Reactions to Betrayal

I guess we are the same. I also avoid confrontations. I haven't experienced grave betrayal. I only experienced being betrayed at the office. I am working in a government office. I was involved in intrigues wherein the person whom I considered my friend said something to my immediate supervisor that cause our immediate supervisor to get angry with me. I really don't know what was her intention in doing that to me. When she already resigned, I was relieved. Then she is already forgotten. Seeing her again is not exciting. She's not worthy of my thoughts.

Betrayed by my friend several years ago. After finding out, I never spoke to her again. After three years, i sent her a message telling her I want peace and that it didn't matter who made the mistake. I felt good afterwards. Baggage unloaded.

Yes i have been betrayed several times by persons whom i care for. I was depressed for several months and lost a lot of weight. Full recovery is a long process.

I have experienced betrayed many times from many types of people and handled each time differently. One of the worst was my soon-to-be-ex-husband's betrayal. I won't go into detail on it but he was a compulsive liar and unfaithful. I was tolerant and tried to work through things the whole year we were together but things just weren't able to be worked through. We split up when he realized he would never be able to stay true to me and decided to break me down the best way he could and hurt me as much as possible. He then got on a bus and disappeared for a while leaving everything to me. Abandoned... This was in 2012 and I have not see him since. I've spoken to him on rare occasions for short periods of time trying to get the divorce handled but it has been difficult. I am still working on this process. Hope this fulfilled your purpose of this discussion :D Have a blessed day/night!