Bad Kids...Bad Parents - Would you say something?

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I was in line at a local dollar store the other day. There was only one register open and the line was about 6 people deep in front of me. The woman in front of me had a 14-15 year old girl behind her and two younger children in front of her. After a few minutes in line, an older boy stepped in front of me and grabbed the hand of the 14 year old girl. "Stop it" he said and I looked over and saw the girl was crushing chocolate bunnies, in the package behind her mother's back. The older boy was then sent off by the mother to get another item from the store. As he walked away, the girl took her fist and again began crushing the merchandise in the display. The mother seemed oblivious and to be fair the girl was doing it behind her back. I simply said in a loud enough voice "you are destroying merchandise". The mother turned around and immediately said "What's your problem?" and I politely replied "this young lady is destroying merchandise". What followed from the mother was cursing, "mind your own business", denial (claiming all of these chocolates were already broken despite the fact her other child caught the girl red handed) and ultimately a threat to "kick my @%#". When I got to the counter the sales girl said "I cannot have outbursts in my store" as if I had done something wrong. She then complained that she was the only employee in the whole store and she could not see the girl breaking the merchandise. As I walked away after my purchase, she began joking with the next customer about having 3 kids and kids break things. I wonder if she thought it didn't matter because the bunnies were on mark down from Easter, or maybe because her kids would be allowed to do the same or simply that because she worked at a Dollar General store it would not effect her job. I really believe the little girl learned a lesson. Not really from me but from her mom's bad behavior. Too bad the lesson she learned was to deny what you do wrong, tell other people off and if that doesn't work resort to threats. The moral of the story is I ended up calling the company customer service line and left my phone number. If the clerk did not care about the merchandise, perhaps announcing she was the only employee in the whole store was not smart for shoplifting or even her own security. No one from the company returned my call. If you wonder why kids turn into lazy, careless, reckless and perhaps criminal sorts...sometimes you have to look to the parents. Not always, but I am sure it is a factor.