A person's capability to change

Philippines
March 14, 2016 6:27am CST
What do you think are important factors that would contribute to the capability of a person to change? I know many people wants to change some areas of their lives but would seem that they are having a hard time changing. I also would like to change some of my dangerous habits and it is just so hard to change myself. What do you think guys? Kudos~!
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hoong143
@hoong143 (1397)
• Malaysia
9 May 16
I think it is really very hard to change a habit. But, there is a way called 21 days to build a new habit. I think it is good and I always suggest it to my friends.
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hoong143
@hoong143 (1397)
• Malaysia
9 May 16
@GopherDanny I hope you can change your dangerous habits too. By the way, I think many people want to change and also fail to change. Hence, we need to work hard on it. Try and try.
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CodingCoffee
@GopherDanny (814)
• Philippines
9 May 16
@hoong143 True, if we want to change our habits, we must be determined to change it and take action in making that habit changing a reality. Thanks!
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CodingCoffee
@GopherDanny (814)
• Philippines
9 May 16
Yes, according to some experts, you gotta work hard on doing the same thing over and over for quite some time when you want to form that as a habit. I do happen to know the technique and is using it to change my habits.
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LegTech
@rina110383 (24492)
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14 Mar 16
There must be willingness on the part of the person to change.
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CodingCoffee
@GopherDanny (814)
• Philippines
15 Mar 16
Yes, I agree that willingness is a part of being able to change. But the flesh indeed is willing, but the spirit is weak. What do you think will reinforce a person's capability to change along with willingness?
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LegTech
@rina110383 (24492)
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15 Mar 16
@GopherDanny Since you used the word "reinforce," I'd say motivation and inspiration. But if you didn't use the term, I'll stick with just willingness. If the spirit is weak, it's better if the person will stop planning to change because it won't work.
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Mar 16
Of course we can do it , if we are determined . Sometimes , the hazards and risks are what makes us change from patronizing a thing .
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CodingCoffee
@GopherDanny (814)
• Philippines
15 Mar 16
I agree, determination and willingness to change is very important. Thanks for sharing. Kudos~!
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