Would you rather?
By Angela
@angtobeheard (276)
United States
7 responses
@AnnaAutopsy (705)
• United States
15 May 16
I would have to say this is the most difficult would you rather question I have been faced with. But, honestly? I personally believe that once people pass away, it is their time. I know we all want to see someone again who we have lost, and as hard as it is to accept that their gone. I would not bring anyone back just for my own needs, because I know that their time was up, and they are in a better place now. I would have to choose someone really important for my future because the future is all we have to look forward to, and if we keep looking back then we'll never get to where we are supposed to be.
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@angtobeheard (276)
• United States
15 May 16
Great answer. I sometimes tend to look back a lot. I need to work on that.
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@AnnaAutopsy (705)
• United States
15 May 16
@angtobeheard Thank you. We all do it, it's just human nature sometimes. It's easier to look back because it is familiar, the future is new territory and can be pretty frightening because we never know what's going to happen. But, if you enjoy the journey without thinking about the, "what ifs" then it can be a pretty fun ride.
@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
15 May 16
Well as much as I want to spend a day with my grandma again, I believe she's happily reunited with my grandpa in heaven. Even though I couldn't spend another day with her she will always stay in my heart and I will always hold dear her memories. That being said, I would want to see who is going to be there with me in the future.
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@angtobeheard (276)
• United States
15 May 16
I feel what you are saying about spending the day with your grandma. My grandma is with my grandpa as well. I also wouldn't mind bringing someone from my future. That way I can bypass all the bad boyfriends or friends and just look for that one. Would definitely save some heartache, but at the same time, I prob wouldn't cherish my important person, as I didn't have any bad ones.Thank you for commenting
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
16 May 16
@angtobeheard I like the idea of bypassing some heartaches. I've had too many already. I am getting worried that when the right one comes I'm too scarred already.
@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
15 May 16
@angtobeheard
Thank You for responding to my response. He is the only person I would like to have back in my life again.
@angtobeheard (276)
• United States
15 May 16
Sorry to hear about your husband. I can understand wanting to spend time with someone from your past. I would probably want mine to be my grandma. She was very influential in my life. Thank you for commenting.
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@renitaperrone (547)
• United States
16 May 16
Wow! You don't believe in easy questions, do you? :) That is really difficult but I think I'd have to say someone from my past because that would be someone I have treasured and would really value seeing them again. And I would hate to alter my future before it's time.
@renitaperrone (547)
• United States
16 May 16
@angtobeheard funny because as I read down the list I started thinking the same thing! I would dearly LOVE to see one of my grandma's and one of my grandpa's again. (one from each side). They both mean so much to me. But then after reading all the other comments I keep thinking that a) they wouldn't want to come back and b) it would make me deeply grieve all over again. So, I reserve the right to change my mind if the option ever actually opens! LOL
@angtobeheard (276)
• United States
16 May 16
Thank you... I try lol. I honestly don't know what I would do. At first I thought I would want to see my grandma but reading some of the other comments has really made me think alittle deeper. Thank you for commenting.
@quantum2020 (12041)
• Ciudad De Mexico, Mexico
15 May 16
I prefer to spend a day with someone in the future, as the past, in relation to friends and love, has not been too trascendental.
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@angtobeheard (276)
• United States
15 May 16
I can understand that. Thank you for commenting.
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