It's Not that I'm Giving Up
@just4him (317022)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
April 14, 2016 7:43pm CST
But let's face it. The bank has been toying with me for almost two years. The loan company called today and the bank is toying with them too. So I'm giving up on them ever coming through with all the docs I sent many times and he's FedExing a new modification package to me. I should have it in a couple days and I'll get that back to them as quickly as possible. They need a new letter from Social Services, and that will take the longest since I'm in the middle of my six month review and I need to get docs to them - primarily my son's work info and since he's not been to work much this week and won't be, except for tomorrow, until sometime next week, it won't get back to them until sometime next week. My son is taking time off for his birthday, which is Monday. He's having a bonfire in the backyard this weekend.
So yes, I'm giving up and doing it over. And yes, this time I'll make copies so I have them - just in case.
Total frustration. But the guy I'm working with now seems more than competent and so far I'm happy with the fact he seems to be keeping on top of this situation.
How's your day? Thanks for reading.
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@josie_ (10036)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
Documentation is a chore I'd rather not do. Nothing could be more frustrating than to repeat the process because someone else fouled up or misplace them. Your son's birthday celebration would take your mind off this problem. At least for a while.
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@josie_ (10036)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
@just4him _Bureaucracy is the same anywhere in the world. Here in the Philippines, unless you know someone, you have to deal with a lot of red tape, you are given the run around and your papers move at a snail pace. I hope your's does better.
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
15 Apr 16
That's what I went through, too. You are so smart to make those copies! I should have done that but I never got to that point. The good news is that this seems to take forever. And as long as you keep sending them paperwork to weed through, it keeps them busy. I mean, I've already moved and now I can't even convince the bank to take my house! lol Now they are dragging their feet on this. But I'm glad I moved. At least, where I am there's no stress. By the time they're ready, I should be more than ready to hand them the keys. You're in my prayers. I want this to work out for you so badly! xoxo
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
15 Apr 16
@just4him I know. It's so much easier to give up. I think that, if my situation had been different and that I hadn't lost Britt or I hadn't been married to him at all beforehand, I might still be in there fighting. But I don't have any more fight left in me at this point. So I'm living vicariously through you now. :)
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
i hope the bank favors you now. my day is just like any other day if i am not on errands
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
I am so lazy cause of the power outage around here. Haven't done anything online.
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@just4him (317022)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Apr 16
I heard about that. I'm glad you are able to be online.
@just4him (317022)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Apr 16
Yes it will. I'd be bald from pulling my hair out if I didn't have faith. 
@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
15 Apr 16
Mine was pretty productive. McDonald's, mall and outside fun
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@Tampa_girl7 (50028)
• United States
16 Apr 16
Sorry that you are having such a time getting things resolved.
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@just4him (317022)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Apr 16
Thanks. This time I'm certain I'm on the road to having this resolved.
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
16 Apr 16
This guy definitely is more cooperative than the bank! :)
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
16 Apr 16
seeing as the bank no longer even has the loan, I can see them totally not caring. they already sold it off.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
16 Apr 16
@just4him I am just not terribly surprised they are being stupid about it. I would DEFF keep everything in triplicate.
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@just4him (317022)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Apr 16
@Jessicalynnt I'm keeping copies this time.
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@just4him (317022)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Apr 16
Yes, but they were still under obligation to give all the documents. Since they're not, I have another package, arrived today, to fill out and send back. I just need to take care of the six month review for social services first before I get that sent back, so it won't be going back as fast as it got here.
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@tuttiharris (1338)
• Chattanooga, Tennessee
15 Apr 16
Valerie, you hang in there, this may just be your answer, a new beginning on all of this. I didn't get in on the first of all of it, but I do know how all of this kinds of things can be. Y ou relax and we will pray that all works out this time.
As for my day, it is great so far this morning. So beautiful. Love to you.. Have a great day.
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@tuttiharris (1338)
• Chattanooga, Tennessee
15 Apr 16
@just4him As I very well know you are my Sister in Christ, and I know your faith is in Him as well. I love you, praying for wisdom and strength for you. ((hugs))
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
15 Apr 16
Funny how documents can just disappear unless you have made copies.
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@GardenGerty (160242)
• United States
15 Apr 16
I am not really motivated today. Lots of aches and pains. I was going to nap but hubby called. I am just doing my regular type things though.
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@just4him (317022)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Apr 16
It's better that way. Hopefully tomorrow you'll have more motivation. Me too. There are things I should be doing as well.
@JamesHxstatic (29412)
• Eugene, Oregon
15 Apr 16
I hope that all works out for you. I had a day of rest today, except for doing two loads of laundry since we took stuff to wear at the coast. Anne had a busy day with doc appts and yoga and her writing critique group, so was gone a good part of the day.
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@just4him (317022)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Apr 16
A day of rest sounds good, but there isn't any for me. I still need to get things done, though today it's here on the Internet spending time with everyone here.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
15 Apr 16
Dontcha' just love the 'establishment' trying to get anything done @just4him ? I just had to redo all the paperwork for my Food Stamps. It's a lousy $16. I tell them every time that nothing has changed so why do I have to keep filling out the same paperwork.
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@destimona (1910)
• Luxembourg, Luxembourg
15 Apr 16
My day is good. waiting for my son .he is on his way back fromhis school trip.
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