My babys father left us and I dont know what to do

Going to Church and social services would be best. Then start trying for actual work. I hope all gets better for you. Baby sitting, house sitting. Can you do that?

I'm sorry about the situation you find yourself in, but I'm afraid that you won't earn much here. However I realise that every little helps, so read and comment on lots of other people's posts, and that will get you known. Then when they reply or respond to your own posts (as I'm doing now) you will earn. Have you no Social Services that you can go to for help? Good luck.

Wow! What practical advise can I give you? What would I do if I was in your shoes? * Pray * Read the Bible for comfort * Contact the government and ask for help * Some churches and religious organizations help out people in your situation * Welfare services * Your family, his family Keep a positive attitude and don't give up hope!

I am sorry for your present situation . Don't you have a way of getting a free legal aid so you can make your husband give you a monthly sustenance for your baby at least ?

By writing, it shows you're ready to do something by yourself, and that is a positive move towards your fully Independence. Try blogjob.com too, you may earn some decent cash there if you're good in blogging...

I would start with your local church. Is there a Catholic church in your area? They may be able to help or at least send you to someone who can.

hello. ive read some of the comments and theyre good and i would tell you almost the same. dont be saddened for long okay, you have your baby with you to feed so keep going. God be with you. take care..

My heart bleeds for those who are left in such a situation. That is why I feel every woman should be independent, capable of earning her two square meals, and pay for her rent and utilities and levery even if she can't have enough to save for retirement. Coming to your situation...there are many missing factors here. Obviously, nobody can help you with the required amount. You can cut down on some, borrow some, get some charity, get some government allowance, and earn some. Prepare a budget for your requirements. Do not forget you would need transportation charges. And stressing yourself over financial worries is not going to help you, your baby or your family. Financial problems can be overcome, health problems are difficult to overcome. So remember that. 1. Cut down on rent and utilities by going to family, yours or his. Can you do this? Family can be a great support in such times. They take care of the child, while you are trying to earn, and they also give you a place to stay, accommodate you sort of. Remember, you would need Internet connection. If that is not possible, look to organizations such as YWCA. 2. Borrow the laptop for longer time from the neighbor, duly giving her your parent's address. Or suggest you will pay a nominal amount at the end of a longer time frame..preferably payable when able. 3. Go to churches and charities. They can give immediate relief for babies and guide you towards any medical facilities where any medical treatment for children, if needed, will be free. They can also help in beating down school fees if any. They might also give you references to various jobs. 4. Use laptop to earn for your upkeep and any deficit that remains for the baby apart from looking for whole time job. One thing I have learned from my experience. Financial problems are situations that allow others to exploit. Try not to take up anything below your potential. Once you agree to lower pay, the tag remains for lifetime. So when you quote expected emoluments in your bio-data, make sure you quote reasonable amount so that even if it is beaten down to some extent, you are still in financially safe territory. Do not, I repeat, do not let your prospective employers or others know why you are looking for the job. Even colleagues. It helps to get reasonable increments. 5. Try some of the online sites to earn. If you are confident of your English you might want to earn from sites such as iwriter, freelancer, odesk, blogjob. Blogging is an alternative. You might want to do that. Read online how to go about it. In a span of three to five years you can earn some supplemental income from it. 6. Try to get help from government and seek help from church how to get some child support for the child from the father of the child. Churches often help in such matters.

Wow, I'm very sorry to hear that. I have been single on and off my marriage and I have no income so I know how you feel. Prayers

First, you should apply for whatever type of assistance you can get... I don't know much about assistance programs in Mexico, but I do know there are some that are similar to the ones in the U.S. You should also file for child support against the father of your child. (You might qualify for emergency aid to help you pay your rent, as well.)

Wow sorry to hear about your situation. I have read others comments and feel I have very little to offer in terms of advices. I think everyone else seemed to have covered the most immediate options. I hope your situation improves and you're able to find support either from family, government, or church/community soon.

I pity you and your baby. if only we're neighbors, you can surely have my help.Just pray so hard talk to God to guide you the right solution of your problem.Better tell your parents and your in laws.Also, approach your public lawyer for financial support of your baby's father. Sue him in court.

How about earning on offline jobs? I know you have a young kid, but it is good too to let a member of your family take care of your kid while you search for a job. Online jobs take time to withdraw your pay out.

Do you have family that can help you?

I would definitely go to social services and see what they can offer you. I would do it today.

Hi friend, I know this was a long time ago, but how is it going with the Mexican government? Is there an answer for single mothers? Any economic plan that helps them? I am Venezuelan and I am also a single mother of two children, one of 4 years and another of 3 months, I work online in whatever comes out, on the internet there are many jobs as in Spare5 and Figure...

I'm not sure which state you are in but I know in my state there is government assistance you can receive. SNAP(foodstamps), TEA which is like money they give you and put you in the process of getting a job then once you get a job over months you pay them back, child care and child care assistance, child support, HUD/Section 8, and things that help with paying bills such as electric and gas and water. Call churches and food pantries and see if they can help with anything or possible would with diapers and toileries until you can get on your feet. It's going to be tough but you can do it, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise.