Taking Someone for a Second Chance / myLot

Philippines

May 4, 2016 3:51am CST

Life does not always promise us that things will always be at its best. People we love usually hurt, disappoint and break us into pieces. When that happens, are you the type who easily forgive and take that someone in again your life? It is not easy to forgive especially when you feel that you are betrayed by the person whom you fully trusted, all the more to forget the deed that has been done. But what if that person asks for another chance. Would you take that person in again? Will you ever trust again?

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destimona safrina

@destimona (1910)

• Luxembourg, Luxembourg

4 May 16

Its definitely hard.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

I know because I have been there.

Sanaa Agrawal

@Sweetsona (300)

• India

4 May 16

I jst know that u got to trust ur instinct.. If u think dey deserve, gv dm another chance.. If dey repeat, dnt gv third chance.. Its btr dan to regret whole life what if dey had really changed

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

True enough. We have to be patient and wait.

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Sanaa Agrawal

@Sweetsona (300)

• India

12 May 16

@cherigucchi good luck

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joy

@MGjhaud (23240)

• Philippines

4 May 16

if he was a former lover, no i wouldnt (as lover) but i would as a friend.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

I got your point but there are cases that we cannot even offer friendship to lovers. Just saying.

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joy

@MGjhaud (23240)

• Philippines

12 May 16

not in my case though but yes, some people find it impossible or hard.

marcyaz

@Marcyaz (35316)

• United States

4 May 16

Depending on what it is you can forgive and forget or not.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

That is right. It depends as well in the situation and the gravity of the cause.

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Sky

@skysnap (20153)

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4 May 16

I think having faith is good. because if we don't give second chance to people. we don't grow too.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

That is a good point. In giving others a chance we are also giving ourselves the same thing.

Sky

@skysnap (20153)

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12 May 16

@cherigucchi true we grow if we keep up with the people around us. :)

Kimberley

@mom210 (9115)

• United States

11 May 16

Sometimes it takes awhile but I think we do trust again after a bad experience.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

That is true. It always takes a long process at times.

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Sreekala

@Sreekala (34312)

• India

4 May 16

It is hard to restore once the trust is shaken. I believe if there is no trust then no reason to continue. I don't think I will give another chance to get me hurt again. Since I don't know about the whole story I can't judge here. Think well and listen to your inner mind. You will be able to take a great decision.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

I understand your point because I have been through the same situation.

rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90721)

• Philippines

4 May 16

It depends , if he is sincere in making good this time around .

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

That is right. It does take time to prove it.

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Rona

@rona07 (1641)

• Philippines

4 May 16

Yeah maybe i will give a chance.. People do make mistakes and sometimes people learn from it. So if they ask for a chance i might as well give it. Coz what if he is sincere and what if he really changed. I have to give it a try..

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

True enough. Sincerity is an important factor.

zaga_cleuth

@zaga_cleuth (1407)

• Philippines

4 May 16

I can easily forgive the sin but it's hard for me to forget the sin.

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cherigucchi

@cherigucchi (14876)

• Philippines

12 May 16

I feel the same way.