Marriages are not easy
@Missmwngi (12915)
Nairobi, Kenya
March 28, 2016 9:02am CST
I am the kind of person who love to observe and learn. I love sampling various fields of life. Recently i have been sampling marriages and i cannot tell if it was a coincident but i have been coming across such scenarios of late.
It is like i have come across all sorts of stuff in such a small span of time. Parents fighting over petty issues,children running away from home,wife killing husband and vice versa and the best of all the happy families that make you know it is possible although it is not a bed of roses.
My finding; Having a good family is possible but it comes with effort from the two involved. Allowing a third party into that relationship messes things up. It is not a smooth road but good communication accompanied by understanding and not to mention prayer really work well.
I may not have said it all,afterall i myself i am yet to get there lol
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Mar 16
I agree. My spouse has a habit of flirting with all the girls including my friends.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Mar 16
Oooh my, i hope it does not hurt you
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
28 Mar 16
@Missmwngi Not yet.Will let us know when he does.Good luck
@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Mar 16
And to imagine the person to live with is a completely different non blood related person right?
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
28 Mar 16
Good luck with marriage my friend.
It is not an easy road even at the best of times.
I prefer to avoid it at all costs after too many bad ones lolz
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Mar 16
Ha haa you never seice to make me laugh my friend
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
28 Mar 16
@Missmwngi Yay Margaret that makes me happy to know I can cheer you There was some good times though for real.
There was some good times though for real.
@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
28 Mar 16
l was married 12 years,today I wonder how I managed to keep it going so long.Fault was on both sides but then, my x has been married and divorced 3 more times since our divorce in 2008 so im sure l did ok.BTW, l was wife number2, he was already divorced before we met.
Will i re-marry? yes l have, is it smooth sailing? ask me that in 10 years from now because i don't think it will last that long lol
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@marguicha (223863)
• Chile
29 Mar 16
A good marriage involves patience, respect and tolerance. But that is not all. I am sure that there is such a thing as luck in this case. Some people are just not meant for each other.
@Tampa_girl7 (50561)
• United States
29 Mar 16
My prayer would be for everyone to have a good marriage filled with love.
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
28 Mar 16
Just curious, what do you mean by "sampling marriages"..
Whilst understanding, patience, compromises, love, care, flexibility, effective communication, and timely actions are required to build and foster a good relationship.
I straight up don't want to "do work for a relationship" or "make a relationship work".
If you find yourself spending a lot of time "making the relationship work".. then it's time to consider why it doesn't work, and maybe take yourself off to find someone that requires less effort.
@babaraimc (1310)
• Pakistan
29 Mar 16
i am 24 and unmarried , and i have just observation
but i think Communication(as you have mentioned) is key to maintain marriage , rather every relationship.
Things might not as they look, so we should always listen, and second major Ingredient is Trust.
i can tell further after i will get married
