Emailing Someone

@00fear (3216)
United States
May 10, 2016 10:11pm CST
Hi, I am here because I may be one of the most sensitive person in the world, lol. What would you do, putting in your shoes, tell them something, ignore it and leave it because it might be their personal emotions that kicked in, or anything? Ok this is what I mean, supposed you are with friends of 4 (the reason I am being specific with low number is so it won't be an excuse as, "it's because there's too much I can't keep up" etc) people and they hangout, they are nice to you, and you're pretty involved. When it comes to emailing them you don't get a reply so you think they probably don't check their emails anymore or maybe you said something silly. One day though after you reply to them and you haven't gotten a reply, you are there with them and they know you're there at the time when they tell each other, the person who you tried emailing and never replied to you, tells another friend like "oh that email you sent me, was pretty cool," or "hey, did you get my response to your email?" What would you do if you notice they get replies to their emails...and they're not important or urgant, they're just silly friendly emails? I have done that and it happened to me. Where I'll be emailing this person and she emailed me back for a while then stopped and tried again then from there, she completely stopped. I admit that I have weird thoughts and weird conversations that they may not know how to response but I told them that I accept honest truth in my reply, better than to just read my message and ignored because I feel I don't know. After they know that, it continues to that I always email them but they don't reply but when, even if they know I'm there with them, there will be others emailing them and they say what I said above "oh, I read your email and responded...." or to others (what I want from them when they are speechless), "hey I read your email but I didn't reply because...." She already knows how I feel and told me she'll take it to consideration and will reply back but still doesn't seem to reply when I told her, just tell the truth to what I emailed because I feel bad about not getting replies. I'd rather get reply and be told the truth and even after she took it into consideration...nope, no reply after an email sent and I still over hear her saying to others, "I got your email..." "I read but not responded because..." I have to admit it because her story sounded convincing, I started helping her out money-wise and then when I had to stop for a while...well even if I did find the answer why she doesn't reply anymore*gulp.* Others didn't really give anything even after her story but they get the attention. I don't mind helping her but if I ever do find out to what she said was a lie, I'm gonna have to stop and all lol. She has told me that I'm paranoid and I do have to admit that at times but still. She's still nice to me in person like it's always been but, yea. ...NO, JUST FRIENDLY EMAIL..NO GIRLFRIEND AND BOYFRIEND THING...OR WANTING TO OR ANYTHING. What would you guys do, be like "what the heck?" or "meh, he/she didn't reply, oh well." Thanks
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
11 May 16
Lot's of people just don't respond to emails and I know some people like that also and I don't care for it either. Why should I send anything if you aren't going to reply back with a lol or some such thing.
@00fear (3216)
• United States
22 May 16
Really? Just me being sensitive huh lol. Yeah, I don't know though lol. Thanks
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 May 16
@00fear Welcome and don't let things like that bother you so much.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Jan 20
Honestly, it depends on the e-mail. If it's information I need, I reply. If it's an info e-mail that doesn't need a reply like the church e-mail, I don't reply. If it's an e-mail sent to multiple people of a joke or something, I don't do anything.
@00fear (3216)
• United States
24 Jan 20
Yea, lol it was just jokes and all but I stopped worrying about her not replying lol.
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