Will you accept the baby ?

India
April 25, 2016 2:20am CST
Hi, Let me put you in situation, few days ago, you went to bar - had too much of alcohol and next morning you come to know you are sleeping with a guy - a girl. Let me put situation gender wise - If you are a male - Today you get a call from Unknown number telling that she is having a baby because of what you did that day. What you will do? If you are female - Today you come to know that you are pregnant - Now how you are going to react -- since you know you had se* only once with a unknown man. What you will do ? For both - What will be your first reaction ? Ultimate question - Will you accept the surprise and give-(allow to give) birth to surprise.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
25 Apr 16
If I was a woman, I would be surprised to be pregnant at 57 years old. A good girl does not drink too much and does not sleep at first date. I definitely request a DNA test before taking a decision.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Apr 16
he did not mention "good" anywhere
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Apr 16
@topffer She was probably too drunk to remember that
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@topffer (42156)
• France
25 Apr 16
@thesids Not drunk at the point to not take note of my phone number.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Apr 16
Dont tell me next that it is you
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Apr 16
@topffer Darn... Friends provide everything for free... even consultations
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@topffer (42156)
• France
25 Apr 16
@thesids Sure, but maybe we should ask something now : he will have to keep all his money for his child support during the next 20 years.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
25 Apr 16
I also think that he is sneakily consulting us.
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@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
My reaction will be to buy a hundred more pregnancy test ro make sure i am pregnant and not just drunk.. And when it is confirmed and i cant ever deny it then, ill go to the guy, knock at his door and ask him to go to the doc tell him am pregnant and ill ask the doc to perform a dna test. Ill have to give him proof so he cant ran away.haha. So i can claim a child support... If he doesnt wanna marry me.. And ohhh maybe ill cut his balls.. :p kidding.
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
1 May 16
Now....what if the guy wants the baby...would you consider surrendering it?
@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
1 May 16
@vandana7 nope.why would i surrender it? And the laws will be on my favor since he is still a baby and i am well capable of providingfor him.
@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
1 May 16
@vandana7 nope.why would i surrender the baby? And the laws will be on my favor since he is still a baby and i am well capable of providingfor him.
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• Philippines
25 Apr 16
well, if my memory serves me right, i never really experience one night stand.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
What if you were drunk and just did not remember it? LOL!
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@rona07 (1641)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
@sunrisefan good point ahahaha
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
1 May 16
You mean to say something could have happened without your knowledge.. oh Letran...lol
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
25 Apr 16
If you do something you have to take the consequences but I'd certainly get a DNA test before accepting parental responsibility.
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
1 May 16
Nice to know that you won't escape the responsibility if it is yours. :)
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• India
29 Apr 16
Playing smart in such situations, you can surely going to manage pressure situations
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25 Apr 16
We should not drink too much that then we will forget what we had done last night..
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• India
29 Apr 16
When you drink for first time you never know when you are high! So it is always advisable to have it only one or two sip... And not more then that.
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
25 Apr 16
You asked a serious question, yes, I will keep the baby. I love babies...remember? It is only when they start going to school that I have problems..coz I am not smart enough to deal with them then. lol
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
25 Apr 16
@thesids ... That and many other things...they get their knowledge...which is what is dangerous..
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Apr 16
@vandana7 Oh no. Does that mean,this kid right here, on this box, is dangerous or he does not have any knowledge?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Apr 16
It is only when they start going to school that I have problems..coz I am not smart enough to deal with them then "early to bed and early to rise" ?
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
30 Apr 16
Well, since I am no longer fertile, I would start laughing at whoever made the mistake with the DNA test, my King. The funny thing is that this happened to me when I was 30 years old. I was not fertile then, either. I actually told the poor girl that she had made a mistake. She insisted I was the father to her unborn child. The situation was not pretty. She wouldn't believe me, even though I took her proof that the baby could not be mine. She sued me in court. I took the same proof to the judge and he dismissed her case. I really felt bad for her. If there had been any chance that the baby was mine, I would have offered to help pay for the birth and insisted on being in my child's life. (I probably would have sought full custody of the child. I would not have allowed the lawsuit to stay in court for long.That is too hard on the people involved in the court suit.)
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
8 May 16
@UR_Forever_Raja Uhhh.... no, Raja, I do not need to have my fertility tested ever again. I had a vasectomy when I was 23 years old, right after my daughter, Pretty, was born. I tested negative for fertility then and again when I was 30 years old. There is no chance that could change... Not with the method used on me. Take my word for that, please. I can quote you the odds of me ever becoming fertile again, even with a doctor's assistance. They are very poor odds! SMH! (grinning at you!) If you were hoping I might have another child so you could corrupt him/her, I am sorry! It ain't gonna happen, my King!
@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
8 May 16
@UR_Forever_Raja I am quite happy to see you on myLot! I was honestly getting a bit worried about you... What have you been doing that occupied all your time? Anything you can tell me about? Or should I
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• India
8 May 16
I heard a 60 year old having a baby in India recently. So well you need to test your fertility again Nurse was surely making fun of you with saying you are not fertile any more So you drunk and .... That's a evil daddy
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
One night stand dilemma.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
Awww that's a tough question. Maybe I have to inform the man that we are having a baby.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
25 Apr 16
Best thing to do is have a DNA test LOL!
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• India
29 Apr 16
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@Skrysekh (88)
29 Apr 16
as a male i'd ask her to get an abortion. if she doesen't want i'd take the case to court. Also uso as my attack the phrase "A woman wich sleeps with a drunk guy at first Meeting and has a child with him would make a good mother?"
• India
8 May 16
Both were drunk