Friendship

I didn't experienced some big dissapointment in friendships yet, i mean maybe some people are bad-mouthing me but I don't know that so I can't blame them. But I don't have many friends I feel comfortable with and that's the best part because i know who are the real friends. I have much more "friends" i get along with, more or less, but I don't think they consider me their friend, more of a colleague, so i can't call them really friends. Even the ones I am comfortable with, we are not so close but I know they are comfortable with me too and they wouldn't betray me. I didn't had a big close friendship with no one(but my twin, i hate him tho), people these days have much more high standarts:/

I have became very selective what I share and how much and to what extent I allows people to enter my life many years back. i used to be a "true friend " type, who was always there for friends and would never blink twice before helping my friends. no matter what the situation was. But when I was in need of support, people and shoulder to cry. nobody turned up and most surprisingly for whom I have done so much , they have ,misunderstood and never turned back for a second time. That time I felt lonely and I have started making this loneliness stay less I do not have to jump into fake people and friends again. I have become very choosy making people my friends and sharing stuffs with them. Frankly I have only few people as friends but that too I am not in touch with them so much since life have changed for all of us and definitely priorities too. I have decided to better to friend with my loneliness rather than allowing people hurt me again.

Hi sarameastrong. Friendship is an uphill climb, a two way street, and a deep sea of wonder. Who a friend is and what a friend does are always questions and questionable. But, if a friend is out there for you, be open to taking the chance on him or her. At the end of the day, a friend is a human being. Sometimes they can be furry. Also, a good friend is a good friend to himself or herself.