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Life is unfair indeed. I am sorry for this big challenge you are facing to keep faith. I must look up this condition as I have never heard of it leslyn joy. I am sorry he is gone from you now

I am so sorry. I would be praying a lot and having faith in Gods plan.

im sorry. pray. just keep praying. God wont allow this if you can't get through it.

I c an so mwwhat sy mpathize as my secondchild was born with brain damage but thanks to God we did have our love bug for eight years.whether one l oses a child at birth or later it tears you up but you will recover eventually. trust God always

I can only say what I say because I have been blessed with 4 healthy children, so I don't know exactly what I would do. What I wouldn't do is get an abortion, I believe all life is precious and I have some friends who have children who do have disabilities and the children are happy and a pleasure to be around.

A very very difficult issue. In the UK women get scanned at certain points in pregnancy and sometimes things are picked up there. Often terminations are available. Some take them and some don't. I've never personally experienced anywhere near this but I did have an experience that is somewhat relevant. My sister was pregnant and her relationship was terrible and she asked me for money for a termination as she didn't want to go the NHS route as the experience is not that great. After a lot of thought I said I'd pay but eventually she decided not to go through with the termination and I have a 9 year old niece. Even that fills me with guilt as I could have paid for a procedure and she wouldn't exist. I do think about that quite often. These things need a lot of thought and whatever decision is made will have ongoing issues.

Count yourself blessed because you are gifted with an angel. Cherish your babys existence while it is still in your womb and when it will be born. Soon you will give birth to an angel.

I m sorry to hear that . Just be strong and take care of her well . Keep praying fervently .

Thankfully with the advance in technology, we can now learn a lot about an unborn child. It would be a very hard decision to make whether to continue or terminate the pregnancy ..But if I was in that predicament, to help me make that difficult decision, I will imagine me as the one who will be born with deformity .. and I definitely don't want to live in this world with physical or mental dysfunction . It's no one's fault when things like this happens, but life is meant to be enjoyed ... not to be spent in suffering ..

Oh dear so sorry for you. A child in my family is born with Left heart syndrome and that was really painful.

I am sorry to hear this news. I am sure there are no amount of words I can say to lessen the pain you and your husband is feeling right now but rest assured I will keep you, your hubby and baby in my prayers.

I'm sorry to hear that but don't lose hope. Pray hard and have trust and strong faith in God. For sure, He has a reason for I believe everything happens for a reason. Soon you will know the reason behind it.

What a heartbreaking situation. My prayer to you and your family.

This is sad. Though I haven't been in such situation, I can still say that this is truly a heart-breaking experience. I know that it is a happy feeling to expect a child and prepare for his/her future. But life is unpredictable as always and unfair most of the time. Still I believe that time heals all wounds.

Life is unfair, truth hurts but whatever I am going to say is personally entirely my own perspective and I am NOT advising that you follow my line of thoughts here. Fairness in one particular sense has eluded you but I am sure you are well compensated by all the love that is shown around you supporting whatever decisions you have made and will make ahead with regards to this unfortunately uncontrollable incident. One thing you need to remember that whatever decision you may make is one entirely yours and no one has the right to say that you are lesser than whatsoever or whosoever for that matter. It will be viewed with the due respect of someone going through such an excruciating and tough situation. On the question posed on your title, let me say that I will not hesitate to abort and terminate my pregnancy. I felt that if I am going to labor the entire term and let him or her die from the defects then I am sorry I will make this fatal decision and explain myself when I get my chance to explain it to him or her. To me, it is cruel for him or her and very flesh cutting painful for me to go through and watch this with my eyes. It will also affect the love ones around me both emotionally and physically so I am sorry but I will not hesitate to terminate my term. Please know that I am NOT suggesting that you follow my decision because my life and surrounding is very much different from yours. But the body and baby is mine and I have the right to choose and decide the path ahead.

Dont get me wrong. I know it is the most difficult situation anyone can ever get into. But be practical and thoughtful. Doctors might have suggesting you getting the fetus aborted. And probably they are right. Yes, I know this is a controversial statement I am making, but please do consider all factors. Your pain today is only yours. Not the baby's. But once the baby is born, I am sure you would find her problems more hurting and her sufferings more painful than yours.

I am so sorry to hear about your baby. The condition's name in greek translates the lethal effects and I felt sadness. I hope you can survive this and be strong for your family.

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm sure that he will be an angel to watch over you.

How sad, sorry to know about the situation of your baby.What is the cause of that sickness, so curious, I am single, no child,

Im sorry to hear that. Please pray for your baby. I am expecting a baby by november and im in great pain reading this. Please take good care of your baby and your family.