Pleasing

@mavlana (1019)
India
March 9, 2016 11:19am CST
Its my nature that whatever I feel,I directly say to others..Thats why less liked,NO WORRIES.Some shower their entire happiness on me. I don't hurt people intentionally,they get hurt by small things.I don't know that why they are preoccupied with such appreciation...this sort of appreciation is of no worth. Are we here to fulfill the expectations of others??The answer obviously will be no.When you are fulfilling others expectations,you are committing suicide.You are not here to fulfill anybody's expectations and nobody is here to fulfill your expectations.So don't become victim of other's expectations and save others from being a victim of your ones.
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Shiva
@Shiva49 (26767)
• Singapore
11 Mar 16
I am mindful of society's expectations but chart my own way. If we ignore others feelings they do the same to us too - siva
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Shiva
@Shiva49 (26767)
• Singapore
15 Mar 16
@mavlana We are born with anxiety and expectations. It is how we temper them that decides our peace of mind. We need to address them the right way to be alive and progress. They are like contentment too as one can become lazy if we refuse to strive - siva
Jay Kaur
@mavlana (1019)
• India
15 Mar 16
You may be right...but the whole concept of expectations leads to misery..whether these are of yours or others.
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Jay Kaur
@mavlana (1019)
• India
15 Mar 16
@Shiva49 I am understanding what you are saying....in our childhood we are at much peace, as our needs are limited...instead of growing our consciousness. we are increasing our expectations.We are increasing our anxiety ourselves.
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Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Mar 16
I believe being frank is good not unless we become so brutally frank.
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Jay Kaur
@mavlana (1019)
• India
10 Mar 16
@salonga Sometimes we engage in being too much frank that we tend to forget ourselves or vice versa.
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Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
11 Mar 16
@mavlana you are right.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
10 Mar 16
Im just here to write the things I can still do everyday. I don't expect people to like it.
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Jay Kaur
@mavlana (1019)
• India
10 Mar 16
Thats the best thing you could do for your life.
Alice Henry
@IreneVincent (15962)
• United States
10 Mar 16
Let me recommend a web site that you might enjoy: You can watch FREE videos and read articles, in your own language, about finding true happiness. Your English is very good, but I think we enjoy reading things in the language of our heart. The language that we use to THINK.
Jehovah’s Witnesses—Official Website: jw.org
www.jw.org
Jehovah’s Witnesses: Our official website provides online access to the Bible, Bible-based publications, and current news. It describes our beliefs and organization.
Jay Kaur
@mavlana (1019)
• India
10 Mar 16
I never read bible exactly...but I observed some points.Thanks for sharing....