Do you live with your child?
By Xuena Jia
@nanachinese (121)
China
10 responses
@divssri (971)
• Bangalore, India
13 Apr 16
@nanachinese I like to play with children who are not mummas boy. Like easily come to you and play with you.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
13 Apr 16
Yes,children can bring many happiness to all people,especially when he is 2 years old.I love my baby and I miss him.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
13 Apr 16
@divssri Sorry,what is the meaning of mummas?
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
11 Apr 16
I am sure it's really hard for you. My eldest and I were staying apart since he was 2 month old, as I was working in another city (about 200 km away) and my mother-in-law was taking care of him. I was told I would get used to it, but I would never get used to it. I went home every weekend, and I missed him so much when he was not with me. Of course, life went on, but it might because by I already started to plan to bring him back to me. I started to plan for working from home, as I don't really trust others to take care of him, and I really wanted to take care of him on my own. Finally, I quit my job when he was about 2 years old, and I stayed at home and took care of him full time.
It might not be easy financially, as we suddenly became a single-income family, but I always think there's a will, there's a way. We can always sort it out when we want to. While taking care of my children, I try to look for online opportunities and also freelance projects. Also, I learned to live a simple life, which is even better for all of us.
Do you think you can get a job nearby your home or work from home? Though my son likes spending time with my parents-in-law, he definitely loves to stay with me all the time.
Hope you'll figure out a better way which is good for everyone soon.
By the way, welcome to mylot! Hope you'll enjoy spending time here. 
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 16
@nanachinese So you can bring your baby back to you very soon? It's good to know that.
I didn't mean to encourage you to leave your job now, but you can plan for some other alternatives to make some money and take care of your baby at the same time. It took me about two years to save some money and plan for that. There are certainly ways to do so.
I am still working now too (from home), though I don't earn much, I am happy to be with my children all the time.
@nanachinese (121)
• China
11 Apr 16
I believe every woman is a great mother,both you and me. I am very moved by your words.But I can not leave my job now,my family do not allowed fanancially.If my new house is decoraed well,I can bring my baby back.
Now I have an idea in my mind,if I have the second baby,I will not go to work no longer,I will take care of my baby fully based on my ideas.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
18 Apr 16
@kaka135 I want to stay at home with his growth.
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
11 Apr 16
@nanachinese very hard thing to do indeed. it requires a lot of patience but its fulfilling. something that i can be proud of.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
13 Apr 16
@MGjhaud Yeah,you are doing exercise about watching a baby,you can easily accustomed when you have a baby in the future.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
11 Apr 16
Thanks for your attention.I can see you are very kind from your words,because I am a mom,I konw watching child is a hard work.
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@marguicha (222389)
• Chile
11 Apr 16
This must be very hard for you. U always had my cguldren with mt when they were small.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
11 Apr 16
I think I will be OK after decorating my new house.Can I ask how many children do you have?
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
11 Apr 16
I had got married five years ago.Now I have accustomed the life without my parents.I think you can go out of sadness quickliy.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
13 Apr 16
Now I can go home at weekends.Fortunately,I can bring my baby back when the house is decorated ok.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
13 Apr 16
Yes,I miss him very much especially after working.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
11 Apr 16
I do not have any children, so no I do not live with them.
Why not switch jobs so you can be with your children?.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
11 Apr 16
First,thanks for your comment.My present job is better than the original one,and I have bought an house in this city,so we need to move to this city sooner or latter,I just changed my job earlier.During this time when the house is decorated,I can not see my child.
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@nanachinese (121)
• China
13 Apr 16
I hope you can have a good job,and cherish the time living with your parents.
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@newest1 (295)
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11 Apr 16
@nanachinese i don't have any child yet,,, but sometime live with others child
@nanachinese (121)
• China
11 Apr 16
How do you think of living with childern,if you can not see them some days,will you miss them?
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