Memory Good , Bad, and Indifferent

@Hatley (163776)
Garden Grove, California
March 29, 2016 8:11pm CST
Mom, you have been gone a long time but I want you to kow that I appreciate all that you taught me. I often worried about you and my dad often made fu n of of you yet you never would say anything mean about him,You were my center,my inspiration and often after marriage if I felt down you had words to encourage me I never really knew why you loved him but admired y ou for not buying into it when he picked on you. You seemed to know your self worth always. This is just to say thanks f or being my mom, for being a role model, for showing me how to have kindness and compassion for all others.Thank you for beng my Mom.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
30 Mar 16
My mother was my hero too. She was awesome. I believe your mother listens to you even now after she has been gone a long time.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
yes I do get that feel ing that she knows what goes on in my life ev en now.
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@vandana7 (100531)
• India
30 Mar 16
I think of my mom, every time I serve rice on my plate in the afternoons. It has become quite a ritual in my thinking. lol.
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@RasmaSandra (80635)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 Mar 16
@Hatley I too miss my mom. I do believe that our moms never leave our side and become our Guardian Angels. i have seen my mom a couple of times when she has come to me when things have been quite rough.
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@Dena91 (16692)
• United States
30 Mar 16
Thankful you had a great Mom who inspired you through out her life.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
yes Im very grateful to have a lo vin g kind mom who I was very close to and who taught me so much
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@vandana7 (100531)
• India
30 Mar 16
Aw...that is so sweet tribute to mom. I felt it for my mom too though I did not know her so well. Hugs Hatley.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
thanks vandy I was very close to m y m om. My dad was well I bel ieve now he was emotionally ill thats all I can figure
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
30 Mar 16
Kind, yet powerful, words.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
thank Peter I just felt I should remember my mom for she was always ther for e
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Mar 16
@pgiblett es its only right to remember the mom who was always there for me she was my best fr iend
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
31 Mar 16
@Hatley It is good to remember.
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 Mar 16
That was good that you loved and cared about your mother so much. I bet she was a strong person.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
yes she was as she lived with a man who verbally abused her and I guessin his own warped way he loved her. he was as old as her own father too big a n age gap a bad marriage really
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
@ramapo17 yes it was bt she seemed to really lovehim .too in that era divorce was a no no sadly.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
30 Mar 16
@Hatley That is sad.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
30 Mar 16
That is perfect @Hatley .
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
thanks just wass thinking so much about her and had to write soething
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
30 Mar 16
This is beautiful. It touched a few heart strings. It was almost as if you knew my mom. I know your mom knew and knows how you feel. I often wondered why my parents got married. What did she see in him? I may never know, but they made me who I am so I thank them for that.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
I wo ndered the same thig as my dad was 36yeas older than my momb ut she was he glie tha helddthat marriage together I believe. thegoufht bwold never get divorced.She was strong and she inspired me to try my best
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
@mommaj yom ust have seem somethinginm,y dad Inever did bless her heart
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
30 Mar 16
@Hatley My mom had once told me she chose my dad over someone else. They were all friends so I even knew who it was. When she told me that, I just couldn't believe it! The other man was so funny and loving towards his wife. I didn't understand. I still don't. I guess some things are best left to chance.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
30 Mar 16
What a sweet post, it's good that you appreciate your mother even after all this time.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
thanks Jabo she was my inspiration and my go to person always she and her dad my dear grandpa
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
30 Mar 16
sounds like your strength and attitude came from her, I got my temper from my mom, and my patience and kindness from my dad
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
she was the person who held that marriage to gether otherwise it was doomed he was much too o ld f or her. She was my inspiration and my guide always
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
30 Mar 16
Mothers are irreplaceable!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
ye yu ar so right and my mom was alwas my heor
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
30 Mar 16
@Hatley We buried my mother 25 years ago Patsie on Easter Sunday!
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@vandana7 (100531)
• India
31 Mar 16
@garymarsh6 ..Ouch!
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
30 Mar 16
That was such a nice message to your mom. She might not be here with you on this physical earth but she knows everything you wrote to her. She is there with you always.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
yes she is always with me and I can almost her her say something when I stood up to some one giving me a hard time.
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@ptrikha_2 (47062)
• India
30 Mar 16
@vandana7 True indeed, there is nothing like love of a mother and kids are most comfortable with mothers, even when the mothers are in bad mood!
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@vandana7 (100531)
• India
30 Mar 16
Yes...we love our mothers, don't we?
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
30 Mar 16
What a lovely tribute to your mother.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
thanks she was always my i nspiration
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
30 Mar 16
My parents were great also and I miss them everyday.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
we were bth lucky then I miss my mom a lot.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
30 Mar 16
We often tend to take them for granted. But it's when we lose them is when we truly appreciate them. I hope everyone realize that. A lovely and heart felt message you wrote for your mother. I am sure she got the message and she is smiling at you from wherever she is now.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
I hope so I have oftenthought I felt her presence when I needed guidance lol
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
@Daljind yes they do and I often think of her when I do certain things or go somplace she would l ver loved.r
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
30 Mar 16
@Hatley It can be possible. They do remain in our hearts and memories.
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@artemeis (4194)
• China
31 Mar 16
A great tribute and I cannot help remembering my mother as well. As she is aging, I could not help feeling her physical presence especially after I have married my husband and had to move out of my humble abode. I will make a surprise visit with the family this weekend thank you for your motivating reminder here.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Mar 16
good for y ou Artemis tell her y ou loved her now while she is here im glad I did wth my mom
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@artemeis (4194)
• China
31 Mar 16
@vandana7 Thank you for remembering me and suggesting me to her post here. I was lost for a while - disoriented with the access problem here. I am indebted and moved by your support here.
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@vandana7 (100531)
• India
31 Mar 16
I knew it would strike a chord with you. We need to love them when they are alive - capture all those moments that we can. Hope you have great time with her. Give her some hugs on my behalf as well. :)
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@ptrikha_2 (47062)
• India
30 Mar 16
Indeed a good tribute to your mother. I also remember my mother who always supported me in times, good or bad and taught me good values in life, values which I do not see many parents teaching to their kids these days.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
yes mymom also taught me values I do not always seew among people now God bless our moma.s
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@vandana7 (100531)
• India
30 Mar 16
My neighbor may be modern in many ways, but when it comes to her kids, she is ancient. So they are picking up good things. :) Problem is, they have to survive among others who may not have similar scruples.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
30 Mar 16
It looks like your Mom was a lovely person and raised you well.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 16
thanks so much she was a de ar person w ho was warm hearted and loving but did no s uffer fools gladly lol.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
31 Mar 16
How precious - I hope my daughters see me in a smidge of that kind of light.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Mar 16
hope so too and hope my son sees me that wayh but he admitted once on facebook on my page that he was proud of how I worked in mylot and bubblews
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