Sometimes I just don't know how to respond to myLot discussions

United States
March 23, 2016 6:44am CST
I usually have a lot to say, just ask my husband! That's why he likes it when I talk to all of you and leave him alone LOL! But, there are times I just can't think of anything to say in a comment that would make any sense. If a discussion already has 20 or more comments, all basically the same, I hate to add another 'boring' comment to the mix so I might not comment at all. However, there are times when I probably say something that makes no sense to anyone but me! That's life right?! Yesterday was one of those day. I think it had more to do with the mood of the world after the bombings. I decided it was far better for me to limit my time and my comments as I just couldn't come up with anything appropriate. My time was better used elsewhere. Do you ever feel like that? Photo: pixabay.com/en/speech-balloon-talk-bubble-1027854/
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
23 Mar 16
Sometimes I do a driveby like...depends on my mood. If someone has a load of similar comments I'll give the like and go away.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
@Mike197602 - Like a drive-by shooting with the car or bullets!
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@TLilly15 (2316)
• Newport News, Virginia
23 Mar 16
I just read the discussion, and comment on what the person is saying.
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill yes but if there were more drive by likes the world would be a happier place
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@JudyEv (340256)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Mar 16
I had a post of my own today where I responded to comments mostly all in the same way. I couldn't come up with anything original for every person.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
Sometimes it's impossible, that's why often people go off topic with comments, or almost off topic.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
23 Mar 16
That is often a problem. How do I keep responding and keep it fresh.
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@JudyEv (340256)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill I think here it doesn't matter if it goes off-topic. It's a different mind-set really to Bubblews.
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@Juliaacv (51019)
• Canada
23 Mar 16
There are not a lot of members who have a filter to what they post on this site. I was happy that I didn't have much time to read yesterday, because I figured that it would be a lot of ignorant comments regarding that horrific event. When I am on the site and there are discussions and comments that annoy me, I just close my laptop and move on to something else.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
I know what you mean. There are things that often annoy me (and I'm sure I annoy others at times) so instead of saying something 'off color or nasty' I move on.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
@Morleyhunt Yes, that happens. I had a whopping 27 cent day yesterday LOL...more days below 50 cents a day this month than ever.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
23 Mar 16
I've been too busy to spend a great deal of time here in the last two weeks. before that I had internet issues. Too bad the bank balance also reflects my lack of mylotting.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
23 Mar 16
I agree, if I can't find anything original to say I may just leave without saying anything.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
Sneak out the backdoor ..quietly LOL!
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
24 Mar 16
Yes ...I think we all do sometimes.... sometimes discretion tells me just don't comment...other times I just like and move on..., and at other times, I can't find anything to say that has not already been said...
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• United States
24 Mar 16
Sometimes I stare at the page for what seems like hours trying to think of something cute/smart.
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• United States
24 Mar 16
@sueznewz2 I am glad mine make you smile, I think sometimes my comments make people cringe!
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill well you usually succeed... I look forward to your comments as they usually make me smile... but sometimes..., I think there are some conversations, where for me... it is better not to add to the conversation,
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• Philippines
23 Mar 16
I do. I sometimes do not even have anything to write for a discussion.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
LOL, you usually have very nice discussions!
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• Philippines
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill now that is so kind of you. Thanks.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
23 Mar 16
I only did comments yesterday it being a somber day. I didn't want to start any discussions, or respond to new ones. I am sure others felt the same way, as I just didn't feel like being in here. I will try to do a little more each day though, s i do love the interaction anc learning from others as well, all while earning.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill That is what is so great about it, as it is always nice to be able to chat with others form other parts of the world,and learn of their cultures, all while earning. Mylot is the best, and I enjoy being here very much.
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• United States
24 Mar 16
Yes, we can learn all kinds of things here and it's fun learning from people all over the world.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
I have those days as well. If someone has already said something similar to what I was going to say, then I tend to leave a comment in his or her response box. I may also leave a silly response on the discussion if I think that the poster of the discussion will not mind.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
I know what you mean abut silly comments. I make a lot of jokes and some people don't get me! LOL!
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• United States
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill LOL - yup, I get that a lot with some people, especially if they do not know me very well ... and sometimes even if they do.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
@purplealabaster Yes, very true. I can't help joking, it's in my blood.
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
Oh yes it always comes to me. There are posts that I don't really have any idea about so I'd rather not make any comments.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
I know, and things I don't want to get involved in like religion. That's personal and I hate having stuff shoved down my throat so to speak.
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill As much as I want to respond but if I know I won't become sensible enough then I just have to skip it.
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@Juliaacv (51019)
• Canada
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill I agree, both religion and politics should be off the table when it comes to discussions.
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@jrramos (184)
• Loule, Portugal
23 Mar 16
I know exactly how you feel, I´m just starting here in myLot, but in other social networks that I normaly use i like to make coments that make sense, but is not always possible.
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@jrramos (184)
• Loule, Portugal
24 Mar 16
I´m actually enjoy it, and I´m follow you because you writte realy good, well done.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
I've been leaving comments online for many years and a lot of them don't make sense LOL! Welcome to myLot - I hope you enjoy it here.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Mar 16
Lol, I say just say it. I don't care if someone says the same thing to me ten times in a town in a comment. Because a comment is a comment and this is what you feel needs to be said so just say it.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill it doesn't bother me at all. It only gets annoying if people want to fight about it.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
@ShyBear88 There are some who will 'fight' over if the sky is blue or black LOL!
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• United States
23 Mar 16
I have done it many times. I have also heard people complain about it.
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@LadyDuck (471468)
• Switzerland
23 Mar 16
Yes, sometimes I feel like that. Now I am just back home, I feel exhausted, but I want to spend some time reading and commenting before dinner.
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@LadyDuck (471468)
• Switzerland
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill We had more or less the same dinner. This evening even faster, smoked salmon and toasted bread, may be a dessert, I have made cheesecake.
• United States
23 Mar 16
What are you making for dinner?
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
23 Mar 16
lol sometimes I don't know how to respond back to the "comments" to my post. without it sound like I just copy and pasted "I see your point lots" xD
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• United States
24 Mar 16
Or...you're so right - but you know there are only so many words...maybe we need to start making some up.
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• United States
24 Mar 16
@Drosophila LOL, I'd be careful with that second part, there are a few who would love to take that on!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill That's not a bad idea! Or I can just be totally controversial and start flaming the person that made the comment xD
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@KuznVinny (768)
• United States
23 Mar 16
I only have one thing to say to you, Abby Greenhill: No Comment!
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• United States
23 Mar 16
Vinnie - you have a new photo! Nice to see you again.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
@KuznVinny We're running out of places soon I think! Yes, AC/YCN was the best....
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• United States
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill Ditto. We seem to find the happenin' places, don't we? But I still do miss YCN!
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@celticeagle (167071)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Mar 16
Sure I do. This is where the 'like' option comes in. Nice discussion but I have nothing to add.
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@celticeagle (167071)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill ....Yeah, we don't and can't always write something that is interesting to everyone.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
Yes, true. For me there are discussions I won't even read since they are of no interest.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
23 Mar 16
I like responding to discussions with no or few responses - don't have to worry much about repeating myself then.
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• United States
24 Mar 16
Ha - that's the way to do it. If I'm in a hurry I'll look for some like that LOL
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
23 Mar 16
I have seen discussions like that and there have been days like that where there is nothing to respond to every topic is about a subject I have no interest in, and then there are other days when there is too much choice.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill Yes and at other times it is as dry as the desert.
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• United States
24 Mar 16
It's like when it rains it pours right?! I know what you mean.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
23 Mar 16
sometimes I move on, sometimes I reread and try harder lol
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• United States
23 Mar 16
Trying harder is good in some situations.
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• Centralia, Missouri
24 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill sometimes after a reread I can see an in, but honestly I often just move on. It shouldn't be a struggle, not to often to come up with a response
@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
23 Mar 16
I certainly do, then I mostly just like and move on.
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• United States
23 Mar 16
I think many of us do the same thing.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
23 Mar 16
@AbbyGreenhill I sit here thinking what to say what to say and then yup like and go.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
I just hit "like" when I could not think of things to say about the topic.
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• United States
24 Mar 16
That's what others have said to, so you aren't alone in that.
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