Pros of being Single

@miyaford (295)
Nashville, Tennessee
April 24, 2016 8:00pm CST
Are you happy being single? I am! I do not need to be in a relationship with anyone to be happy or content with myself and/or my life. I am happy cuddling with my 2 year old daughter at night time. I am happy rolling over to my 2 year old and telling her good morning. I am happy just making a meal for my kids and I. I am happy that I do not have to hear snoring at night or arguing with someone through out the day. I do not care what you say everybody have arguments in their relationship with whomever. I do not have to get dressed and look appropriate if I do not want to. I am happy that I do not have to worry about what my significant other is doing when he is not around me and I am grateful that I o not have to deal with someone asking me a million and one questions about my whereabouts. I do not have to walk around the house because someone is there that is getting on my last nerves. Being single is not the way I will be forever but it is my current situation for now and I am cool with.
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Toni
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
You have no reason not to be happy. Happiness is a choice and I read something that says to be happy you shouldn't have a reason for it, coz when that reason is gone, happiness will too.
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Miya Ford
@miyaford (295)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Apr 16
I do agree and happiness comes from with in. You have to be happy with yourself before trying to be happy with someone else.
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Toni
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
@miyaford Surely because that's how it is supposed to be.
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Curlann
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
We have the power to choose if we want to be happy or not. It is always better to choose happiness for it is good. Life should not be wasted by focusing much attention on things that give us negative emotions.
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John Roberts
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Apr 16
Being single is like being captain of your own ship. You answer to no one and can eat when you want and watch what you want.
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Miya Ford
@miyaford (295)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Apr 16
Those are some of the important aspects that I enjoy while being single because when you become official things quickly change.
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Babygirlrae
@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
26 Apr 16
Most of the time I miss being single.
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Miya Ford
@miyaford (295)
• Nashville, Tennessee
26 Apr 16
You have more freedom to do what you want and be able to enjoy yourself. Don't get me wrong I do not think that being in a relationship is all bad. There are just things that you can do as a single person that you cannot do being in a relationship or being married.
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Babygirlrae
@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
26 Apr 16
@miyaford Yeah but most of the time I get my way anyways lol.
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
If we can only download happiness. Like an app.
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
@miyaford I hope it's for a reasonable price. Many people want to be happy.
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Sunrise Fan
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
Yes there's a happiness app and it's downloadable for free.
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Miya Ford
@miyaford (295)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Apr 16
OMG that would be great! I bet it wouldn't be a free down load. I wonder how much would they charge for the app. Food For Thought.
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Avinash
@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
25 Apr 16
After reading this, I wish I could get back my single days.
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Avinash
@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
25 Apr 16
@miyaford Because I was living such life few months back until I lost my singlehood..lol
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Miya Ford
@miyaford (295)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Apr 16
LOL thats funny. Why do you say that?
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Drew365
@mlot123 (120)
• Australia
25 Apr 16
I hear ya. I've been single for more years in my adult life than with a partner. And to be honest its much easier. Perhaps I haven't found the right person yet who accepts me for who I am and has enough of a life of their own to give me my own space.
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Drew365
@mlot123 (120)
• Australia
25 Apr 16
@miyaford Ah, well then, tale some time to enjoy it .
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Miya Ford
@miyaford (295)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Apr 16
No see, I'm the opposite. I have been in relationships more than I have been single. I have not even been single long so far, but all I know is that it feels good at this moment.
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maezee
@maezee (41988)
• United States
25 Apr 16
There is definitely give and take with being single. Im glad that you are happy with your situation now!
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Kevin
@kevin1877uk (36988)
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25 Apr 16
No not happy being single, but happy with everything else more of less, could do with more cash and my own place but other than that I'm good.
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Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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25 Apr 16
I think the benefit is from financial side. because unless you have strong job. marriage can't be that easy. because if both partners are working then things can be good enough. otherwise too hard.
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Cindy Tolbert
@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Apr 16
I loved being single too and then I thought I wanted to be married again after 20 yrs. I was wrong, I was happier being single.
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Cindy Tolbert
@cintol (11261)
• United States
27 Apr 16
@miyaford Yes, its nice to have someone there but its also nice to have alone time as well.
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Miya Ford
@miyaford (295)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Apr 16
I honestly love the fact that I do not have to be around anyone unless I choose to because I remember days when I was in a relationship and all I wanted was for my boyfriend to exit the scene.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (341826)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Apr 16
It's good if you can be content on your own if that's what life is at the moment.
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Shiva
@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
25 Apr 16
It depends on the circumstances - there are many who are happy anyways - siva
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minisam
@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
25 Apr 16
I did not like it 1 bit being single although i was single for a long time before i met my husband.Yes i like that when i turn in bed at night he`s there, when i need to scream at someone he`s there(we don't scream at each other)
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Timmsenne
@Timmsenne (144)
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25 Apr 16
You can be happy if it is your choice to stay single. If you just single but does not want to you will not be happy i think
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joy
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
having a partner is just an addition to our happiness anyway. we dont depend on it. carry on and dont ever wipe that smile on your face.
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Curlann
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
That is what we call "positivity". So rather than harbor on sad and disappointing matters, it is much better to look for the bright side of life. It has so much to offer. This is a wonderful life and we have to spend it to its fullest because life is short. Be thankful always and think that everything happens for a reason. God has a big plan for you.
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iamscribbler
@imravi (2337)
• India
25 Apr 16
It depends on the situations of one's life but i am happy that you don't need anyone to complete you as you feel happy with your daughter only. Wish you good luck.
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Pinay Ako
@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
I am single, no kids and happy. It's my choice.
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newest
@newest1 (295)
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25 Apr 16
That is a good point
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Nehal intodia
@gochunehal (782)
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25 Apr 16
I think you are such a strong lady.. Cause in life whatever we do we need somebody to share our feelings.... We need to suggest and advice to each other but being single is just another fun and it shows how strong you are from inside..
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