Who is your parents' favorite?

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@youless (112742)
Guangzhou, China
April 21, 2016 10:56pm CST
I wonder who is your parents' favorite? Your children? Your spouse? Your siblings? You? I think my son is my parents' favorite. They adore him much more. Perhaps they are old and my son is little.
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
My parents didn't play favorites , but it was a bit obvious that father likes two of us , who get the highest honors when we were just students .
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 16
Sometimes it is hard to be fair
youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 16
Sometimes it is too difficult to be fair to everybody.
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
@youless Yes, because somehow you like someone who is kinder and obedient to you .
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scheng1
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
22 Apr 16
That is good, and I think your son will tell your parents everything, including things that he will not tell you. I think it is natural for grandparents to love their grandchildren.
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Apr 16
No, actually I am still the closest one to my son. He often tells me his stuff rather than anybody else. Sorry that my parent's spoiling doesn't win his heart
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Apr 16
@scheng1 In fact kids prefer adults to play with them much more. Spoiling is not a very good method. I've spent long time with my son, so we will have a good relationship.
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scheng1
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
27 Apr 16
@youless That is nice! I think your parents have to work harder to spoil him!
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hoong143
@hoong143 (1397)
• Malaysia
3 May 16
I think my youngest brother is my parents' favorite. But, they don't agree about this. Haha...
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hoong143
@hoong143 (1397)
• Malaysia
4 May 16
@youless I think this is common for all the parents. In parents mind, the youngest is always very young and needs parents' protection.
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
4 May 16
It seems many parents adore the youngest child.
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ida123
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Apr 16
My parents don't have favorites, they treated us fairly and they love us all.
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 16
Perhaps they will be happier to see your eldest sister much more. I guess they haven't seen each other for a long time.
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ida123
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Apr 16
@youless Yes they are happy now because one of their children came home to visit them.
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katrine
@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
my siblings and my son..
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 16
They adore so many people but except for you? It doesn't make a sense
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katrine
@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
22 Apr 16
@youless yeah coz they are boys and my parents adore boys the most.. i don't know why.. haha!
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Shubhu
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
22 Apr 16
My parents' favourite is me and my brother,i.e. their children, and our happiness.
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Apr 16
That's nice.
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Shubhu
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
27 Apr 16
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Yuki
@yukimori (10158)
• United States
22 Apr 16
Mine are more concerned with themselves than anyone else. *shrug* Their choice, and honestly I'm glad since it means I don't have to deal with them forcing their toxicity on me and my family.
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 16
That's good.
Fleur
@Fleura (31006)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr 16
I'm an only child and I still don't think I was my parents' favourite!
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Apr 16
Perhaps your parents are strict to you and they don't know how to express their love to you.
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Xuena Jia
@nanachinese (121)
• China
22 Apr 16
They only like themselves.Looking after my son do not interest them,but they have to do.
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youless
@youless (112742)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 16
I am a little surprised to hear that. As usually grand parents are very sacrificied in China.
Xuena Jia
@nanachinese (121)
• China
22 Apr 16
@youless But it is true,I have an abnormal parents-in-law.Since my child birth,I am very tired,I look after my child without their help.I work at day and look after my child at night.
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