What Would You Do???

West Haven, Connecticut
April 20, 2016 2:43pm CST
Okay so this may seem a little off topic but I ran into something earlier that boggled my mind for a bit. Im a man and like most men we enjoy our naughty time ect, but what if one day your online on a certain site and recognize someone you know? What would you do? Would you tell them that someone has put their pictures online or would keep it to yourself not to stir up any problems??? The person I found online was in High School with me and I have her on Facebook. What do I do?
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
20 Apr 16
I'd let her know! Seriously. Because if you have seen it and recognised her, think of all the other people who may come upon it. The sooner she knows ( if she isn't already aware ) the quicker she can work on trying to pull it down.
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• West Haven, Connecticut
20 Apr 16
I want to but dont want her fiance to find out cause it looks like the pictures arent soo old if you get what I mean.. Im still undecisive
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• West Haven, Connecticut
20 Apr 16
@VivaLaDani13 True too, Im going to contact her via Whatsapp and just let her know that she must of sent private picutres to someone and they are now online on imagefap... Hopefully she doesnt get too upset
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• Perth, Australia
20 Apr 16
@BACONSTRIPSXXX ah I see. Well it's up to you. Do what you feel is best. I think it's nice of you to want to help. Might be best to stay out of it. I hope the finance wont find out and if he ever did, well....I don't know what will happen from there. I don't know if letting her know will make her think about the damage it may do if he ever found out.
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@MALUSE (69378)
• Germany
20 Apr 16
How do you know that she doesn't know about this or that she hasn't put her pictures there herself? Whatever, I'd contact her at once.
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@MALUSE (69378)
• Germany
20 Apr 16
@BACONSTRIPSXXX Tell us about her reaction.
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• West Haven, Connecticut
20 Apr 16
@MALUSE She read my text but has not responded yet.. she might be too embarrassed to reply
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• West Haven, Connecticut
20 Apr 16
I doubt it, she is the reservative type and I know her parents would kill her if they see her that way ect, I texted her now so she knows ect
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
20 Apr 16
I tell her what I saw online and expect the results; or maybe never tell her and let the events get resolved for themselves.
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• West Haven, Connecticut
20 Apr 16
I want to but dont wanna stir up any trouble with her relationship ect
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
20 Apr 16
@BACONSTRIPSXXX I know what you mean.
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• West Haven, Connecticut
20 Apr 16
@quantum2020 yeah easier said than done lol
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 Apr 16
I think letting her know is the best bet, I am sure she would want to know.
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
20 Apr 16
I would tell the person so they know. If they are ok with it fine, if not then they can try to do whatever they need to fix it.
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• West Haven, Connecticut
20 Apr 16
Yeah I informed her, still waiting for a response
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
21 Apr 16
Yup I would tell her. No doubt about it.
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
21 Apr 16
i wouldn't if we're not that close. i dont know, its just awkward. well probably they know already..
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• United States
21 Apr 16
I would just alert her like hey - you know your photos on a website. And if she knows then she wouldn't be embarrassed of you seeing it. But if she doesn't know - then you're helping her out! And hope no one in her family sees it!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Apr 16
In my opinion , you should inform the person . And from there it would be her who should be making solution to it .
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• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
As a woman I would WANT to know and I would be really upset if no one told me something like that!
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
21 Apr 16
oh yikes. esp if she is up there without her knowledge. well whatever it is, I would tell them in private, and perhaps in an email. Just simply say that this came to your attention, and just incase it was done without her permission, you wanted her to know. Awkward no matter what. Maybe do it anonymously, if possible.
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@mom210 (9121)
• United States
21 Apr 16
I am not a "stir the pudding" person so I would just zip my lips. But that is me, if it really bothers you, you can tell her.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
21 Apr 16
I would ask her if she was aware of it @BACONSTRIPPSXXX .
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@Bennkz03 (243)
• Zimbabwe
21 Apr 16
my opinion you ask her and tell her about the pics, you never know maybe she is aware of it
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
20 Apr 16
I would keep it a secret.
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@amadeo (111940)
• United States
20 Apr 16
I am sure that you know what to do.Let your instinct follow
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
20 Apr 16
good on ya for doing the right thing
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• United States
21 Apr 16
I would err on the side of telling her. There is the chance she does not know and that is what a friend would do. Sure you may have some "splainin to do" depending on the site but hey, I think she would be most appreciative and not judge where you were on.