Women Behaving Badly.

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By Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
United Kingdom
March 14, 2016 3:03pm CST
I was reading my book by the hotel pool here in Spain when I heard raised voices: 1st woman - "That's my sunbed!" 2nd woman - "Actually no, it's the hotel's." 1st woman - "I left my things on it". 2nd woman - "You were gone too long". 1st woman - (shrill voice) "I only went for lunch! Where are my things?" 2nd woman - "On that chair over there". 1st woman - "Cow!" With that the first woman grabbed the side of the sunbed, tipped the second woman off it and stormed off. Two women behaving badly. Fun in the sun! Photo is mine - sunbeds, but on the beach.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
14 Mar 16
It never ceases to amaze me how many people still try to lay claim on a sunbed despite wandering off for long periods of time. I have seen people dropping their towels on a sunbed on route to breakfast.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
14 Mar 16
@jaboUK This is a very good system because it stops selfish individuals abusing the facilities that others have also paid for.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@Asylum Some places have a rule that you mustn't be more than half an hour. Some hotels and cruise ships will send a staff member round to collect any belongings, and people then have to go and claim them.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
14 Mar 16
Love your photo! Unfortunately, I have seen that all too often at resorts and on cruises, and it's not a pretty sight. When they're topless, it's worse.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@DianneN Oh sheesh - did you have to plant that image in my head!
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
14 Mar 16
@jaboUK Isn't that a common practice in Europe? They come to Florida and the Caribbean and dress/ undress that way. It's not too common here.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
14 Mar 16
@jaboUK Great! I'm booking the next plane out! I am so uncomfortable, that I avoid beaches if that happens.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
14 Mar 16
Wow guess someone just wanted to be mean and behave badly. Sorry this happened where you were staying.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@Marcyaz it was quite amusing to watch, but I couldn't really believe that they would screech at each other like that, and then for one to tip the other out - ridiculous.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@sueznewz2 That's true - i was ashamed to be a Brit when I saw the way they were behaving.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
15 Mar 16
@jaboUK it could of been worse, if they'd been drinking...., it's behaviour like that that gives brits a bad name....
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@Juliaacv (51506)
• Canada
14 Mar 16
Isn't it just a shame that their biggest worry is which lounge chair they'll use, too bad it didn't rain on the 2 of them. Can ya tell I have a mean streak in me when I'm not feeling too well-lol
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@Juliaacv Well I never would have guessed that you had a mean streak Remind me not to cross you when you're not well!
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
14 Mar 16
Wow, were these grown women? crazy. The picture on the other hand makes me want to go to the beach!!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@T_gray They were middle aged women. Yes the beach is nicer, but you get sand everywhere
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
14 Mar 16
@jaboUK Oh, sand is just one price you pay. I would be on the beach anyday
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
14 Mar 16
What does the first woman has on that particular sunbed? Haha. The second woman way to go!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@Lucky15 I think she only had a towel and a book, just something to mark it as hers
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@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
16 Mar 16
I hate it when grown adults, act worse than children.
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@slund2041 (3314)
• United States
17 Mar 16
@jaboUK I seen that sort of thing happen on a cruise ship once. Carnival has a rule against leaving chair unattended, in order to keep people from hogging the chair if they are not using it. People cannot follow rules though, and it ruins life for everyone else. It is fine if the person who has there things in the chair is in the pool, but if they get up and go eat it is not okay to leave belongings there. This other lady moved the things off the chair so she could use the seat for her stuff while she was in the pool. The person that had been hording the chair comes back all pissed off, and a fight broke out. Security was called, and it just kind of messes everything up.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
17 Mar 16
@slund2041 On the ships I've been on people are allowed to leave the beds for half an hour, after which a staff member removes their things. That seems fair to me. Otherwise, as both you and I have witnessed, it can become nasty.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@slund2041 Me too, it was embarrassing, but entertaining at the same time.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
14 Mar 16
I think the first woman is rude, rude, rude, why does she think she is entitled to hold a sun bed forever, next thing you know she will leave her towel overnight!!
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
15 Mar 16
@jaboUK Well she could have just thrown them on the ground which I think she was entitled to do. I am still thinking that woman one should be warned for dumping the other woman, she made it physical, that has to be illegal. Very poor conduct, were they Americans?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@BelleStarr Yes, she was very rude, but so was the second woman. She shouldn't really have moved the other woman's things. Regarding your last comment - when we were in Tenerife the chap in the next room would get up at 5am just to claim sunbeds for his whole family! Ridiculous.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@BelleStarr I'm sorry to say that they were both Brits. If they'd been Americans I can see that a lawsuit may have ensued!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Mar 16
Sun bed.What is wrong with them.They should be out doing thing.Then getting a sunburned or whatever She had no right to save her bed.Once they leave they are gone.Next woman please.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@amadeo To be fair Alfredo, I was using one too. We'd been out all morning so it's nice to relax by the pool. But as you say, no-one should save the beds.
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@gudheart (12659)
16 Mar 16
Oh my!!! were there a lack of sunbeds?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@gudheart There were some farther back, not in such a good position.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@gudheart Yes, extremely silly.
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@gudheart (12659)
16 Mar 16
@jaboUK Still seems rather silly thing to fight over!
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
15 Mar 16
Sounds like she'd been hitting the booze with her lunch.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@boiboing She might just have done that!
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Mar 16
yes, even young and not-so-young women behave inappropriately under certain circumstances. Glad you were just a bystander that time. Great pic, by the way.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@ridingbet These women were well into middle age and should have known better. Thanks for liking the pic.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@ridingbet These women were obviously not as wise as you Ingrid
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Mar 16
@jaboUK then there was still a bit of childishness to these women because they were acting so irrationally. If I were one of them, I would just talk slowly and in clarity so there will be no commotion, and if the woman I am talking to will not understand me, then my sarcastic personality will come out. How? By looking at her feet then up on her face. (Her feet are better-looking than her face). I won't stoop down to her level if she insists on her reasoning.
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
I expect they were English? I don't do the sunbed thing but I do think it is wrong to save your place when you go for lunch. There was a bit about sunbeds on The Inbetweeners film.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@Mike197602 Yes, I'm ashamed to say that they were English. I didn't see that film, but if you go for lunch then obviously you are going to be some time. It's not fair to try and save a bed.
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@jahunt (1380)
• United States
14 Mar 16
I find this hilarious! But, I guess I am a little weird. Lol! I don't think I would feel safe leaving my things unattended like that.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@jahunt Yes, i found it amusing too. She wouldn't have left anything of value, just a towel or something to 'mark her territory'.
• United States
15 Mar 16
We have a saying "move your feet, lose your seat". I think that should apply to the lounge chairs unless you are just going to be gone for a minute or two.
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• United States
16 Mar 16
@jaboUK I agree. If you have to go to the bathroom or get a drink or check on your child or whatever, then it is not fair that you have to give up your seat, because you will only be gone for a short time. If you are planning on having an entire meal or going shopping or getting a haircut or whatever, though, then I think it is unreasonable to think that you should be able to save the seat for that long. Other people have just as much right to use it as you do, and they would be actively using it while you were not.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@purplealabaster That's a good saying. It's fair enough if you want to go to the toilet or get a drink, but 10 minutes should be ample of time to do that.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@purplealabaster You are exactly right.
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@delyaj30 (613)
• Quezon City, Philippines
16 Mar 16
misbehaviors, what a shame
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@delyaj30 (613)
• Quezon City, Philippines
16 Mar 16
@jaboUK hello,sorry i been away for almost 2 month because my daughter open her business and i help her manage , i miss you though
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@delyaj30 I remember you saying that you were helping your daughter. No need to apologise, I'm just glad that your absence wasn't due to illness.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@delyaj30 Yes, it was silly behaviour. How are you? I haven't seen you for a while.
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@yalul070 (1713)
• Manila, Philippines
15 Mar 16
Oh my God! And she tipped the other woman off? You can do that to a person you just met in Spain and not get into a cat-fight? Sounds like fun.
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@yalul070 (1713)
• Manila, Philippines
16 Mar 16
@jaboUK just like that? I would have gone on a hot pursuit operation if that was me.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@yalul070 I don't know if I'd gone after her - she was a big woman!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@yalul It was quite entertaining to watch, but they didn't actually fight. The woman that was tipped out just got back on, and the other woman disappeared.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
15 Mar 16
If there was a paucity of sunbeds I would have to side with the second woman. The first woman had a lot of gall thinking she could "reserve" her sunbed while she went off to lunch if there were people waiting to use them.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
15 Mar 16
@jaboUK The 2nd woman could have been in some trouble if the 1st woman found, or claimed, that anything had gone missing from her things.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@DWDavis That's true, and the 2nd woman could have sued the first for tipping her out! Sheesh!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@DWDavis There were plenty of sunbeds, just not in such a favourable position. I don't believe the 2nd woman should have moved the other one's things, but the first woman was much more in the wrong.
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@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
15 Mar 16
I will tell you now you just can't take a women anywhere, my wife made me write this!!!!!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@hostessman You're lucky that your wife doesn't give you a slap!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 16
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
16 Mar 16
@jaboUK honest jabo she made me do it. would I lie to you!!!!!!!!!!!
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
14 Mar 16
Sounds like they were acting like children.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 16
@AnneEJ You've hit the nail on the head, and they were middle aged.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
@AnneEJ No I didn't feel like getting involved with them at all.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
15 Mar 16
@jaboUK Did you feel like giving them a "time out"
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