Members gone, making plans...
By Carmela
@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
United States
March 23, 2016 7:23am CST
Thanks to this discussion, I found out another MyLot member is no longer with us. I have seen quite a few members I interacted with not only pass away, but they did so months or even years before I hear about it.
I have some other friends who I have not heard from in a while. there is @suspenseful and @Loverbear (I have loverbears number, but last time I called I left a message and she didn't return it) and @sulsisels, whose addy I have, but she has not replied back and I really want to talk to her. So if anyone has any information about these members, please let me know.
For myself, I have my Facebook set up that if anything happened to me, that my daughter will be able to get on my profile. I know she will probably post something on my page, and I have some members here as my friends, but I will have to also ask her to go to each group and let them know as well. Because in my groups are people from various sites I am a member of, including MyLot.
Have you made any plans? Just in case?
Hi All, I'm on MyLot for years and even deleted my account twice in the past but I am sure I have lots of my friends still active on this site. May I know how...
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
Thanks, but it has been a while since I tried contacting two of them, but I am hoping it is due to lack of internet or something else.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
I'd give my husband my password, but he would not remember. In fact, I am the keeper of passwords, so he usually comes to me, even for his own password..
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
23 Mar 16
@Carmelanirel2 maybe you could have a small notebook where you can keep everything.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
@LdeL0318 Oh I know some people write down their passwords, but even if I did, my husband would misplace it. I am sure that allowing my daughter access to my Facebook will be enough.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
Same here. Loverbear and I would call one another just to chat. Then when I started classes, it was like she no longer wants to talk. I still have her number, I am going to try and call her now.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
23 Mar 16
@Carmelanirel2
Well that would be great for her to give you a call back.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
Ugh, I wasn't paying attention to the time and I got her husband on the phone, but where she lives it is only 6:25am...Needless to say, he was gracious about it and I apologized over and over again. So I gave him my name and number, hopefully she will call me today. 
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16758)
• China
29 Mar 16
Here we have problem with visiting Facebook.Lately I have read an article saying although many users there have passed away,their accounts are still kept .
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16758)
• China
30 Mar 16
@Carmelanirel2 Oh ,I didn't make the thing clear .I wanted to say Facebook has a lot of accounts whose users have passed away.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
5 Apr 16
Yes, because I know you can't get on every day and it may take me a while to realize you are not posting, then I would have to try to find out what happened to you.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
6 Apr 16
@simone10 That would be great, and I'll send you mine as well.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
6 Apr 16
@Carmelanirel2 I can always give you my email address if you would like. I gave it to another person here because she was really worried about me once when I was sick and wasn't online for a couple of weeks. If you want it, I can message you.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
Yes do, we don't know how we touch the lives of others and to find out months or even years later that someone is gone, is just as horrible as finding out right away.
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
24 Mar 16
@JudyEv There is so many on these sites, that unless one was here daily and was well known, it may take a while, but people like you and me will eventually be missed by someone and then the search will begin. That is another thing, I don't want people to think about me, months or years later, wondering where I went and have to search the internet or try to contact me in order to find out what happened.
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@JudyEv (339534)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Mar 16
@Carmelanirel2 That's true. I guess I think I'm a bit vain thinking people might miss me but that of course is a stupid way of looking at it. Have a great day. :)
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
23 Mar 16
I know the members you are speaking of Carmela but I did not have personal contact with them.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
23 Mar 16
@Carmelanirel2 Oh dear too bad you couldnt have had the cell phone number for her to call.
@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
I don't with a lot, but there were some I had gotten close to, and I'm still waiting to see if Loverbear will return my phone call, I have to leave soon and would hate to miss her call. 
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@Carmelanirel2 (8084)
• United States
23 Mar 16
You have been on MyLot since the beginning? By lookng at your numbers, you must not have been very active here.
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