Problem saying "NO" ?
By Shayani Saha
@Shayani (250)
Pune, India
April 9, 2016 11:01am CST
This is an "Issue" or else lets admit can be an "issue" for many of us when we deal with all sorts of circumstances in our lives.
From childhood I have myself faced situation which could have been better and less compromising only if I could have learned to say " No" to people and stuffs.
Things keep happening in our daily life and without our conscience we learn to adjust and keep pace with many people, duty and reputation at times.
I do not have problem admitting that I too had this issue, but as I grow up I have learnt that the sooner you learn to say " NO" the better it is for you. Else you can invite unnecessary complications to your life.
I would like to know from you friends, whether you people have this kind of issue ever ?
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4 responses
@Shayani (250)
• Pune, India
11 Apr 16
Very true. At times it is not a harm being assertive and saying NO to things simply because you do not like it or it does not interest you. There is a tendency of people taking you for granted at times if you all the time adjust according to them being too polite.
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@pranavdhonde (37)
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17 Apr 16
I do face the same issue you face. I have trouble saying No to people thinking that the other person my interpret me wrong and make up a bad image of me in his mind. But over the time I have known that even though it is not good to say it is necessary. No matter how many times you say Yes to a person he will always remember one bad thing you did. It will be hard in the beginning but surely if you say NO for a legitimate reason I am sure the person will understand.
@Shayani (250)
• Pune, India
20 Apr 16
I used to had this issue, but gradually I have learnt to said " NO " to things and people. I think all of us should have this kind of gesture so that people actually know and understand us.
