Even he's already big, he used to sleep with us

@ida123 (6206)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
March 23, 2016 11:31pm CST
Last night, while we're on our bed but still watching some drama series, my youngest son who is already 25 years old do sleep with us. He used to sleep with us couple of months now and I've asked him, why you still sleep with us? You're already big and I know you can handle now how to sleep with your own. He answered me slowly, Mom, I just want to sleep with you because I miss you both. His father, hugs him with teary eyes of what he said and I only kiss his cheeks and told him, I love you son. Does your son/daughter sleep with you even they are big enough?
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
I'm still single at my age but once in a while I still sleep beside my Dad. I grew up with him by the way.
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
@ida123 Oh yes, he's been both a mom and a dad since I was 3. Up to now he prepares my food from breakfast to dinner.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
I know you are so attach with your Dad because if not, you won't sleep with him anymore even if you grew up with him.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
@LdeL0318 Wow, so you were pampered by your Dad even if it's your turn to do it to him. I know, you'll miss him when you have your own family and have your own.
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@Shiva49 (26762)
• Singapore
24 Mar 16
My son is very attached to his mother and when he visits us we all lie down in our cot for an hour or so to have a long chat - siva
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
I don't know why there are children who are so attached to us(parents) and doing it, when they go somewhere, we surely missed them so much.
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@Shiva49 (26762)
• Singapore
24 Mar 16
@ida123 In our case, my son does not have siblings and grew with us far away from other relatives. Yes, it is tough for us when the time comes for him to leave - siva
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
@Shiva49 But we have to be ready when the right time comes, they really separate us maybe because they have their own family.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50580)
• United States
24 Mar 16
Our son always slept in his own bed, unless he was sick.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
Among my 3 sons, he's the only one who is so attached with us maybe because he was the youngest. Before, while he was a kid, he slept with his nanny. Glad your son is practicing independence because he can sleep alone in his bed.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
awww, that is sweet of him. saying how much he misses you :)
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
Yes, he's so sweet and caring to us, he even check our meds if we still have some.
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• Madurai, India
24 Mar 16
It gives more attachment of parents and children.... It one of the great feel...Even 25 make u feel us child...
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
I think he feels that he's still a child that needs love, care and attachment to the parents.
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@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
I am single and as a daughter I never liked sleeping with parents even when I was a kid I want to sleep alone in bed. No wonder I am still single at 41
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
I think that is not the reason why you are still single at age of 41, maybe the right man hasn't arrived yet, or he's still far away or if you are happy with your status, maybe you are meant to be single. Even if you don't sleep with your parents while you are still a kid, I know you are attach to them.
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• United States
25 Mar 16
My son will still wander in our room in the middle of the night and climb into our bed, sometimes it will happen a few nights a month or even go several months without it happening and other times it happens a couple of times a week. He just turned 6 and for quite awhile he had not done this.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Mar 16
maybe his making some follow ups if his parents are around,lol. maybe, he wants care and need some attachment
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
That is so sweet, my 18 year old son sleeps beside his grandma, my 84 year old mother cause he has been sleeping there since he was 4 and i task him to wake me up if gramma has problems or needs anything.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
@ida123 my mother loves all my children to the point of almost already spoiling them My mother gives them what they want especially if she has money coming from the province and no way i can stop her.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
@louievill That is true, grandparents are the ones who pampered much our children, they did not even think what they give is too much that can make them spoil.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
Glad that you train him to old sit her grandma, that is nice of him to take her also.
@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
24 Mar 16
My kids are small so they normally sleep with us only. my son is attached with me more so he likes to sleep with me.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Mar 16
i don't know why he did it actually, maybe he misses those days when he was still a kid and needs some care
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
25 Mar 16
Where I am, that would sound odd for a 25 years old to be still sleeping with parents .. But I do understand that in the Philippines, it's more common ..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
25 Mar 16
@ida123 I am a Filipina too, so I understand close family ties.. But I believe in letting go of the adult children.. They need to have their own privacy when they get married and have their own families ..
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Mar 16
Not really common to us because his 2 brothers when they have their vacation, they don't sleep with us, only my youngest son did it but he's only doing this a couple of months now. We Filipinos have closed family ties, if ever my children got married, I don't want them to have their own house, if ever, they will stay with us so that we won't be lonely.
@rakski (125761)
• Philippines
26 Mar 16
aw, so touching. How I wish all children grow up like that. Knowing how to express their feelings towards their parents.
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@rakski (125761)
• Philippines
27 Mar 16
@ida123 we should cherish this moment for soon enough, they will be leaving and marrying.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Mar 16
@rakski Indeed friend.
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Mar 16
I hope so and I'm longing for that but my 2 other boys were not the same as their younger sibling, they sleep at their own, they care and love me but not as sweet as my youngest son.
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
I was amazed with your son who is old enough to sleep with you. Well, My daughters sleep with us often times too.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Mar 16
maybe, our children wants our care and need some attachments
@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
25 Mar 16
I used to sleep beside my mother until I was in high school. When I got to college, I had to stay in an apartment and it was a big adjustment for me. Right now, I have to stay in my own room at home. My mother still wants me to stay beside her but I want to sleep on my own. Hihi
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Mar 16
@brokenbee Yes, he's so sweet because he's the youngest.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Mar 16
I'm not asking my youngest son to sleep with us, it is his will but I don't want to offend him by saying not to sleep with us, he just ask if he can sleep with us, so we just say, yes, you can.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
25 Mar 16
@ida123 He is making "lambing". Hihihi! I think it is not so usual for boys to sleep with their parents, especially when they are already big. Hihihi!
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@destimona (1910)
• Luxembourg, Luxembourg
24 Mar 16
My son also sleeps with us. Now he is ready to sleep alone in his room. He is 8 years old now. Wish to get him a nice bed.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
It's nice that even at his young age, he can sleep alone, he starts to be independent. My youngest son stops sleeping with his nanny when he was 16 years old, he stops because he went to college, a far place from us
@destimona (1910)
• Luxembourg, Luxembourg
24 Mar 16
@ida123 My son is going to go on his school trip on 13,14,and 15 of April. Before that I hope he learns to sleep by himself.
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@artemeis (4194)
• China
24 Mar 16
I have 2 daughters and they had not slept with us since they started sleeping independently. I find this attachment to the both of you very heartwarming here.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
he told us, he wants to accompany us because he's about to leave for work and far away from us
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• Philippines
24 Mar 16
You'd appreciate your parents once you are your own. The hardships makes you understand how much you means to them. I remember back in my youth were I just want to do things on my own, even enrolled at the school. but since graduation, then decades I started to realize how important she really is in my life. Even to this day, I feel I'm not ready to move on with her. So I chose to stay and be with her for as long as I could, which became the right choice in the end. We appreciate them as we grow older, something I should have done when I was younger. Yeah, you're son really loves you both.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
When we are young, we can't realized what life is all about, we just need things the immediate one, and when we grow older, we realized then what life is all about, how hard is life and we can realized also how our parents sacrifice to us just to give our needs, material or not and the most important thing, we can realized now how they love us.
@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
24 Mar 16
I have no children, I was very attached to my father, but I have never slept with my parents, not even when I was a little girl.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
He used to sleep with us this time, he's so attached with us and it seems he likes to be a baby taken cared of and pampered of all his needs.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 16
That's sweet that he thinks so much of you to want to sleep beside you.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Mar 16
yes, he's been doing this a couple of months now, he wants to accompany us while he's here.
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
25 Mar 16
I sleep alone in my bedroom. When my youngest sleeps over, I let her sleep on the other end of the bed, but as a young girl, she moves around and kicks me.
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