~Too Emotional For MyLot!!~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
April 21, 2016 1:47pm CST
Okay, there are days when I just should not be here. Today...is one of those days. I am overly emotional today for a couple reasons and I am taking things personally that I normally would not take that way.
So...I think I will just be here on and off-comment and just walk away until a later time.
I don't want to be this way but there are days that this is just me. Oh well, it is what it is...
Things that are tough for you might not be hard for me-things that are tough for me might seem like no big deal for you. We are all different and have different things we can handle. 
With that being said...do your emotions ever get the best of you?
With that being said...do your emotions ever get the best of you?39 people like this
46 responses
@GardenGerty (160491)
• United States
21 Apr 16
Sure they do, and people hurt my feelings, whether they mean to or not, or I scare myself and I cannot sleep and then I am worse. Take it easy if you have to. We will be here when you can come back.
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@GardenGerty (160491)
• United States
21 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies Yes, and the extra exercise of a different sort and the paint odors all will add to your difficulties. Hang in there.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@GardenGerty Thank you for making me feel better about it. =) 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@Gardengerty I totally forgot that my lack of sleep probably has a lot to do with it. I only slept 3 hours last night due to working so much on painting for the landlord, I think it's getting my emotions all crazy.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@Teep11 When I feel like crying because I feel people are being mean here-it's not a good day to be online.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@Teep11 Thank you, I'm feeling a little better now. I did give it to God and took a break for a little bit.
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
21 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies give it to God. He will comfort you. If you feel that rest is needed tgen don't hesitate to get some. Again I hope you feel better@LovingMyBabies. Have a blessed day!
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@annierose (21588)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
You are a strong person. It is difficult for me to control my emotion at times. When my father was diagnosed of lung cancer and his days were already numbered, I could not help but to cry. I cried when I sleep. And at work, I also cried. When my colleagues ask why, I could not tell them the reason or else I would cry more. I just told an alibi that my head was aching so much but some of them was thinking it was not of headache but it has something to do with feelings.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies I guess i am , because sometimes other would already be crying over a sad story in a seminar , but me , i don't shed tears .
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@SIMPLYD Your stronger than I am because at times the tears just start flowing whether I want to or not. I hate it!
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
21 Apr 16
My emotions are changeable like the emotions of everyobe else. Today I´m here, tomorrow, who knows. I don´t resolve on my emotions but the occupation (internet) that I chose does.
I might be looking for ways to entertain myself online and forget a little about my own aberrations.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@Quantum2020 Yeah I hate days like today. I try hard not to let things bother me but today I couldn't control it as well.
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@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
21 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies Yes, it happens sometimes.
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@kspanuga (43)
• Olongapo, Philippines
22 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies But you see, you are still here so I guess not bad at all...I hope you feel fine now...
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Apr 16
@Gina145 I am glad you haven't. I am feeling better thank you. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@Gina145 Yeah me too. Well this site usually does that for me too...unless the issue is here.
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@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
21 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies I've never had any issues here.
I hope you're feeling better now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@akalinus I hope you feel better today as well.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Apr 16
yes indeed Jennifer rght now Ihave a visa card for two thousand one hundred thirty one dollars and Im so grateful and so scared I will not spend it wisely as thats a lot of moneyh fro me who have been so broke, I hope whats upsetting you soon gets better and God opens a new door for you hugs
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@Hatley I am sure you will spend it wisely, your very responsible and intelligent.
Thank you I am feeling a little better now. =)
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@dodo19 (47315)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
22 Apr 16
@gochunehal these are some good points. Trying to stay positive may not always be easy, but a good thing to try.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@dodo19 Yeah I am so there right now. Everything is bothering me and normally they wouldn't so I just need to calm myself down for a bit.
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@gochunehal (782)
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22 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies it happens when we feel fatigue,bored or when we are in tension..so avoid all that start to think some positive..
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@annierose (21588)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
Have you ever felt the need to tell it to someone or else you will go crazy? My mom was like that before. When she got angry with daddy, she would not tell it. Then, one day she got paralyzed. She cannot speak or move. When they sent mom to the doctor, the doctor found out that mom keep everything on herself especially anger and heartaches. The doctor told my mom that if she is angry she should by any means take that out or else she might die young.
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@annierose (21588)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
@yalul070 Crying is good sometimes. It cleans our eyes and it helps us feel better. I cry sometimes if I think I have too much to do and I am feeling very much stressful. I do not know if I can consider myself already a strong woman but if I will compare myself to the previous me, I can say I am also much stronger now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@yalul070 You must be a very strong person-much stronger than I am that's for sure! Whether I want to cry or not it just happens to me.
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@yalul070 (1713)
• Manila, Philippines
25 Apr 16
@annierose good that you're stronger now. I want to cry, as well. It's just that I can't even if I try.
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
21 Apr 16
I've been on writing sites for 16 years. I've never become emotional in an online discussion. My fingers have often itched to give someone a piece of my mind but I've always been able to restrain myself. It's not worth it. I've watched online fights from afar. They can soon turn nasty. But one has always to keep in mind that this is not real life.
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@annierose (21588)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
I have noticed that women are more emotional than men. Men tried to keep what they feel by themselves only. They also do not open up if they have problems unlike women. We are vocal when it comes to our feelings.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@MALUSE I already knew your a much stronger person than I am. My emotions get the best of me at times, I'm a very sensitive/emotional person.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@DianneN Yeah me too, a little too much at times I think.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
22 Apr 16
When I am not feeling good I come here. A good distraction talking about various things. If something upsets me here that is when I take a break.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@Daljinder Yeah that is what I do most of the time too but the responses I was getting was upsetting me more so I had to take a break for a bit.
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@kspanuga (43)
• Olongapo, Philippines
22 Apr 16
Of course, we are just humans and emotions can be up and down and will definitely affects your day..But I hope you reasons are not as hard as others are suffering right now.. And most importantly, not as bad like having serious ailments or something...My Lot is supposed to be here to have people to listen to your thoughts that sometimes youa re hesitant to share with people you know..As they say, sometimes, it is more comfortable unloading to strangers...
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@annierose (21588)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
I find it more comfortable to burst out my feelings here in mylot where people do not know me much.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@kspanuga No nothing too serious, just exhaustion and some unnecessary comments from people. Things that I can easily overcome. =)
@LeaPea2417 (37337)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Apr 16
Yes, my emotions do sometimes get the best of me. In the past couple of days, someone, totally embarrassed me to the point that I wish I could change my look, change my name and move to another country! I wish I could go into detail here, but I just can't.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@Leapea2417 I am so sorry! I hate the feeling of being embarrassed so much. I hope whatever happened that it gets better for you.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
23 Apr 16
Not on line, not on mylot, there are a lot of people who say things I don't think are appropriate or nexessary but I just move on and leave them behind. Don't let anyone get you in an unhappy place. Realize we are from all over the world, and what I believe might not be the same that someone else would believe. Don't let anyone make you go...ever!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@PainsOnSlate Thank you so much for your kind words. Most days I just let it go and it doesn't bother me much but on an emotional day like i was having it hurt me. I let it hurt me, I don't usually but I did. I think lack of sleep, the time of month and stress all had something to do with my emotions.
But I am feeling much better now, thank you!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Apr 16
@PainsOnSlate Yeah its always pretty hectic in my life. Lol. Most days i cope fine, other days not so much.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
24 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies I will admit I am much calmer with age than I was when living in your shoes with babies and all that other stuff, at my age there is no drama in my life and I will admit I love it like that.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Apr 16
@KristenH Yeah that is how I am today. I think its partly due to lack of sleep, the time of the month and a couple offline things going on. Hopefully it will pass soon. =)
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@KristenH (33377)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
21 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies I can so relate to that, Jen.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@shshiju Yes it is but sometimes I hate it.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
22 Apr 16
I have often said and believe it completely, what doesn't matter to one person matters to another. So basically everything matters when it matters to only one person. Hope you feel better today.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@fishtiger58 Yes people should realize that more often that different things matter to everyone, and all of our feelings count. I am feeling better thank you.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
23 Apr 16
@LovingMyBabies while my hubby is a great guy, if something doesn't matter to him then it doesn't matter. We have had our share of arguments about this very thing, Women feel differently then men do, so things that upset us are nothing to men.
@Angel_15 (670)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Apr 16
Sometimes. About two weeks ago I almost got into trouble with my boss. I said something bad about the company because I was upset with something that my boss told me. Lucky for me she did not make my comment a big issue. She knows it's true anyway, that the company is not taking care of us well.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Apr 16
@Angel_15 Oh that's not good but I am glad you didn't get in trouble or anything. I have done that before too-expressed concern and went a little too far.
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