Why Do Some People With A C ruel Side Get Jobs In A uthority?

@Hatley (163776)
Garden Grove, California
April 2, 2016 4:46pm CST
Apost I was just reading about how s ome bosses with cruel streaks can really demoralize a worker.What makes these people with t hat flaw get in jobs of authority in the first place? D oes not a personality that shows kindness and consideration of others rate higher for a postition of trust and authority? Why would a person who has cruelty in her or his makep be a good candidate to be in au thority over fellow workers? To me this would make them less fit to hold that sort of job as the cruel streak would cause pain, loathing, even hatred towards that boss? Why do these people often become bosses or people of authority to whomwe must kowtow? Your take mylotters.
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
2 Apr 16
Authority brings out the worst in many people
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
@marguicha it was almost funny as we got so we were friendly on the days s she loved us but it got bad at times one very good r esearc h librarian got moved to a distant library just because she said to me that E mily acts paranoid on some days she has to take those meds or shes a bear and I had seen E mly coming and was trying to get her to stop talking as Emily cou d hear her but the woman did not get my sign language. E mily was really mad at her so the woman had to d rive t wice as f ar to wo rk every day and at a smaller library too.Just because Emily would not take the meds that kept at an even mood.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
yes m beginning to realize that I have b een luckyto w ork under firm b ut fair bosses but had one that was bi polar and refu sed to take her meds one day she olovled you next d ay she hated you and shreiked at you.
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
3 Apr 16
@Hatley Bipollars have that problem with meds. There should be a check if they have a position where they have authority
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@puddleglum (1380)
• United States
2 Apr 16
I think there are a number of reasons this can happen. Some people think that authority can actually bring out negative character traits that would otherwise remain hidden. Have you heard of the Stanford Prison Experiment? It's an extreme example of this idea. Psychologists created a mock prison situation with volunteers acting as inmates and guards. Without being directed to, the "guards" began exercising cruel and humiliating behavior towards the inmates. These volunteer guards were otherwise normal, well-behaved people. Obviously, being placed in an authority role doesn't always cause bad behavior. There are many good leaders at all levels. But I guess some people that have unkind tendencies that they don't act on already, are moved to act on them when they are given power over others.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
oh yes I remember reading about that some t ime b ack and it was fascin ating like they were role playing wow.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
@puddleglum yes it was to me too as I wo ndered if I were to have been a prison g uard would I have become mean like that?
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• United States
3 Apr 16
@Hatley I agree, it was fascinating and a little disturbing.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
2 Apr 16
A lot of times they make a good impression but then when they get a job of Authority they change and think they are better than the people under them.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
yes I hav e met people like that and was glad I did not work for them they were my patients and i was a nurses aide and they were not very nice patients either I was glad the people over me were not like that at all and I pitied the people who worked under them
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
3 Apr 16
@Hatley It is difficult to work for people like that but if you want to keep your job you have to. The only good thing that comes from it is at some point they will go to far and then after a while they will be gone and hopefully the next person will be better.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
5 Apr 16
@Hatley Letting someone go because of age is discrimination and is against the law. I am glad to hear they were fired because of this. Sorry you couldn't go back thought because of your fall and result of that fall.
@jstory07 (139712)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 Apr 16
I even had a teacher in school that told my mother she hated children. She was a very mean teacher. My mother asked her why was she teaching grade school if she hated children. The next year she got a job teaching college.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
that was good she quit before she hurt more children. I had one nun like that in nurses training who was so mean to me I left that school and just worked as a nurses aide she seemed to enioy and get off on making students cry.
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
3 Apr 16
there has been studies, I think perhaps that type of work draws people who want to control others, and that often brings with it, sociopaths and cruel people. I have seen so many horrid bosses....
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Apr 16
yes I have too and also have had a lot of ver y good fair wo nderful bosxses all n the hospital jobs though
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Apr 16
@Jessicalynnt thats sad b ec ause they do such great wo rk
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• Centralia, Missouri
5 Apr 16
@Hatley his was ok, the upper management was bad
@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
3 Apr 16
We should differentiate between being strict or firm (but fair) and imposing one's will on another for the pleasure of doing it because we outrank them. The former is necessary to keep any organization running smoothly. While the later is nothing but ego-massaging of a conceited arrogant person.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
yes that its p;ut mre clearly than I did. I have had strict but fair managers and one who was like you said ego massaging
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Apr 16
Because Capitalism is inherently exploitative, and people who have no problem exploiting others are more values than people who are nurturing.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
darn yes I can understand that too as I seldom ran into an abusive head nurse in all he years I worked in the medical field.
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Apr 16
Being driven can come to even the evil human. A lot of people in power are heartless while still others are good about feeling for the other person. To have a good boss is to find one that thinks of the other person as a human and not a pawn.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
thats it and I found the best people in power are people who work with patients in the hospital as they tend to be more considerate of the people working under them perhaps because we all were there to care for sick peoplenot everyone can be a good nurse or nurses aide so most are people who care about one other.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Apr 16
@celticeagle yes you have to be knd and firm and stern and everything else as sick people are also scared people
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Apr 16
@Hatley ....Nursing is something that takes a certain personality that's for sure.
@cacay1 (83480)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
5 Apr 16
There are many of this quality on top because of :whom you know" though not qualified, so many suffer in an organization.
@lilnana1111 (2305)
• United States
3 Apr 16
Maybe the power goes to their head, and changes them?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
I imagine in a lot of cases that is it and a once kind person becomes abusive to others.
• United States
3 Apr 16
I don't know, but when the what finds out, let we know!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Apr 16
yes indeed I will do that. thanks.
@Angel_15 (670)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Apr 16
Some people get promoted as authorities in a workplace because they deceive their higher-ups into promoting them. They only show their good side, and the higher-ups don't believe other employees when they say how horrible these people are. In other cases, people with bad attitude get promoted because the employer only looks at the person's technical skills and does not pay attention to his or her people skills and attitude in general.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Apr 16
yes I have seen that too and they would not believe that that head nurse had been so ugly to us it took a higher up yet who posed as one of us and she litnto him and was really sarcastic and he told her right then she could not talk to the people under her like that and he told her he was chief of staff I thought she was going to faint as he told her she was fired.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Apr 16
@Angel_15 yes I really enjoyed seeng her suffer for a change
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@Angel_15 (670)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Apr 16
@Hatley Serves her right.
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