Approach or not approach
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
United States
April 13, 2016 10:00am CST
A gal in a group I'm in online had mentioned a situation. As this group is a bit cliquey and I'm usually just in the background of discussions. But I wanted to give her some support as I can very much relate to her situation. IDK if the responses bothered her too much but she deleted her original post. Someone asked where the post was and as much as you can thru words basically said she deleted it, didn't want to talk about it end of story. I don't know her really well, but I am unsure if I pm her if she'd block me or get further upset about the situation. As I think she needs to talk to someone (outside of IRL) as do I. Do I pm this gal or just let it go?
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
14 Apr 16
If the idea makes you uncomfortable than you're probably not really THAT close to her and probably shouldn't message her. Just my opinion but I don't really know the situation that well. Only you can make that choice.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Apr 16
message her privately. now, if she does not respond, then it is no longer your fault. you are just giving a piece of yourself , or your shoulder to assist her, but if no response, it is up to her now
@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
13 Apr 16
send the message.
sounds like you don't know her very well so even if she blocks you it's not like you'd be losing a close friend.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Apr 16
I would send her a message, let her know someone cares and she has some kind of support.
