He said no.

@Lucky15 (37374)
Philippines
April 29, 2016 5:57am CST
Can i take this? He said no. How about this one? Still no. When i pass the entrance exam here in the nearest university, i listed three courses. Courses i want to take up. Pol. Sci., criminology and accountancy. I asked.my father about what he can say about the courses. He knew why i listed pol. Sci, so he said no, no budget(he smelled of prep to law, lol). Criminology, no, for he said his sons will continue his legacy though another prep to law. Accountancy, he just said yes. And i am okay with it. Not to please him but i am.quite interested with it. And eventually love the course, that i cried a river when i didn't made the cut on my third year. As i look back, my father have given me a favor, as if he prepared me to what i am now. Ahh... i miss him. He is one great father, who tried everything to send his 13 kids to school. Have you had listened to your father when he gives you advice?
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
Don't take criminology, you might end up being a criminal :) You better just take a glass of water LOL!
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
Hahahaha. Did you water the plants?
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
@Lucky15 Sure, and as always, it takes 2 hours or more :)
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
@sunrisefan what? Is that like a hacienda?
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
is law school as expensive as med school? how different is mgt accounting to accounting? no licensure exam?
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• Philippines
30 Apr 16
@Lucky15 oh, you were disappointed with "lesser acctg subjects?" hahaha!
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
@hereandthere i am. Wanted to take the government acctg
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
Law school can be expensive...with books and tuition. Not sureif they are the same with med. Yep. No exam...and lesser acctg subjects ;)
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
of course. a father is a father is father. but he agreed on my course.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
He think of.me taking courses prep to law.and he has still 3 more.who will be in college
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
@ridingbet accoutancy...but graduated.mgt accounting
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
@Lucky15 so, what is your final college course, my dear?
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
My father did not say anything about the course I wanted to take up but my mother wanted me to take up Nursing just like my sister but I didn't like it. He seldom gives me advice. Accountancy? hihihi It wasn't my first choice.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
Me too. Haha. Why no for nursing?
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
@Lucky15 I am afraid of blood. LOL And of course, aside from that, I don't like their work and I am not good with memorization. hihihi I wanted to take up Architecture or Engineering. haha
@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
29 Apr 16
My father let me choose what I wanted to study. That is quite a feat to put that many children through school. You are blessed.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
With his pension coming monthly, sending us to school is just hard. He once told me, he is proud of himself.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
@AnneEJ will always be grateful
@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
30 Apr 16
@Lucky15 And you all should be proud of him and thankful for his care
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
30 Apr 16
My parents did not influence me in my course but i'm happy with what i achieved academically.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
@trivia79 ahmm. Yep
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
And i am happy that you take them :)
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
30 Apr 16
@Lucky15 i have a question, is it you in your avatar?
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
13 kids? Such a big family. We're only three. But my Dad has always been hands on to all of us especially to me.
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@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
@Lucky15 Oh I see,
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
Yeah. Haha. My father.is just relying on hispension when i was in college so..
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@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
He was gone before he could even see me make his dream come true.
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• Philippines
29 Apr 16
Sorry to even read this @toniganzon
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
Aww
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
29 Apr 16
@Lucky15,My father asks me what subject I am interested in.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
29 Apr 16
@Lucky15 He has always supported my choices.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
That is a nice start
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
29 Apr 16
Of course I would have listened to my father and this is what I did when I was young.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
1 May 16
@Lucky15 You are right, even if not always we can understand.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
Follwoing them maybe hard at times but they knew the best ;)
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Apr 16
Yes, but not all. He chooses my course, I like nursing but he doesn't want it because we have already a nurse so he told me to take up accountancy and I did.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
29 Apr 16
My mom would want me to take nursing...i said no
29 Apr 16
Nurse, no money
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
29 Apr 16
My father was a smart man, like yours. But when it came to very important issues, I rarely took his advice. And I've lived to regret that. I wasn't the smartest kid in the world. lol Your father was so amazing being able to help 13 kids! Wow!
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
30 Apr 16
@Lucky15 LOL!!!!!
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
And i am glad that he never think of looking for other women when he was assigned.somwhere far. Haha
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@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
No matter what you are going through, always give it your best... if other people can do it, why can't you? I hope you all the best in your life
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
Indeed
30 Apr 16
Mam you have to listen to your own inner voice. Just follow your heart. Its your life. Live the way you want to live it. I personally never listen to my father.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
He did a favor...he led me to listening mybheart
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30 Apr 16
@Lucky15 In that case it is very good.
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@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
29 Apr 16
It's good that you like accountancy as well. I have friends that were forced to follow their parents' choices, and they suffered a lot while in the university, as it's really not their interest at all. Yes, I think your father is really great, as he raised 13 kids and sent them to school as well. Perhaps my parents also like the course I chose (Electrical Engineering, then IT), so they agreed with me. I do listen to my father sometimes, but I also like to go on my own way, glad that he always supports me though he might not agree with me totally.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
Sometimes we can not understand some stuff.nect thing we know, we are being prepared for something great.
• Preston, England
29 Apr 16
my dad generally advised me never to trust others or take anything for granted - I wish I'd listened more closely
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
If there is one advice of his i will keep, it will be...know your rights, others' rights but know your laws too
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
29 Apr 16
I am not sure my father ever gave me any advice but I loved him anyway.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
We love our fathers in our own way ;)
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@LeaPea2417 (37379)
• Toccoa, Georgia
29 Apr 16
I do try to listen to my Father's advice.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
That is great. I know our father knows the best sometimes :)
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• United States
29 Apr 16
i'm glad that he was there to guide'ja 'n offer such advice. 's fer myself? mine rarely spoke to me, so no ma'am, i didn't listen when he did.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
Awww
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@rina110383 (24492)
29 Apr 16
I'm lucky that the course(s) I wanted then are similar with what my dad wanted me to pursue.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Apr 16
That is great. ;)
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