The trouble with perfectionists…
By bounce58
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
April 6, 2016 2:44pm CST
I’m a bit of a perfectionist. Although I wouldn’t say that I am right all the time, it does bother me when I see mistakes not only from other people, but mostly the mistakes that I make.
It’s also a bit difficult when you’ve got your mind set in a certain way, and then life throws curveballs all the time. And then I’d end up worrying about it, or making plans on how to correct it, or how to resolve these unplanned instances. That’s why I envy people who could just free-flow, and live by the seat of their pants.
I know that this is LIFE, and we’re supposed to learn from it and adapt.
I still have trouble though, and I would consider myself a work-in-progress. Do you know any perfectionists?
The trouble with perfectionists is that nothing ever is good enough.
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4 responses
@Marilynda1225 (82799)
• United States
6 Apr 16
I guess I'm a bit of a perfectionist even though I never would have said so until my children brought it to my attention. One day they told me that my life would be so much easier if I accepted help and didn't have to do everything myself.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
6 Apr 16
This made me laugh because I too believe that my life would be much easier if I just accepted help and delegate a lot of stuff that I do.
Instead of doing it myself (and then complaining about it -- on why I have too much work, and how others seem to be of no help).
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
7 Apr 16
@MALUSE
I agree with the argument!
I came from a manufacturing background. A lot of the process improvement initiatives being done could be attributed to laziness. Of course, it could be framed as 'streamlining', or increased productivity, etc., but it could actually also be viewed as just prepping for lazy operators. So, we acquired robotic arms, etc.
@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
6 Apr 16
I've met some but I am a free spirit so we normally clashed.
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@shaggin (72136)
• United States
7 Apr 16
My son is a perfectionist. Because of it he has very poor self esteem. If he doesn't get 100 on every test he gets so upset with himself and says he is probably the dumbest kid in the whole grade. He really is one of the smartest too. I worry about how much he puts himself down about it. He is in therapy at school once or twice a week so I hope that it will help him learn to see things a little different to accept things and himself do not need to be perfect.
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
I understand you. I always look for something better. There are times that it's difficult to deal with people who can't understand that I want it the way I want it. Because they don't look at things as how I look at it.
