanks! It indeed was one of the things that caused me a lot of mental stress at a young age.
As a consequence, I am much happier as an adult, as I never had to do anything I don't want to again. It's such a relief!
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
8 Mar 16
I also hate milk. I'm not lactose intolerant but I always hated the smell and the taste of milk unless it was in custard or tea. We used to have free milk (in 1/3 pint bottles) at school and I never drank mine. I would always give it to someone else or pour it down the drain!
I also did not like any kind of milk pudding - rice pudding or tapioca pudding (though I did quite like semolina pudding provided that there was enough jam or syrup with it). My mother also used to poach fish in milk and that was a 'double hate'! (I didn't like fish, either, at that time).
2 people like this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
That is great to hear! That someone also hates milk! You also touched a good point too! Accursed free milked!!!!
When I was finally old enough to go to school, I thought my milk drinking days are over!
Only to be haunted by the accursed free milk!
At one point, I really thought I was never going to be free of this nightmare. xD
As a consequence, I am much happier as an adult, as I never had to do anything I don't want to again. It's such a relief!
1 person likes this
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
9 Mar 16
I love, rice semolina and tapioca puddings
1 person likes this
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
8 Mar 16
I hated milk in school..it was horrid and I often did not drink it.
2 people like this
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
8 Mar 16
@Drosophila Oh jays, I thought I would die in school..it gave me a bad stomach.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
Amen! another person with bad milk memories!
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
@TiarasOceanView oh! sounds like unpasteurized dodgy milk
1 person likes this
@yalul070 (1713)
• Manila, Philippines
8 Mar 16
My worst childhood nightmare is that I had to sleep...on afternoons. The elders were of the belief that children who sleep in the afternoon -- instead of having fun playing -- will grow faster. Now that I'm old, my simple joy is taking an afternoon nap and I am rarely able to do this.
1 person likes this
@yalul070 (1713)
• Manila, Philippines
9 Mar 16
@Drosophila oh forcing kids to sleep in the afternoon is widely practiced here in our country.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
@yalul070 Ya I never got used to the napping thing, am a night owl, I get up around 9:30, so napping at 13:00 seems to be very odd xD
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
ah well! napping is an odd habit alright, I never got into it myself.
Glad to hear you did end up enjoy napping
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
Yes, I can understand that! Milk has a strong smell, ever smelt it when it goes bad.. seriously unpleasant.
1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
8 Mar 16
Understandably your childhood experience of about being force fed milk has left a bitter taste in your mouth and you just do not like milk.
I am not allergic to milk or milk products and I love to take milk.
1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
9 Mar 16
@Drosophila Yes, I agree with you that may be at that point of time (when you were a kid) there would not have been much awareness about lactose sensitivity and you were unnecessarily forced to take the milk.
Actually, for infants/kids milk is considered as a complete food, therefore, every parent tries that his kids must take milk.
Nonetheless, for those who are lactose sensitive, now a days there are other options available for their nourishment (e.g. Soybean milk or peanut milk).
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
Lucky you! but hey, it's children that love milk that really makes it tough for the rest of us.
As adults back then don't understand that lactose sensitive is a genetic condition (got it from my dad, who never drink milk anyway).
So in their mind all children must have milk, those who don't are just spoilt.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
@dpk262006 Ya lactose intolerance is an annoying thing! As when you're a baby, your baby genes are functioning and can produce enough lactase to digest milk sugar. That's why you don't see babies being lactose intolerant.
However, once you become an "adult", at the age of 2+ onwards, the "adult" lactase genes kick into action, as the baby genes "switch off". All of a sudden, you no longer produce enough lactase to digest what you can previously digest! So ya it becomes food poisoning from then onwards
Most adults, however, don't necessarily have the knowledge of this phenomenon so continue to "force milk" as it's something the child was having fine before, which is why, as a parent one should not force feed milk to kids pass the age of 2+
This is something I've only learnt when I went to university! Around 90% of Asians and a good 10% of the Europeans are lactose intolerant. So really its a big problem
1 person likes this
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
9 Mar 16
@Drosophila When we look back it is hard to imagine the ignorance. I wonder if those people had any kind of clue or were completely clueless as to the needs of a child? Yes, I can see how something like that would challenge you to face certain things. Like the authority is wrong sometimes? Good for you.
By the way, i guess you need to think about getting cheese while i need to stay away from it because I sure eat a lot of dairy products. I'm an ice-cream and frozen yogart addict.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
I don't do yogurt! But I do eat lactose-free cheese ever so often.
It sure does sticks with you, I must admit, it was a huge mental stress source for me as a child.
But as a consequence am a much happier and stronger adult.
I'm now more in a position to say no, and not just being forced something.
I also learned at a young age, if something totally disagrees with you, it probably will remain that way.
Don't put up with a bad situation unnecessarily.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
@Bluedoll Actually, if you read some of the comments to this post, and my subsequent post on lactose intolerance, you'll see that lactose intolerance still confuses people.
So yes, I have no doubt, some child somewhere is still being force fed milk.. on the assumption that its good for you.
1 person likes this
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
9 Mar 16
never really had childhood fears though fearing homelessness now as it is a real danger to me in the near future
1 person likes this
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
9 Mar 16
@Drosophila I certainly hope so
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
@DianneN I don't think I will ever force another human being to drink milk! xD
Lesson learned
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
That's probably true! Btw, uncanny how adults always forced children to finish milk. :D
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
11 Mar 16
@Scindhia good god! it sounds like more fitting for handbags and shoes!
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
10 Mar 16
ya that doesn't sound pleasant "bitter gourd"
1 person likes this
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
11 Mar 16
@Drosophila It has scales like crocodile too which totally doesn't make it appetizing!
1 person likes this
@OKennedy (1130)
• United States
8 Mar 16
sorry that sucks which oddly enough is how some allergies are treated these days we build some immunity and overcome the allergies by continuing to keep ingesting or coming into contact with the allergen until the body no longer reacts to its presence.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
Unfortunately lactose intolerance can't be cured, as we just don't produce enough lactase to digest milk sugar. Lactase production is governed by adult genes which once switch on, just pretty much does what it wants to.
So ya the only thing to do is not to drink milk
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
@OKennedy It's ok, I'm just happy no one is forcing me to drink it anymore.
I don't really do ice cream, or yogurt. So it is ok.
I do eat lactose-free cheese once a while.
1 person likes this
@OKennedy (1130)
• United States
9 Mar 16
@Drosophila that's a total bummer I have met many people with that problem and even something like enjoying an ice cream cone. I have heard about that new lactaid milk although I don't know if it really works. Not that it makes a difference but I am sorry that you can't have milk.
1 person likes this
@rina110383 (24492)
•
8 Mar 16
I also disliked the taste of milk when I was a kid. My mom said that I stopped drinking milk when I was 2 years old. Now that I'm older, I drink milk if I can't sleep.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
You're lucky! So you're not lactose sensitive then?
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
@rina110383 You have good taste as a kid!!!
1 person likes this
@rina110383 (24492)
•
8 Mar 16
@Drosophila No, I'm not. I was just choosy when I was a kid. I prefer meals (rice & meat/fish) than milk=)
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Mar 16
Erm.. you do realise that there's a genetic condition called "lactose intolerance/sensitive right?"
It's not something you can "learn to live with".
your body simply cannot not digest milk.
If you force people who has this condition to drink milk, it's like food poisoning for them!!
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
In case you're not aware of this: "as a parent one should not force feed milk to kids pass the age of 2+ " Around 90% of Asians and a good 10% of the Europeans are lactose intolerant.
Ya lactose intolerance is an annoying thing! As when you're a baby, your baby genes are functioning and can produce enough lactase to digest milk sugar. That's why you don't see babies being lactose intolerant. However, once you become an "adult", at the age of 2+ onwards, the "adult" lactase genes kick into action, as the baby genes "switch off".
All of a sudden, you no longer produce enough lactase to digest what you can previously digest! So ya it becomes food poisoning from then onwards
Most adults, however, don't necessarily have the knowledge of this phenomenon so continue to "force milk" as it's something the child was having fine before.
This is something I've only learnt when I went to university!
@vandana7 (100603)
• India
10 Mar 16
Meat. My aunt used to stuff it in my mouth...I hated it...secretly went into bathroom, tried to pull it out..you know how bulimia patients do it. I got very sick at one point of time in my life...so was asked to take more of it, I approached my doctor and cried before her...I told her it tastes like a big truck's tire soaked in cow's sheet for me. She immediately called dad and told her this is where you are going wrong with her...she is born vegan leave her ...let her eat what she wants. My health improved considerably after that. Dad used to force prawns. I used to cover it from all sides with rice so that I could not see it. And then gulp it down with water, without biting into it.
1 person likes this
@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Mar 16
I am sorry you had to go through that as a kid. I can't think of anything that was a nightmare for me as a child.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
11 Mar 16
That is good to hear that your childhood was stress free :D
1 person likes this
@jillybean1222 (6407)
•
9 Mar 16
as a kid, spiders. (still hate them) adult fears are much worse
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
That's great to hear that your childhood is good :D
1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
9 Mar 16
Failing any test in school. I was a studious kind. Though I am not lactose intolerant, I still hate white milk. It must be flavored to have me drink it.
1 person likes this
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
9 Mar 16
ya that was a big stress for me too.. come to think of it, I had more mental stress as a kid than as an adult
1 person likes this